Princess Arabia

If I went to a bar and saw this guy like this I would think he was either gay, waiting for somebody, trying to hit on the bartender or just got divorced and feeling depressed.

@OldManCorcoranwould love to hear your thoughts (even though they are mine, lol) on the blind, the deaf and the dumb. They are still communicating and functioning in society with a little help, of course, as in the blind, with walking sticks and the deaf and dumb, sign language. I'm more referring to people who were born this way. How is this connected to what you're saying in the OP. I've always wondered why people are born with some of the senses missing. Seems like what you're saying is so, and that we aren't really using our senses, it only appears that way.

This is not how it works. If that was the case, most men who had something great happening inside them wouldn't have problems dating and women wouldn't end up with not-so-great men, which happens all the time. Also, maybe attraction cannot be taught but seduction can be, hence the book by Robet Greene, The Art of Seduction. It's a little bit more complicated than something great happening inside of you is how to attract women, Plenty of assholes attract women more so than nice guys.

Very powerful.

Happy Holidays to you and all forum members and guests. Thank you @Schizophonia same to you. @Leo GuraThank you for creating this forum and for making this possible. Enjoy the holidays everyone. Where's my gift? Yours is on the way. Check your emails. You: Checking emails.

Well, it's because of your narcissm why you failed to see through my dark humor.

Maybe you need to ask a question first.

Ok Mr. UUUUMMMM. That's my new name for you. Did you break your ankle Mr. UUUUMMMM. OK now let's not derail the thread.

Uuuummm could mean anything. Like uuuummmm hey there asshole.

I really didnt think you were him but it kinda had me guessing. That's the influence @Schizophonia has on my mind; always keeps me guessing. He's full of surprises and is always coming up with original thoughts and ideas which he likes to put on paper. Anyway, nice story and maybe you'll meet again someday.

@SchizophoniaI think you are @Mesopotamianin disguise. Your comment to me about how you're not interpreting anything, if I don't trust you and you explaining what happened behind the scenes, reveals that. But, I could be wrong. That comment made no sense coming from someone who didnt write the initial post. Then again, you make no sense half the time. You're also explaining what he didn't find attractive about her while non of this was in the original post.

You are missing the point. My life is a story and I'm not denying that. What I'm saying is the stuff the mind makes up about what we experience can cause mental pain and suffering. I'm talking about being deluded, wrong assumptions, ideas about a thing that are only fitting into our current paradigm and beliefs. They can cause us to enter into a world that doesn't exist but only in our minds. We have constructed that and now we've become alienated from Reality and not conscious. This is how you become present, this is how suffering stops or become drastically reduced. It takes a certain level of awareness to understand what I'm pointing to here. @Yimpathis is kind of what I'm talking about and referring to. Not precisely, but close enough. It just happened to pop up on my feed a few mins ago, I didn't go searching for it. This is kinda what I'm talking about, when you drop your stories and ideas and interpretations about life to a minimal, life begins to line up for you. It's an easier way to become aligned with Reality and be more into the flow state. It's like this video revealed itself to me right after having the conversation with you. It happens all the time. I see lots of synchronicities because of this practice.

How the hell do you know what happened behind the scenes. We're you there? Trust? Where did that come from. You're sounding like you are the OP himself..lol. I'm concerned with interpretations because it has caused me suffering no matter how small. Just like I see on this forum day in and day out, in my personal interactions with others and on the internet. It's like a plague. I don't sit around and wait to be magically free from mental slavery. I take responsibility and work to free myself from the bondage of the mind and interpretations are just that interpretations. I'm not interested in living interpretations. I'm interested in being present.

Thanks for proving my point even more. I never said she rejected him, nor did I say she wasn't intetested. He asked for contact info and none was given. THAT'S IT. Anything else we say after that is all stories, ideas about what happened and interpretations.

Lmao

Stories. Stories. Stories about what happened and your interpretation. If you notice in the second to last paragraph he said he expressed a wish to meet again, if fate allowed. To his surprise no exchange of contact information occurred. I don't need to interpret that. The sentence spoke for itself. He wanted a number and she didn't give it. Self explanatory. So your stories about wanting to fuck her and wasn't attracted by the whole thing (character, hobbies, skin color blah blah, are your stories and ideas about what happened), none of this was said in the OP. Goes to show, this is how we live our whole lives, interpreting and inventing stories that we have to keep building on about people and our ideas about what happened. Another reminder here for me. I see it everyday in myself and others. That's how the ego gets constructed. I'm on the look-out, believe me. All these things I'm being taught. I have to confirm for myself,most of them, and I'm seeing through most of them by just being aware and through observation. Now c'mon with your rebuttal. I even observed myself expecting a rebuttal, which I'll get just from expecting it. Hehe.

Well, I'm farting right now; and I'm having a deep connection and understanding that it's blowing away with the wind and it's bringing me joy. By, bye, now.

Here comes the continuous stories, excuses, assumptions and reasons why what you said isn't so. He will dissect your every sentence and put it through the court of law and explain to you, why he's the victim. The jury will find him not guilty by reason of sexless insanity and he will ask for a plea bargain because he didn't realize he was being set free.

How can I be here and there at the same time, but still be here and there simultaneously. Look at the names bar. I'm staring at the screen and the first name there is mine, Princess Arabia. I'm sitting on my couch, and my computer is showing me my name on a computer screen. Where am I? On my couch or inside the computer. Obviously it feels like I'm on my couch. So how am I seeing my name on the computer in live time. If I log off, my name isn't there anymore, but I'm still on my couch. I didn't move but I have been removed from what? Where? Inside the computer. I'm also seeing other user names that are logged on at the same time as me. There are discussions going on inside this computer I'm typing on right now, but I can't hear a word. I know there are discussions going on right now somewhere down the street that I can't hear, or is there. Are there really forum members interacting with each other as I'm typing this? My room is very quiet and all i can hear is rain drizzling but you guys are still talking amongst each other, but i can't see or hear anything. It's all happening inside this computer right now, or is it? This is fucking amazing. How so much can seem to be happening inside this computer, when if I was to smash it to pieces, you guys will still be there. Or will you. Are you even there now. Not sure if this is proof of no-self or not but it reveals something extraordinary and shows me that I'm actually not actually here or there, but everywhere and nowhere all at once.

He won't understand this. He keeps fighting everyone that tells him this with a bunch of excuses and poetry.

Ear plugs imaginary, sense organs imaginary, ears imaginary, music imaginary, the club imaginary, the people in the club imaginary, you imaginary, everything imaginary except your deaf ass ears.

I think you've been doing too much psychedelics lately..lol.

People's denial to these Truths, especially in an arrogant or aggressive way, and with no basis for their denial, usually tells me something. The way you acted towards Solipsism, true or not, says more than what the ears hear. I've noticed this a lot with people on these kinds of topics including politics. If you tell someone they are God, and they respond with anger and aggressive denial, speaks volumes. People will deny stuff just out of the blue without questioning far out claims. People that laugh it off and call you crazy and move on are more prone to not have a clue; but when you're met with anger and aggression, there's something they know deep down in their psyche but just refuse to acknowledge it.The devil needs to be comfortable doing it's work first and keep denying until it's ready. .

Even important things. Even more so. Love the "intentions" part.