Princess Arabia

Your whole narrative on this thread is the most sense I've seen you made in this section thus far. (respectfully saying). I've seen where you've commented on other topics quite "sensefully"(sic), but the dating section is usually quite controversial with you. I can't agree with you more here, and even though I'm not a male, what you're saying makes sense.

Lol. True.

People that live on planet earth have and share more similar interests than those who live on Saturn. Humans that have two feet share more in common than those who only have one. People who listen to rap music share the same interests and have more in common than people that listen to head banging music. I mean, I could keep going with this. This is a sameness VS differences situation. You have taken this philosophy or whatever you call it and twisted it around an it has lost all context. There are people here who never view the Spirituality section, some never comment on the dating section, the political section the intellectual section. Never ever. Some only comment on one section; and like me, are all over the place but mostly spiritual health and dating. There are people from different countries with different ethnicities, nationalities and race. People with opposite views on the same topics. The only thing in common that each and everyone of the users here share is that we are human and I'm not even sure about that, but that's another discussion.

Hey, it's all about making money and these YT channels are surely cashing in, There's a female right now eyeing some of these dudes but their mind is on making it a special night out to do cold approach. Some of my best dates came spontaneously and without any formal approaching, just plain old sexual attraction and fun times.

omg, funniest comment ever. Leo just knows too much. He's not a grump. Too much multiplications, divisions, subtractions and square roots going on in that big forehead of his. Always thinking and contemplating, always skeptical about his own shit and his mind bullshitting him. Always mistrusting his own judgements and calling out the wrong kinda bullshit, and he'd be like, hey wtf, shut the hell up mind, i don't like you, you're always steering me in the wrong direction. I didn't wanna go there but you made me do this shit. So now he hates human bullshit 'cause he knows it's the collective consciousness that's responsible for his fuck-ups. Oh my! Now he's really gonna can't stand human bullshit especially mine.

Yes, I very rarely take men that approach me on a whim Hoff, seriously. Most of my dates in the past came from just regular guys that were spur of the moment kind of thing. I'll give a few examples. Once I went to a facility and the guy at the desk was kind of handsome and we were just talking regularly chit chat and he asked for my number just casually at the end of the convo. Rest is history. Another time, just a regular guy in the neighborhood and we hooked up through just seeing each other on the street and exchanged numbers. He didn't approach formally approached and I wasn't looking for a date, just normal stuff. Another time was just through mutual friend and a house party, I mean just normal shit. Not when a strange guy says, hi, I like your outfit would you like to hang out sometime. Idk. How do I know that. I never even knew this was a coordinated thing amongst males till I got on this forum. To be honest, I never even realized it was so hard for guys to get dates, it was always an assumption of mine that women were the ones finding a hard time because we don't approach men and there were so many women to pick from. Just like how guys are assuming shit about women, women are also assuming shit about the game. I always thought how lucky men were to have their pick because women had to wait until approached for not seeming pushy. This shit is news to me.

Yea, but in this case, you're only getting good at approaching. Nothing to do with success. Getting good at the type of women to approach and how to handle the approach is worth a lot more than how much you approach. No? Just asking.

Many times I've played games I know nothing about or first time player and beat the shit out the pros's. It's called beginner's luck. Chess is different though.

You did the best you could by limiting the amount of talk time we have on here per day, which I've come across a few times with my blabbermouth. Hehe.

You go to church, same thing, school and college, same thing, neighborhoods same thing, political venues same thing, courts moderate the same thing, families same thing, clubs and bars, same thing. Name one place where humans congregate and it's not the same thing. Maybe in the library, but they're probably reading about it. Lol. Hospitals, they're probably sick because of it. Funerals, probably mourning about it. I know where - in mama's womb......wait, the baby is kicking.

@thenondualtankieI get bullied on here a lot so I have to beware and be on the look out for bullies. Especially your comment was right under mine so I wasn't sure. Was gonna go hide and call the Principal.

hahaha ha. My bad

@thenondualtankieDon't hide behind a computer screen. I asked if you were referring to me. It's a yes or a no.

Speaking to me?

No, that's not neediness. It shows that you aren't just approaching because you feel you should as a man. Most women get approached, it's nothing new or off or strange or even a turn off. It's when we can sense he's just approaching because you're a piece of skirt, and he wouldn't feel like a man if he didn't or he feels like it's his duty, or he feels like the woman is only dressed a certain way because she wants men to approach her, is when some when gets turned off. Neediness to a woman and when it becomes a turn off, is after the approach, after the phone exchanges, after the connection has been made and he is just constantly up her ass, constantly needing her attention, constantly needing her approval, constantly asking what she's doing, where she's going, who she's with......all that jazz. When a woman likes a man she likes a man. She's not going to find you unattractive if she sees you care that she "rejects" you. That's for child's play and high-school teenagers who are just starting out in the dating field, if that's even such a thing. Men are constantly viewing women how they see women. A man is more likely the one to be turned off if she's too into him not the other way around, as long as he's not as I described, because that's not "normal".

Yeah, you were lying to yourself, but I saw through all that, that's why I wasn't too hard on you when you were talking all that jazz. You get to a point when you can see through some of human's bullshit, especially when one has dealt with men through all these years. All the crying and bickering and hollering and hating and bitching and moaning from men about women and all that you seen them carry on with is just them really saying how much they love women but have seemingly lost control in their relations with them or lack thereof; and if it's not that, it's something close to that dynamic. I'm in no position to say exactly what that is but I know that people don't get emotionally charged over something they couldn't care less about. Nobody craves sex just for sex's sake. Sex is no different than eating chocolate and when one craves chocolate it's because the body is lacking in certain nutrients. Same goes for just about every craving. There's something lacking in either one's psyche or mental state or physical body. Notice I said crave, so please no moral police please about my saying sex is just like eating chocolate. People seem to like to think of certain things as special over the next thing when all that is, is a bias and a survival agenda strategy. Existentially, nothing is more important than the next; it's all neutral.

It's OK. You're "The God". You're allowed to be human.

I like this. Made me chuckle.

Ok, you explained your stance perfectly. You said both are imaginary distinctions, so that's clear enough that it's coming from the standpoint of the dream and not what is. Fair enough.

It's in the Females Are Very Cringe About Age thread by StarStruck started on April 2. I'm not sure how to copy and paste comments so here goes, verbatim. "You're making assumptions. I understand myself and I know that I want sex.with women. Which is why I'm fucking prostitutes. There is no value that a women can bring into my life other than just sex. The only women that brings a lot of value into my life is my mother, she's my besty". Another quote "Nonsense, it has everything to do with sex. When I was a kid I didn't look at girls and didn't even know why they existed. I need sex to fulfill my sexual needs". And another. "I value and respect women same as I respect my mother. I don't think that their value is defined by their ability to satisfy someone's sex needs. Their value is independence. What I meant is I NEED NOTHING BUT SEX FROM THEM. (bolded by me for emphasis). I can provide myself with everything without needing to depend on anyone, except for sex". This is what you said verbatim. So getting passed off at me, is like getting passed off at your own words. Thank God for the fact these aren't deleted right away and can be referenced to back up certain claims one make about another because of words coming from their own mouth. I will leave you alone now as I don't want you to get pissed off from your own words and as I unintentionally tend to do with some here by speaking my truth.

Don't say stuff on here then that you don't want repeated. I could go do a search but I don't feel like it. You said you only use women for sex and that your mama is the only female you......(not sure the word you used here). Remember?

This doesn't apply to him because he's using them for their bodies. No difference. No marriage proposals no love here. Nothing wrong with it if they do. Fair game. Do you want bitter women running around. At least they'll walk away with something and both will be happy. Men use women all the time, no shame if women do the same if it's mutual. He sees hookers all the time so he doesn't care.

He's cool. It's the females that are young and silly. He's training them, though. They'll get to a certain age and recognize what's up. At least he's being upfront.

Least we agree on something. To be clear, though, they aren't sluts and whores. They just get tired of being labelled as such. The one's who care anyway and take that shit personally. When you're more experienced and recognize why the term is used, you recognize it for what it is. Nothing!

Women are from Earth men are from Venus. Hehe - John Gray's Revision Edition.