Lyubov

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  1. you will learn more about women being in an LTR than if you were to be single and practice cold approach. think long term investment. you can go through phases and you can also sleep around in the future if you so wish.
  2. that's mental. what a waste of 20 grand. can buy a tab of lsd for like $10. none of these guys are above anyone. matt kahn has started offering online "healing sessions" for $400 a pop. No one is worth that much money to talk on zoom for 30 minutes.
  3. I got corona a couple weeks ago. I’m boosted. The thing won’t go away though. Just constant lethargy and small cough and aching body. Seems like the never ending cold/flu. No fever though, can still work some. When tf will it end ?
  4. Yeah I can’t stand it. I felt 100% twice now, then it comes back in. This is the third wave over the last 3 weeks for me. It’s getting ridiculous. I can’t be going out in the winter like this.
  5. Drinking that fever medicine you mix with hot water. Just confused how I thought I was over covid and it came back. It kinda is hitting me in waves where I’ll feel fine and then I’m sick again….
  6. Have a fever now and Just ache all over. Gf tested positive for corona few weeks ago. I got it as well with typical covid symptoms. I got almost 100% better but felt it most go away last weekend. Felt quite good. She started feeling ill again with a cough. I brought her food and medicine and ended up getting it too. These symptoms are different from the fist phase. I think we had corona and it weakened us and now we have a typical cold. Just feel beat up fever. Thankfully no throat ache or stomach pain or even that much of a headache. Just fever, chest cough and sore body. Praying it passes by the weekend ?
  7. ayahuasqueros and traditional shamans smoke a fuck ton of tobacco. you can be at a level of development such that you may be quite conscious but lacking some piece of knowledge that has a profound affect on your being. some people just get lucky. it's better to look at wider numbers. people that generally eat like him face a lot of health issue. that much is known. can you roll the dice and try to get away with it? sure and you may but it's better to not take risks like this.
  8. This is really one of those things that just needs to be tested and experienced more by more people from all sides until we know the right way to go about it. This is uncharted and new territory. Adolescent trans rights is obviously something we should explore but the processes of how, what’s safe, whats unsafe, what’s partisan, what’s naive green, what’s draconian blue, etc will just take more time to figure out. I’m not entirely for a mental health system that just blindly encourages transition for adolescent teens but also I think it should absolutely be an option for those that have been keenly identified and are fully ready to make a transition. Green wants their cake and to eat it too sometimes. The whole sports thing for example is ridiculous. If they have been through puberty don’t just act like it’s all good and in the name of compassion and acceptance will 100% solve all problems. These things are nuanced and require building up some systems so everyone’s needs are properly and compassionately met.
  9. It still happens to me a bit still. I’ve realized it’s about how you look at it. It’s not that big of a deal, trust me. People hardly notice and no one is really judging you. It’s not even getting that much in the way of you getting what you want. Just expose yourself to lots of experience and realize no one is judging you or cares. Imagine getting exactly what you want from socializing and at the same time still feeling a bit nervous. People tend to grow weary cause they had a few things that didn’t go their way. Don’t let that happen. Keep socializing and let go and go with the flow and you’ll start to realize what control you have and how you can lead it.
  10. We really are using “free public toilets” as a plus for a country now? Have you guys SEEN the doors on them in the US? Enjoy having some stranger touch themselves to you taking a dump.
  11. Is eating food low or high con? I guess if it's purely McDonald's, low? It's just silly to even ponder. Just live with integrity and do your best to fulfill your needs, experience what you would like to experience and learn from life. You wanna meet women and have sex? Then go out and meet them and do it. Are you not getting the results you'd like? Well clearly then you're missing something and are going to have to change or let go of something. That's where male dating advice comes in for guys who are socially clueless.
  12. I envy his wealth and ridiculous job of just screaming the most useless far left brain dead bullshit into a microphone for donos and subs from liberal arts students. He’s the personification of if a stupid cheetah print t-shirt with “eat the rich” printed on it could stream on twitch. He is also like 30 and dresses like a zoomer. Anything I say about him will come off like I’m a hater and he wouldn’t give a single shit about my opinion. He’s mildly amusing and entertaining for like 10 minutes, sure. But he’s basically Rush Limbaugh just for the left leaning tik tok generation. Kinda funny how people are never really THAT far removed from their parents. Dude is not green either, he’s more like stage orange ? grifting green ideals. He’s tricking liberal ideas out like a cheap hooker.
  13. college professor would be the biggest cock tease of a career. basically surrounded by young women and in a position of power over them but any misstep and it’s a #metoo to being fired and exiled.
  14. look up who was sweden's #1 white supremacist at one point... dude looks half black. plenty of skin heads today have jewish blood as well lol. it's ridiculous. slavic skinheads also are a thing. makes no sense. they just now think anyone that's like DARK = bad.
  15. How you feel today? I just recovered from COVID. I have had 3 vaccines. Minor fever and dry cough for a day. Felt low energy a few days after. Didn't shelter in place as much as I'd have liked but I couldn't just put my life on pause after TWO YEARS of this. I feel much better now.
  16. It's just a no fap thing I think. I heard this before. They say don't jack off so you're horny and wanna chase women. I've not really noticed a difference. If I'm too horny I actually get impatient and women can feel those "thirsty" vibes. It can be a sort of turn off for them. They like a guy that's in control of himself. I personally haven't found nofap useful (gave it a try A LONGGGG time ago and longest I lasted was a week). Basically gave me blue balls and sexual frustration.
  17. I personally agree that cheating is the end for a relationship. It’s kinda hard to avoid all sorts of micro infidelities today though like liking a photo of a girl you wanna fuck or occasionally peaking on tinder or making eyes and flirting a bit with a co worker or wishing an ex happy birthday. Social media especially has kinda just opened a whole new world of mingling and orbiters. I think it can easily be avoided physically cheating if you both have boundaries. It’s why I’m not so into this “pure freedom no boundaries around socializing” in a relationship. It’s not as simple as just detaching if you both have a lifestyle that doesn’t quite jive with a serious LTR. A couple that’s serious about a LTR will have the communication and lifestyle that accommodates an LTR. A guy running around and drinking with his bros on a Saturday night behind her back while she is at home taking care of the baby is another example of this. It’s not healthy for an LTR.
  18. Yes, it’s an awful feeling. I would go out and fulfill it then. Do what you have to do even if it includes moving, saving up money to live in a new city or not at the parents, etc.
  19. @Tangerinedream Glad you were able to find common ground I've actually felt good when my girlfriend brought up stuff like this to me and was a bit territorial. Made me feel appreciated and like she wanted us to be devoted to each other so it made me feel closer and desired by her. It made us closer I would say when we found common ground.
  20. This is very insightful. Have you road tested this detached state in a relationship? Have you found it leads to deeper trust and connection? I’m willing to accept in myself that I’ll always have tiny bits of jealousy, envy and insecurity. I think I’ve addressed and worked on it a lot and actually feel it’s quite manageable and being expressed in healthy ways for the most part. I also feel it motivates me to be devoted as well and communicate my needs. So I just am wondering what feeling fully detached in a LTR is like and how it tends to play out.
  21. Not exactly. It can actually lead to getting your needs deeply met if you know how to go about setting boundaries in a healthy way and communicating what you want from your woman. Many women are super loyal and they get something met as well feeling owned (not over controlled). In fact I think it’s kinda a sign of weakness and a lack of devotion if you aren’t a bit territorial and firm in a relationship. This is probably one of the bigger misnomers in western dating. If your woman is so attached to being this separate and having this much freedom and hanging out so freely with other dudes (ex bf, former fwb, orbiters, etc) in a relationship it’s a bit of a red flag for me that it eventually won’t work out anyways. It’s really a balance and depends on the woman. I don’t feel comfortable being a “we” over an “I” if my beautiful girlfriend is hanging out one on one or in private groups with orbiters which are what most guys are to beautiful girls. Obviously what I’m saying is contextual and little things can vary. I’m not like a firm no guy friends type of boyfriend but I’m wary of it for sure and screen for it and see if such a woman placates this dynamic so to speak and outwardly shows she doesn’t wanna hang out with other guys for the sake of the relationship. There are girls that are really serious that will do this but they will expect respect and trust and of course some space in return to do what they please.
  22. It depends on the friend. If it’s some guy that has respect and is clearly not trying to make a move okay maybe or if it’s some long time platonic friend okay. But if she’s beautiful many guys will be hanging out with her cause they wanna be an orbiter. Why tf would I wanna get in a relationship with a girl that doesn’t seem ready for a long term committed relationship? Women aren’t stupid. They know what orbiters are. Screening their friend group and their past is important. Can easily end up in a relationship with a chick that is hanging out with her ex or a past fwb. No thanks !
  23. I’ve seen this before. Some YouTuber did mushrooms and was actually quite green in appearance but then all of a sudden they are a hardline Christian. My understanding of it is that each stage builds on the next. You can fall back onto whichever one you are mostly deeply grounded/rooted in if something challenging happens in your life (ie your tree falls over). It’s actually very challenging and I theorize most people aren’t actually yellow or turquoise but have built themselves up to it. If their survival needs and world view are greatly challenged they will sort of fall back on the stage their roots were originally set in in order to get grounded again and get some reference points back into life. Some pick up artist for instance tripped hard on mushrooms and became quite blue. Before they were very toxic orange in appearance.
  24. does lobster have tiers like a gold club, silver club, diamond club, etc? tony robins does something like that and in the highest one you get to shake his hand or some bullshit lol