Princess Arabia

I agree. Sometimes, she just has to feel comfortable; and also, remember that not all females, as I'm sure you're aware of already, don't react the same. What you've described earlier I don't think is much of a general norm with women. It's usually before they get that far and after a certain place, they've already decided they're being with you already. A guy usually has to fuck that up real bad if she's already in the bed with you and willingly for her to want to get up and leave.

OP's stomach is more ripped than that dude's. It's not him.

Is this shit like live right now. That's pretty wild. Decent camera too.

OK but a lot of this isn't on a conscious level. The pregnancy thing, isn't like she's actually reasoning this out to herself at the time, it's done on instinct. I left out a few factors too, the fact of some men leaving after sexual encounters with women and never wanting to see them again (it happens a lot), being thought of as loose and slutty (it happens a lot), even today in a thread someone called women who gawked at attractive men loose. So we have to contend with a lot of emotional stuff when we sleep with men. For men, it's a triumph and a score, not the same for women.

For there to be a cause, there has to be a meaning and destination and there is none.

That's the illusion. For perspectives to occur, separation has to be the case and there's none.

Nothing is being the rats and the piranhas. Nothing as in something nothing. It has no qualities All that appears cannot appear from something that's a something. Something that is no-thing, aka nothing, is what's being everything. If that's the case then nothing is really happening as this no-thing is also the space in which everything seemingly happens. How can something actually be happening when everything is everything and there's nothing outside nothing/everything to make nothing/everythjng happen. A happening requires space and time and this nothing is also being space and time. Not sure how else to explain this.

OK. And don't say, "that's it, youre not going to rebut and argue", lol. No, not today. Hehe

Only if you believe this and one just has natural problem in this arena. Plenty of men are succeeding with women without an ounce of inner work. They didn't have any of this stuff back in the day and men were always hooking up with women shit, even cavemen did it. Even now the deaf and dumb are doing it, the handicapped and the fat and not so handsome. It's a mindset.

This fits perfectly I think but what I think is missing here is you seem to think someone can make something happen. I say it happens all by itself. Maybe with the help of some practices but that would still be just an appearance as the center isn't really there.

Be careful with this. Not every guy can pull this off and not with every woman and depends on the context and what you mean by this. Leo can pull this off because he studies human psychology and other stuff dealing with humans and it took him a long time to get to this place. One has to know what they're doing to pull this off without coming off creepy or treating women like children, literally. It must be playfully done and coming from a place of playfulness itself. Some serious dude that takes himself seriously and is concerned about attracting women won't be able to right away unless he learns the skills on how to.

No, you're still on topic, just talking about men in general on the same topic OP is referring to. I get you and men tend to think women are attracted to the things they're attracted to in women and love the same as how men love. It's hard when most haven't taken the time to get to know and understand women. I find it's those that don't understand women for the most part that have a harder time attracting women. How does she feel around you, not your bulk size.

I just can't be the only one to see the arrogance and narcissism of humans when it comes to this awakening and enlightenment stuff. I know someone else sees what I see and clearly sees how much of a bullshit it all is. Like God is only concerned with humans and if humans can realize it or not. What about eels and sharks, ants, trees, mountains, the ocean, zebras, gorillas and every other non-human species in the world. The sense that made humans feel what they feel is contributing to this nonsense. A roach uses gravity, needs air, moves and eats and drinks just as a human does, why isn't it seeking enlightenment. All the stuff that human's are creating doesn't require for there to be a person inside. None of it. The world is fine without the human genome. Like I've said and will always say, nothing/no one left behind. If a frog or a beetle cannot attain enlightenment, a human cannot either. Sure, a frog cannot build buildings or computers or cars, but there's no person building those things either, it's life being all that. Doesn't need for there to be a person there for the body to still operate. So, something as enlightenment, if that's just for humans, it's all made up and a total story. Nobody else sees this? Duh! I just said there's no other and no one in these bodies.

I just looked at your profile close up. Your look is natural. I guess it's equivalent to boob jobs with guys and how some just hate when women get them and prefer a more natural look. Most don't care if they look natural though. It's not even about being authentic and hollow but more is it even working. Do women even care as much. Some might, but I bet most don't.

I only mentioned the 'beautiful women' part because of comments he made and responses given where he seemed to stress the beautiful part about women. Shows he takes that seriously and is a top priority. Most guys love beautiful women but I was stressing a point with him. I think he thinks now that he's buffed that should attract beautiful women, but he has learnt the hard way that it doesn't. Quite the contrary, lots of fat girls will be looking and gawking. Beautiful women are usually going with guys they already have a rapport with not some random buffed guy off the strip. The guy they already have a rapport with may be buffed but just seeing that isn't enough for girls to say hmm, and will gladly go out just for that reason. Rapport with could still mean just met, btw, but she just enjoys your company.

I've seen your pics. You look pretty normal to me. Hard to tell because of distance and you have clothes on, but I don't consider, from what I've seen and even from your current pp, i don't consider that buffed. You box too, so that's more naturally attained and will look different than guys who work out constantly in the gym to look buffed. You seem to be proportioned.

Well, your concern is mostly about your physical. If you know this as you say that women pay attention to personalities and agree with me, why isn't your concern more personality related. I think you like the validation you'd get from women liking your body-type. That's what you seek, that particular feeling. You don't give two craps about what a woman thinks about your personality as you couldn't care less, initially, about a woman's. This is clear from your remarks about the women being beautiful. Most guys are this way, anyway. You probably aren't seeking out women for women's sake, you're probably seeking validation. Yeah, don't you find me hot and good-looking. That's the feeling you're after; precisely what I see in guys with this body-type and maybe why I'm just not initially attracted to that. To be even more directly honest, it's a turn-off but I leave an open-mind about it in case the guy turns out to be sweet or about something I find more appealing to over-ride this look. Just the heading of the thread alone and the way you worded it, I believe, makes my point. Guys will quickly find out the true nature of things when they test out things in the real world. I'm not saying you don't look good, it's just not what I'm attracted to. I've also heard other women say they're not attracted to buff looking guys. Top reason is they look like they would spend more time in the mirror than them.

To tell you the truth, and without sounding insulting, which I'm not trying to be, just being upfront and honest, I don't find your physical-looking type sexually attractive. Nothing about you personally or your personality; I'm just not into that body-type. I just like a regular look, if there are muscles, it's in proportion to the rest of his body and not that much forced or from a lot of gym work out. In fact, when I see guys with your look and body-type, I tend to look away. That's just me and doesn't mean anything as far as what other females might find attractive. Thing is, though, say I got to know you personally under different circumstances, say, at a social event or mutual friend or whatever, and I found you to be charming, a bit funny maybe witty and I just loved your personality, that attraction could change and I could then be extremely attracted to you; same would go for a guy I found physically sexually/attractive but getting to know him was a turn off and that attraction just went zoops. Personality, for me, is the final deciding factor on how the body will respond.

I do understand what you're getting at. It's energy. Expressions of energy. It will show on a person's face or body how that energy is expressing, yes. A person feeling or being miserable all their lives will show facial expressions of that just as the opposite as in laugh lines being visible. All that you're describing indicates no one doing that it's just energy forming and flowing and expressing. Yes, vibe changes when identities change. Notice how you feel walking in the hood VS a prestige neighborhood. Shopping in a high-end store Vs say Walmart. Restaurants. Notice how in the middle east where there's a lot of wars and chaos has very few trees and greenery. Notice gang members walk and talk a certain way. Notice you can tell when someone looks confident VS insecure. It's all expressions of the 'one energy'. Thay's why gurus tend to look a certain way sometimes and monks or spiritual teachers VS a math teacher or music teacher. Not all times, of course but in general. Notice a husband and wife after many years of marriage start to look alike. Two young women living together for awhile start to have similar menstrual cycles. When I say there's no one in these bodies these are the proofs of it. If someone was doing it, do you think all these things would appear so. No, it would be all over the place. No one would be able to predict personality types and structures, etc, I could just say, fuck it, i'm going to change so and so, so no one can read me or figure me out or just look and dress like a gang banger while being a priest. Those come with certain expressions and the energy will dress and look the part. If that's not the case, it will still feel the part.

That's not the same as chasing a man. Ironically, it's the teenage girls that are more likely to chase a boy they like. Women can express what they want it doesn't involve chasing a man. Yeah, this is just from selfish needs and wants and not going your way. I get it, but from a female's perspective it can detrimental to the outcome and future. Men will be in at for the moment but a female looks at the future at times because her life is at stake meaning, pregnancy, giving too much of herself to be dumped later on, risks of a lot for a woman. A lot of it is innate and not consciously thought of by the woman in the moment. Instinct. Even animals have reservations in who they screw around with. Not right or wrong, but the body's defense mechanism. You're bothered by it because it affects your wants, needs and desires.

Well try answering it 10x for 10yrs and feel how long I've been doing this. 😜

I've seen? As a 21 year old.? What a joke. Doesn't compare to over 10yrs of escort work.

It's not about a need. Do you need to eat croissants, but you do anyway. Jesus, give the industry a break, lots of people engage in paid activities they do not need to do. It's just something to do for some just like going to the movies or watching a movie or going to the beach. All these moral questions and talks about morality and need is just simply a projection and how one feels about the industry not what the industry is actually like.

Mostly about not being too available and accommodating, having your own life and hobbies, don't chase, showing gratitude to the ones treating well, respecting yourself to have boundaries, it all depends on the kind of audience. There's pickmeisha audience females who cater to men and say pick me, pick me, and you have women who know their value and level up to attract the men they want, either way it's all a game and one just has to know how to play it.

Do you realize not everyone has the same agenda. A man could have had ten real-life girlfriends and would love the feeling that comes with that but without the heartache and troubles of having a real girlfriend, so he hires one for a day. That's valuable to a man like that. It's only hopeless and pathetic to you because of how you see it and it's not for you.