Princess Arabia

I didn't say they weren't promiscuous. This is not about promiscuity, it's that for women, most times it's not just I want to have sex and anybody will do, or if they feel horny, they'll go get dressed and go to the club because they are sure to get laid because it's easy for women. Finding somebody to even want to have sex with that night would be the issue. For men, that part is easier. Her looks would be enough. For us it's way more complicated. That's why date drugs were invented and a drunk woman is easier to bed, now all the stuff that gets in the way isn't there. Bottomline is men have way more options with whom they want to have sex with than women do. That's what guys don't understand and it's not that we're holding back it's just the way it is.

Ok but one can feel fucked by losing their job, do they remain jobless because of that.

Are you hurt when yesterday is gone. Is one hurt when the car goes by and is out of sight and is gone. No. The downfall is not that it's gone but that it believes it was there to begin with and happening to a "him".

Why do you want to have sex with women then. Why are you complaining about the fruits of sex and how it's plentiful for women if you feel this way and you hate women. Should be obvious to you then, by this statement, that women's needs isn't having lots of sex with strangers because we would be sexing left and right to get those needs. I Women shouldn't have to think about much and survival because of how they're wired. That's what the masculine is wired for. Go study evolution and you'll understand this dynamic. It's precisely that women are out there thinking and hustling and trying to make ends meet why they've become masculine in their behavior and the man feel emasculated. It's very feminine to want a woman to do and complain about having to think, compete and provide.

Unless a woman is a sex addict, they're not caring about the fruits of sex. A woman likes a man, she feels something for the man, she wants to have sex with the man. A man sees a woman and it's immediate. That's hard to accomplish. He needs to do something to get it. A woman has to feel something. Feeling to have sex with a particular man doesn't come like your attraction to a skirt. It takes time and energy and a bit of reservation and whatever else that goes through her mind. Sorry to tell you this, but most women don't see sex like men do and aren't seeing as lots of sex for me. For us, it's a fucking challenge to even want to have sex with a man. That's why it's easier at drunken parties with booze and drugs where inhibitions are in place and regrets appear in the morning.

Tell him, please.

Yes, the plane of imagination, stories and dreams. It's all empty. I get it, though, seems full on and solid and real. Still empty. Not denying anything, still empty.

Aww. Glad something appeared to help. This is why anything is possible and nothing is trivial.

Nothing is old. Everything is new. Nothing is really being recycled only appears that way. There is really no creation. It's all direct. Creation implies a creator and a creation. That's duality. There's only being. Absolute being everything. Even that thought of recycled thoughts is fresh and new.

Just so you realize, the Absolute can appear as separation and limits or limited. Everything is an appearance but it's not coming out of anything it is nothing appearing. Meaning it is that which appears as separate and limited. There's no separation between the separateness and that which isn't. It's the same.

Yes, I actually loved this question. I see your mind is starting to travel beyond it's usual limits....hehe

Muah! he's also the 🍎. Oh wait!! Apple technology. I just realized the epistemological reference. Hehe. Love it.

Nice "report". I enjoyed reading it; BUT and there's a but (for me), because you KNOW there's 'no sense of separation', there's still a you that knows this and therefore this glimpse cannot be "beyond an experience" as you said it was.

Let's dissect the apple: What is an 🍎. It's right there. Look at it Who's asking the question about the 🍎 What's looking at the 🍎 Where does the 🍎 stops being The 🍎 needs an identifier. The taste, feel, touch of the 🍎 After eating the 🍎 Why you ate the 🍎 The knowledge you acquired about the 🍎 The nature and properties of what makes up you and the eaten 🍎 Now you see the reflection of you even deeper, wider into boundless 🍎 infinity @Davino

Lol. I like that answer. Maybe AI might say something worse, though, like nothing exists. Hehe. Don't mind me.

This is relative and applies to one who doesn't value their dating opportunities as much. If it were for a job opportunity, you probably wouldn't say it was desperate. You say "as long as the only reason", and I say maybe for you, but not for someone else who might think having more dating opportunities to them is more valuable than better job opportunities. Some men pursue better jobs just to get better women and use that to get the women they truly desire. The job is a place holder but the relationship is the true desire. Just saying.

Nice. I hope other men will see this and realize it's no different than women going after a man's wallet if that's what she values. The beautiful women are of value to you for whatever reason and the man with a nice wallet to her for whatever reason. "Nice wallet" is an analogy here. Too many times I see where men valuing women's beauty is normalized while women valuing a man's status is demonized. She's accused of gold-digging, shallow or objectifying herself. I'm just using this comment as an example to make a statement and nothing about you personally. Actually, I will keep pointing this dynamic out whenever I see it so men will start to see how they do the same thing they keep accusing women of, the only difference is in the thing valued.

What is an apple? It's all the same thing. Now, if there's a looker, an observer, a witnesser, then they appear to be different.

Jesus, what a voice. Nicole Scherzinger can saaanggg.

How do you know this is not what "get together" looks like. What do you think should happen; everybody agrees and sing kumbaya together and live happily ever after. What's the difference between people arguing and fighting and people kissing and making out or just being joyous. NOTHING, except for different frequency and energetic patterns. There's rain and there's hurricane. Do you tell nature it is doomed and it needs to reset so it only rains without the wind that causes destruction. No, you ride it out and hide under your bed when the tornado comes. We accept whatever nature gives us and sends our way but you want to separate yourself from nature saying we're doomed and need to reset because in your mind it needs to be some other way. If this isn't delusion, I don't know what is.

Too late for what?

To actively care about strangers, takes time and effort and energy. People don't "not care" as much as, they're using their energy to care about what matters the most and to them. Imagine if one was to care about everyone and everything that existed. Talking about enlightenment and those sorts of things can also be about how to survive better and without suffering. Enlightenment isn't worried about who is talking about it, you are. You've given meaning to what enlightenment means, those other people gave meaning to the importance of talking about pizza. See a baby drowning or a man in a burning car, and you'll quickly see the care emerge. You want to see what you want to see; and when you don't, you curse the world. You're no better than the people not talking about what you consider deep, you just see it differently. If your circumstances were different and your experiences were different, you'd be interested in seeing different things too.

Ok. I give up. Lol

When I say it happens, I mean the action is happening by itself. The decision to comb your hair happens, the decision to eat lunch happens, the difference is the talking about the decision to open yourself to what's happening cannot be because it's not what's happening, only the thought to open yourself is. Right now it's just a thought. If it happens it will be because it happened and not because you're planning for it to happen. A planned date for next week may or may not happen and there's no control over if it will definitely happen or not. Anything can happen.

There is no true nature because there isn't a you to have a nature. There is no manifestation because that implies something outside to manifest something. You're thinking there's an Absolute and there are things that comes out of that Absolute. It's direct. Everything is the Absolute. "I can make the form transparent" suggests time and space. My true nature shining obvious and free. What does that even mean. No more suffering, I can do whatever I want now, I can fly to Mars, I can put a million dollars in my bank account. What does free look like to a form.