Lyubov

Nothing wrong with how you feel and you aren’t broke or needing to be fixed or needing to get rid of these feelings. They are there for a reason. You have a need for something that isn’t being fulfilled. I personally wouldn’t seriously date a woman who wants to hang out with a guy who used to fuck her. I would try to avoid my heart getting too entangled with such a woman. I’ve learned my lesson here. I’ve tried it before and it was awful. I wasn’t even concerned about cheating. It’s a matter of boundaries to me. That is just messy IMO and her past should be in her past if any relationship between us is to work. I would screen/sniff stuff like this out before getting too committed with a woman. Def learned my lesson here lol. Keep these sexually liberated ones for fwb and hooking up. Don’t save her. She don’t wanna be saved. Maybe you are ok with it though, absolutely nothing wrong with that if you are, doesn’t sound like you are though. I would make it clear that you have a need for this not to happen. If she isn’t willing to fulfill that need then there is nothing wrong with her, you both just aren’t compatible in this way and you can look for another girl who doesn’t press these buttons as much and she can look for a guy who is fine with this.

Sure, if that works for you then I’m happy for you. There are other ways to get those needs met for sure. I’m just speaking about dating and women from my perspective. It’s hard to fake having a girlfriend if you don’t or can’t get laid, but there are other ways to get fulfillment and perhaps those needs met for sure and those ways may even open up space for women.

Fashion is also a fun hobby and way of expression. I wish I had more cash so I could buy more clothes. I have expensive tastes too so it’s not so common I buy new stuff from brands I like!

I mean, It’s possible to swap around beliefs so a person can feel better and be more resourceful and get themselves to actual abundance but you either have the numbers / access or your don’t. You can’t always just change a belief and it automatically solves your foundational issues. It can but not always and may require other stuff. It’s like saying you aren’t broke but your bank balance is $0. You either have abundance and that reach or you don’t.

You will attract more women, have higher self esteem and will find yourself standing out more if you put the time and energy into looking good and not looking unkempt/average.

This is absolutely mental if true. Of course be careful with everything on Twitter. This might not be exactly true but it looks like some footage from older events were spliced into this new one ?

I don’t think you can really fake abundance though. obviously a tough position gets better when you get life experience with women and are better able to get your needs met but if you live in a town with three fat chicks and one looker, yeah you will be a little needy.

The thing is Elon looked absolutely horrible with his balding unkempt old man haircut. He doesn’t have the head or the beard to back up bald cut. I don’t think he’s a particularly good looking guy either but looks aren’t his selling point. He probably got world class plugs. Some guys are saved by then but in general a lot of guys that get it don’t need it.

This is one of those situations that is helped a lot by having other options. I wouldn’t put all your eggs in one basket here and by that I mean your feelings for her and your dating life. Try to be going on dates with other women and meeting other women. It will release some of the tension around this and open up some space. From there she may not feel as pressured which could help your situation. It sounds like you are kinda walking on eggshells here. Alternatively, you could pursue her hard and you may get her due to some sort of rebound phase going on with her. I’m not sure what she’s into or the dynamics in your situation so there may be an opportunity as well here. Strike while the iron is hot. Things may mellow out and go cold if you don’t pursue her. The thing is sometimes you have to be prepared to lose her though given your situation. If you haven’t gotten with her but you want to, you have to be prepared to lose her as a friend. This is in general why I try to avoid this scenario myself with women I know I’d grow quite attracted towards. For me, that initial spark of attraction I find works out much better when it starts from a sort of detached, low pressure situation. Kinda like a clean canvas or fresh start. Just easier to develop other aspects of the relationship but at the same time can be harder since you are starting from 0 with a person. When these sort of fond feelings of friendship are already there it can sometimes go your way or go heavily against you. Not saying it isn’t possible, it is, I just have found it uncomfortable and not the most enjoyable scenario to find myself in. I’m perfectly happy starting from scratch with each relationship but I’ll keep my options open as well if other situations arise.

Bald is fine, the height of male insecurity that some can’t cope with being bald. Hair plugs are ultra cringe. No clue why anyone gets them. Granted some people don’t have the head for being bald, that big alien ? head look. It can be compensated for in other ways.

It never really came up for me. If anything women are more on edge about this than men are and it usually comes when in a relationship.

Hydrogen peroxide, it will be gone in a day or two

This is pretty incredible and interesting breakdown of the war rally in Russia today orchestrated by the kremlin I’d say Russian people are very sheep like when it comes to their government. It’s a mythical figure to many, not to be messed with and only obey.

Twitch culture is goofy. It’s just lazy and disconnected to me but I guess some people are fine watching someone else play video games all day. If I had a son I would not let him play video games much or hang out on twitch or buy him two monitors and a light up keyboard. Women streamers have found ways to exploit the male base and the male base has willfully fed their own lazy addiction and will give away cash to just talk to them. Both are responsible in different ways for this sad past time. Not all content on the platform is like this either. There is good outdoor content there. Just a lot of people I don’t vibe with at all on it as well.

Russia is not saving its best for last. Russia is throwing its abused and hazed cannon fodder trash army into a fire along with their poorly maintained military gear which was ransacked due to corruption. This guy is delusional. Is Twitter puffing up Ukraine a bit, sure. Is Russia winning? They’ve stalled and made little to no progress due to all sorts of resupply and logistic issues. All they can do is threaten nukes and bomb civilians. A draw / statement is absolutely on the table which would be a huge L for Russia.

Arnold is a legend ❤️

So I guess he’s talking to his base here? There are thousands of Russians, mostly from Moscow, who are fleeing to the west, Turkey, Asia, etc. These are not the MAGA type Russians but the ones with education and financial resources. Most of them are based in Moscow and SPB. This guy is literally forcing a massive brain drain. There won’t be a middle class there before we know it. Just a poor caste and the ruling caste associated with the government.

Half of it is squatters who were at one point junkies. It looks kinda like a cool place to drive by and see if you are on your way to Cali. I’ve heard of this place before a long time ago. Has some cool art and the guy who founded it is/was super into LSD. Bruner culture vibes. Not my crowd nor would I stay the night but it is a pretty interesting place to see once.

Wonder if this will turn into a second Afghanistan for Russia. Also, Ukraine is getting world class intel from the US and EU. USA is providing, in real time, intel and logistics to Ukraine and helping them on the battle field with this. It’s much easier to defend in a situation like this over mount an offensive.

It can if you decide to both make the necessary sacrifices and whatnot and work at it. Relationships are pretty tricky and I’ve found they actually need both people to be relatively on the same page about a number of things if it’s to last a long time. There are of course outliers. Also when you say work do you mean for a year, till marriage, till kids? I’m perfectly happy screening for girls that are for the most part on the same page as me. Dating someone from a very different culture for me simply would not work. There are so many women out there I can screen and find a nice, fairly liberal chick from Europe in most cities. I’m talking about entering into a relationship.

Unfortunately women now kinda have to do the “boss bitch” thing and play the capitalist game cause no guy is gonna just take care of them. It’s getting more and more rare where a guy just needs a woman and marries her and she is a house wife and he wins the bread. Girls making cash off being pretty have basically turned it into a career too. In capitalist society we lose the collective and people rely on each other less. Women can’t expect a man to just take care of them. They have to work too and unfortunately this can really hurt their deeper desires for family. Granted I’m just talking generally here. Every woman is different and some like being workers in capitalist society. I’ve dated women who found themselves in quite a conundrum where they were heavily focused on their job/life purpose but also had a big fear that they wouldn’t be able to start a family cause their 30s were right around the corner. This sets in much earlier for women in less capitalist societies and later in the USA.

Biden is such a dinosaur. He is straight up old ass man in his mannerisms and how he moves. Wish we could get a young president that is like 43 years old in office.

I wouldn’t say Putin is exactly comparable to Stalin when it comes to this. It isn’t 1942 anymore where he can send in troops in without anything. The troops do seem to be supplied with some stuff but the fact some don’t have rations and proper gear is kinda ridiculous in 2022. At least one would think watching the propaganda about their army that this wouldn’t be a thing anymore. just seems really a strange remnant of the old Soviet Red Army to still have this issue. I heard there have been instances of Russians pawning off fuel and gear for money to buy food cause they lack rations and re supply. There is a video showing the passport of 19 yo Russians dead in Ukraine. I’m convinced half of the Russian army is abused cannon fodder from the poor countryside. It’s disgusting.

It’s too crap to sort the wheat from the chaff. Even if there is some degree of truth about dating in it.