Onemanwolfpac

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  1. I think people are lazy in general. Talking to a stranger vs dating apps or sites. Selfishness is a evolutionary psychological trait that's helped survival historically. I don't see it much different from a ONS. It is just normalized. People ghost. Life changes. People change or don't change and it goes back to wherever it originated from. I don't put much thought into it.
  2. I mean I am pulling out before i nut even with a rubber i bought. I take the M&Ms approach lololol.
  3. Asexual? I don't know what else the alternative is. I can always rationalise after the no pants dance. A year seems excessive unless you have a ascetic process or path you are undertaking. I don't get it? Are you bi-curious? You seem confused. Maybe something is wrong or you are afraid? You either want to date or you don't. You want to have sex do you engage or you don't. The choice is yours. I think that you are afraid. You can talk to someone and delude your mind about not being passive. You can argue that you did something instead of nothing but it is a half step. Take a stand. Don't wobble. Its as if, you ran a marathon but you stop before the finish line. Why bother then? Decide first what you want and then go get it.
  4. It doesn't matter or has bee. My experience. Have you ever seen a girls app bio that rants you better not start of with lame chatter and she messages you "hi." it cracks me up. YouTube Jordan Peterson. I cannot recall the term but its essentially exposure and stimuli of whatever kicks your fight or flight mechanism into overdrive. After all the experience, it may or may not be there but, it subsides to a smaller extent. Imho the fear is usually from a past trauma. The notion in our culture being what's your line? Don't talk to strangers. A better question being, what kind of life you want to live? The one I am chatting up girls in a dog park or to come run with a random girl. Any environment that fits into your persona is key. I am a dude bro gym lad. My gym is closed. I spot several areas to train. Guess what? It just so happens, lots of women go, and life's too fucking boring not to try says Lou Ashby.
  5. But the moral, gender politics, identity politics, etc just portrays how parasitic people are. If a group is against cops murdering, they will be against murder in the community. The fact its not mentioned illustrates intellectual dishonesty. The same goes for idiocy in AOC wheeling victim card for minorities or children are drinking from toilets. This parasite hasn't worked a honest day in her life but uses minorities and children as her shield. Disgusting human being. Obviously, riots are unacceptable but LeBron and legend cheer it on. Why? If i were to guess, money. Cur sponsors. Regardless of how much fallout, thry carry no consequence but the people do. They will suffer and yet, people run to the government be it activists or covid. God forbid critical thinking and problem solving.
  6. Imho, it is all political. A woman was arrested for opening up her business. She was released early but she was still put in jail. The economy waa great then pandemic. Now, it is OK to break distancing because riots and protest. For me, I am not surprised by the cowardice of people giving up their rights and livelihood. I don't think there's a better example of spineless. There's businesses and families who won't recover. IMHO its more orange man bad rhetoric than actually concerned with people and their well being. The running joke on 4chan is the cure for covid being rioting and protests. Let's be clear. The health and safety of the public is important but the WHO messed up and covered up for China. The numbers in many areas are blatant lies. There's many arguing about the effects of covid. It was imho a overreaction. It is real but it is affecting mostly the elderly or compromised. The world economy being turned off is not without consequences as is printing out counterfeiting money be it Floyd or world government. If anything is certain, leaders and experts were clueless and incompetent. More importantly, if this was bio weapon or actually more dangerous like The Stand by King, the majority of the world is dead sadly. It means that preparing for the next one is monumental to our success. Not riots looting or anything else stupid. Asking governments to save us is bone head move.
  7. I got told "you are a good looking guy." if I heard anything from a woman when younger, the perspective by which i view life will have been altered. Instead, i did a lot of work on myself, meditation, prayer, lifting in the gym or gymnastics, lots of sales, and chatting up girls. The aftermath being, i know what attraction and seduction is. I am not playboy, my male model childhood pal who pulls models on the regular daily till now. He found God. He is a lot fun. Learn how to have fun. I give absolutely ZERO FUCKKKKs. I want to live a good life. Whatever that entails. I am uncertain about settling down. I have aversion to the concept. The compliments and lays came AFTER (not before) i believed I was worth it. I recommend that you do the same. Lift, love, laugh. Hangout with fellas who get girls, are fun to be around, and become a well rounded person. I am a bachelor and i love it. I just met two girls after my run. Its nothing you can't do. The ironic mind fuck part is that, when you have options, women like you, more seem to be available. For now, just become a social person. Focus on making new friends. The older you get, the more important this becomes. I got love for my friends. I am in a different phase so, i keep making new ones. It creates new time lines. @Max_V is anything easy that great? I met a girl with her mother before Pandemic. The mother was as every bit as excited for her daughter. Maybe more. The father, not so much. Reward favors the bold.
  8. Nah. I disagree with all due respect. Its unacceptable. The police murder + people running out of a target with TVs + burning it to the ground. The bigger issue imho being the smokescreen. Before this, covid + distancing + government print money (what Floyd essentially got arrested for). The disharmony is a smokescreen of the larger issues. Note, the celebrities be it LeBron or John Legend championing riots WHY? Defund police because they will suffer the consequences? No. The people will. Election year and nonsense occurs. SHOCKING! I am reading Path to God by Ram Das atm. Sadly, anybody caught in the riots needs to bare arms. I am not there thank God and i pray i never find myself in the predicament but I wouldn't hesitate to defend myself or loved ones. The police action is unacceptable as is the riots, theft, murder within the community or by cops, and a series of other events.
  9. I liked Elliott Hulse vid the other day. No denying the situation with police or the abundance of crime, single moms, fatherless homes or murder in the community says Hulse (paraphrased). Blm makes points but its political without noting the point Elliot made who is mixed black and white. I don't want to see cops doing to anybody what was done to Floyd nor do i want to see looting of target regardless of the culture or nationality. Police is a problem but so is crime. I don't have a solution. Elliot made a point that Floyd was arrested for counterfeit money and drugs, something our governments do. The hypocrisy.
  10. Is it championing trump or is it possible people think that he's going to win? If i am a betting man, I would lean towards Trump. Its not a spiritual practice nor even a preference. If the economy bounces back, who are you thinking wins? Kavanagh was accused of horrible things. We had campaign on believe all women. Joe gets accused and its radio silence? No coverage. Maybe Fox. The spying by the FBI on Trump. Multiple accusations from Russian probe, the push for impeachment. Pelosi and others called Trump racist when he closed the boarder as he should have due to pandemic. Businesses have been destroyed. Many small family businesses will never recover. The move to open up business was attacked. Protests and rioting plague the mainstream news. Covid is a afterthought. It is all political. The economy was better before the pandemic. If it recovers, don't underestimate human nature's selfishness. People will vote for a strong economy. A woman was arrested for opening her business meanwhile rioting and protesting is free reign during a global pandemic. The media lost all its credibility. Anything can happen. I am 50/50 atm but since rioting and protesting is fair game, buddy will run rallys. I am still struggling why they picked Joe.
  11. Birth pills This works but its not the healthiest choice. I saw studies on side effects and even a change in libido as well as attraction to a man on vs off. When it comes to hookups, i am a bachelor, and I have no intention at the present moment of any accident or child support. I take 100% ownership. I don't take rubbers from anybody. I don't care for someone saying that they are on the pill. Oral, anal, and not blowing in a girl has worked for me. I met a girl on a app during pandemic. She reached for condoms and i reacted like she reaching for a glock. We never saw each other again hah. Probably should have reacted better.
  12. If I can run wild and the other person won't go anywhere, what is going to happen? You don't sound happy. Maybe reconnect with family and friends is a better option.
  13. Porn is cucked lol. An alarming amount of Christian married men watch it because they aren't getting any at home. Very sad. Funny given i watched the tiger woods south park episode where they all freak out about sex addiction. They can't understand why rich and attractive men want to have lots of sex with tons of women not their wife. The show cracks me up. Tiger woods apology and the south park golf club skit is hilarious.
  14. I concur but in her defense, I brought up my playboy buddy who "found God" after smashing hundreds of girls. It might have set off a pain body and i suspect it did. You see it a lot on tinder or app bios "no fuck boys." Matt Hussey argued that its ideal to portray one's qualities rather then projecting one's wounds but i digress. Returning back to your scenario of single life, how is it going? When you accept whatever you feel, does it subside? As in, you feel that discomfort, breathe into, acknowledge that, and let go. No identification to it? Not easy but worth a try. You reminded me of a situation. Years ago, my mates invited me out for drinks. I thought that it was a guys night out. Boy, I was wrong. Everyone showed up with their new gf. I was like 16th wheel. The worst. To make matters worse, I made some bold statements not very PC just as the music cut out. It was radio silence. All I could do was turn into the skid. I said, "tough crowd!" Everyone laughed. I hit on a waitress. Was a good night. Life is what you make of it.
  15. I never seen a 180 like this. I thought he was trolling or had some play going. Its genuine. Good on you dropping the booze. I have one buddy who is unable to shake it. AA is helpful but with covid, i think he and others are off the wagon. Since the riots, maybe it will open again along with businesses. I am not exactly sure what if any penance or negative karma is involved. If anything, he was taken advantage of based on looks and aesthetics. The details I toned down but, women threw themselves at him. In the modern era, the notion isn't to judge women, and yet fuck boys are hated on despite the fact, they were pursued. Pursued more than pursuing one could argue. Furthermore I think it kicks off the "pain-body" for a lot of girls because playboy represents some character from the past. I am not aware of the way of karma nor will I attempt to make any guess. I do think it gets butchered in western society. I have read a book called the yoga sutras which I found fascinating.
  16. Same. I am all are nothing fella too. I told my playboy mate, at gun point, I won't break my fast. Holy. You weigh 240? How tall are you? On multiple cycles of gear, i couldn't reach that weight. I am 6ft. 200lbs. I have a ectomorph body type atm. I have altered my state. I use to be skeleton skinny. Years of sports, eating and lifting gained me size. Now, I have been fasting. I have a spiritual journey and a purpose in life. Having optimised mind, body, and spirit, things are in alignment. Its still a bitch and a struggle. Such is life. Thanks man. It sounds like we do. I have doubled down on my process and spiritual practice. Sleep is huge focus for me.
  17. Side lay. Side pillow, body pillow and roll into it. Use pillows between legs. Its awkward to change your pattern after decades of stomach laying. Read Why we Sleep by Mathew Walker. Check rogan 1109 podcast. The doc spits bars. My life is 100x better with sleep but it is a constant struggle. I have bought a sleep mask. I darkened my room. Its pitch black. I dim tv and I fast too. Its great. I also read, Meditate, and pray before bed.
  18. Hemp protein. Iron vegan supplements. I cannot bother with the vegan 6. I have added more vegetarian to my diet and fasting but. Pea protein as someone stated above. Tofu lowers T btw.
  19. Congrats. You did it!
  20. Check Seth Hymes i think is the name. Its not easy. Nor is learning to code. 8-12hrs learning everyday for a few years. Even then, you need a portfolio and proven track record. Check upworks and other sites. There are tons of reddit subs. Most will never work hard enough to execute. Energy crystals and you'll manifest everything from your bed while covered in Cheetos dust + crispy creams. Go ham. Check udemy. There's the hard way i said above and there's the really hard way of office politics for 30yrs. Choose your destiny.
  21. It is but similar to fitness and workout channels, its played out. The competition is abundant and the market is pretty tapped. Give it a go. See what happens. Personally, I rather learn to code or study engineering. Actually make something of my own but I digress.
  22. I know of many people who decided to brilliantly let threesome and orgies or swinging into their LTR. It didn't end well. As a man and a bachelor, we tend to hit our stride later. More attention is a by product. I cannot stress enough for dudes to lift, diet particularly fasting, and to max looks. It changes the opportunity. You need to draw a line in the sand. If we dated and i can smash everything with a pulse while you wait on my beck and call, how do you think things will end? This is a no fly zone deal breaker for me. Good luck. My advice: take a stand and don't wobble.
  23. I don't think its necessarily "bad" for you. I think its not a good thing but i digress. I think it serves a purpose for a lot of guys. I saw a link about Christian married men who get none from their wives. The dopamine spikes are similar to social media and other things. Fortunately, i don't partake in either. Pornhub is a click away from all kinds of nasty things. Instead of actually getting laid, more guys are lazy, and rather fap than pursue.
  24. I see it far more simpler imho. If the economy bounces back, covid cured by rioting, serious not serious, i think Trump wins by landslide. I think the debates are going to be a blood bath. What sickens me is small business which coincides with my core purpose and life path. Covid crushed businesses and until recently you had to distance socially. Its ok now to riot and protest? Trump is going to rally like crazy. He's super belligerent. Atm i am 50/50. If the economy recovers, he wins.
  25. You see it "spiritual forums" where people behave like Vegans with a holier than thou attitude parroting and regurgitate some gurus work. Its a smokescreen imho. Distract the stupid. If you test IQ and do your due diligence checking bank accounts, THERE'S NOTHING THERE.