Lyubov

I don’t doubt what you are going through is unbelievably challenging. I have no logistical advice since this is not something I’ve ever been through and honestly you are living my worst fear. So I would keep your head held high and be proud knowing you are facing some shit most people would lose their pants over and you have been surviving, doing your best, which I definitely believe is true given what you wrote here. It will eventually change, really know this too will pass. Don’t go into that place of despair. You said yourself you meditate, so you know there is a kingdom within of peace and inner guidance. Drop the illusions. You are experiencing homelessness, you aren’t homeless. This doesn’t define you. It’s a hard chapter of life you will overcome.

Your own flat is very important. Maybe some people don’t give a fuck but I want some privacy. That’s a pretty tough mental barrier to overcome not having your own place and to live with parents. Pulling girls from one place to a better place is crucial. Logistics is very important. Unless you live in Brazil where you can just have sex on the beach.

It’s easier to be an incel now more than ever. For better or worse there is sort of a culturally acceptable mentality where people can sort of do as they want with less social stigma. You have grown men lining up to buy Pokémon cards. During my time stuff like this was stigmatized more and I knew I was headed down a dark path.

I believe they have to want to change. I only put out the offer. I am not putting any energy into going out to solve other people’s problems. The solution is ultimately awakening and self generated love for oneself and a genuine prioritization of wanting to align with truth which is difficult to do if you took the black pill since you are living from lies. I just remember there always being a force within me I stayed connected through this time of my life, indescribable, where even 1% of me believed I was worthy. A candle in the dark. I coped and did the best I could and one thing led to another where I remember having an insight come to me where I really questioned if I was so different and what made it true that I am bad. Since basically what all black pill people are believing is “I am bad.” I’m not sure it’s possible to get anyone to want to change. Maybe I was just blessed to have an epiphany here and there and some stuff to leverage myself. I am stubborn too which is sometimes a good thing if it’s in the right direction. It would have been way harder if I was financially broke or really short or sick through this whole time. I count my blessings. We are given a lot sometimes even through very challenging problems in life. I am glad I am where I am now but those inner child stories are something present sometimes. I’ve found resolution. It’s about accepting that now without forcing.

I never wanted any applause. I just wanted to be happy and live a good life. I don’t expect any special medals or social approval for what I went through. I got something better, freedom and peace.

I’ve reached the bottom guys. I’ve been there. If you knew how dark it gets. This was before the “pills” took over. Back then there wasn’t a label for me except maybe “loner.” It’s a self fulfilling prophecy of facing extremely challenging and cruel situations in your early years. I lost a parent, faced bullying at school, physical punishment, was criticized and saw myself as worthless. It got extremely dark for me and I retreated into the online worlds of porn, video games and 4chan. This type of belief system separates you so much and you believe you are keeping yourself safe by latching onto a victim mindset and personality. I literally walked through the valley of the shadow of death. I’ve created hell and when I saw what I was doing, I woke up and created heaven instead. I have a reference library, experience, a teaching and awareness that could quite literally heal most incels ages 16+ from the west, in a matter of 3-10 conversations but I haven’t really pursued this as my life purpose nor really refined it enough to take on clients responsibly. When you are out of it you see so clearly and have the ability to show others the way but the world isn’t so receptive to this kind of messaging now. I’m afraid it’s gotten worse and most men want to go deeper into incel-dom. I’m at least glad I got out. I went through the worst over 10 years ago and am now in a deeply fulfilling relationship, where I am planning to propose to her. If anyone is an incel here in the absolute dark, and you need help to get out, DM me. I can go give you the road map and a teaching that will precisely free you from this belief system and expand your consciousness in such a way where you can get on with your life and let all that shit go.

Right??? It’s so so damn ineffective. Like there is literally nothing worse a guy can do to set it up in his mind and frame it where the woman is the prize and align his actions with this intention it’s so bad, I even tested it somewhat recently when I was single. You can KINDA entice them if you find a woman who wants to be a sugar baby but it is literally a recipe to be used and passed on. You are simping if you put the woman up as the prize. Sometimes it genuinely baffles me how women are just so oblivious to their own nature. It’s shocking. No woman in the world desires a man they are punching down on. Every woman wants to feel they are punching above their weight. It’s why you see every single woman fawning over and seriously having a pass at celebrity guys or high earning guys, never the other way around. It’s extremely rare and if so the guy half the time has warped it and she has set it up in her mind to see him above her.

I don’t have to. It’s just a choice of mine because this forum is a bit colorful and I’ve been through all the ropes when it comes to women. You have zero conceptual understanding of just how difficult it is for a man to be seen as a MAN by a WOMAN. It’s like the war veteran, where everything he says comes out rough. He’s been through some shit. He has scars. That is the experience of the majority of western men born in the 90s or later. I do agree there is real intimacy and I do agree dropping the stories is the path towards that. This is what I strive for. But I do believe my lived experience and the typical “manosphere” narrative that is shared often on here by men is reasonably accurate in explaining what’s happening, at least putting some of it in context.

Women absolutely filter how he describes. My girlfriend will literally take on a different cadence and tone in speech when she describes or talks about the vast majority of guys she sees as neutral and a MAN (guy who she is attracted to, me! ) Women do not see men they are attracted to as MEN. But the same concept extends to men. I don’t see fat women as WOMEN. They are neutral to me as well.

There is massive hoe-flation and imbalances in dating right now in many western countries, causing instability. Economic factors and social issues have reshaped woman’s role in society as well as their perceptions of dating. Someone said monogamy was created so weak beta males could mate… tell the whole story… it was made so men wouldn’t tear each other apart due to massive inequalities. You can say that’s the true nature of it for only a few men to get all the women, but also include how that leads to total destruction of everyone, massive unrest and all the men fighting and destroying each other including those at the top. Because even Caesar isn’t safe in his palace. Not to mention the challenges that come along for women who don’t receive a man to themselves to help raise their children. It’s almost as if Humans were designed to go beyond just their instinctual desires and animal reasoning.

I’ve never met an attractive woman that wanted to be with a man that was more invested in them, and it be some normal monogamous relationship with the man actually leading and calling the shots or seeming like he is the center of his own world. A family member of mine is in an open marriage with his wife who calling the shots on it, she has a second boyfriend and he doesn’t seem to do much in getting a second girlfriend. It’s maybe the only example I’ve ever seen of a guy who seems to be more invested and servile in the relationship than the other way around. Other examples have a weird dynamic where the guy just seems collared. The truth is there are many interesting contradictions and trickery in this notion. Every woman wants to feel like they are punching above their weight, like they have risen in social status. There is a reason the trope of Prince Charming, a man with abundant status and resources rescuing the povo girl is so popular. Women date up, men date down. At the same time women’s sexuality and mystery is a prize for men and much of the drive behind the “modus operandi” for men when around women is getting into their pants if they are attractive. So in many ways it’s a value exchange and the concept can be applied to both. I think men in the long run are the prize but basically only if they are able to out shadow the prize the woman has to offer. Both have something to offer the other it just depends how demand they are in. The interesting thing about this is it is very counter intuitive. The guy who is able to outshine the prize women have to offer ultimately wins. At the top is the most 1) elite men, 2) very attractive women, 3) very attractive men, 4) average women, 5) average men, 6) unattractive women, 7) unattractive men.

Please lord help this country sober up so we can finally put these guys behinds bars.

Anyone familiar with ego-maniacs who use drugs know that Elon tweets after taking something (cocaine, molly or ketamine). He’s high as shit all the time.

Hilarious how we all predicted this ages ago. It’s not possible to maintain alliances when you are a deeply corrupt ego-maniac. I really hope when people sober up form what they have unleashed that we start to prosecute these guys.

Oh yeah I definitely agree clearing the belief system is the number one thing you have to do to make your life better. There are some things we simply can’t control in life or just are out of our grasp in the present moment (example: finances, living situation, politics, world events) but then the beliefs and how we see that determines how we navigate the changing unknown. OP would greatly benefit from examining his belief system and really learning to strengthen relationship with themself. I see a lot of self judgment, and a belief of inadequacy and a belief about an inability to cope. They see themselves as a victim while I don’t. I am challenging that. I don’t believe that is true about OP. OP is unique, no one else in the universe like them, and there is a wellspring of peace and wisdom within which we can nurture and call upon during hard times. They have intrinsic value just for existing and for being created by god, coming from the Tao, whatever you want to call it. That’s what’s most important. Realizing you are human and valuable as you are can get you out of the toughest life situations.

This is the reason why Leo’s teaching is kinda shit and not really applicable for most people. His wording / framing / and application doesn’t match your lived experience one bit. Spiritual bypassing / emptiness sickness. You are a human, don’t forget that. Facing life one day at a time and it’s fucking hard and I definitely see that. You have a unique experience and spirituality that is 100% unique to you and it’s not better or worse than anyone else’s. The wording “You are god” is just yapping you’ve read on this forum. It’s not to be confused with actual truth which can never be contained or expressed with words and it definitely means a whole lot more than any one of us believes here. You connecting to your spirt, true value, “god”, (whatever you wish to call it) is important because there is no one else like you and there is a radiating value that is so special about you that it is not fair to compare it to anyone else or let situations in the world or your life define it. Even through hard experiences. You are human, don’t forget that as well. You’re living life like all of us and it can be damn hard sometimes.

I don't see a difference in how you describe the USA as a profit seeking company vs defending it's values. The USA has always played big table bully and looked to maximize itself over other countries. I believe it has worked in good faith before to maximize gains through partnerships but it has always been in competition with other States that have different values and in a sense has always been quite selfish and maximizing, this is how states operate as they compete with one another. They have a narrative about spreading American values but that has always been flawed and not perfect. Russia and China say the same things as they look to dominate their neighbors, they aren't exactly different. I am with you on seeing through the guise the USA uses to justify it's actions but I'm not sure why you flipped to their opposition. Russia and China do the same thing and I wouldn't describe them as more honest.

I think wording is important. You frame it as escape. Why? Your set up makes it sound something inflicted upon you. Have you considered what you want to escape is your own creation and ease and wellbeing is always here, always now if you can allow yourself to navigate out of the fog? Be honest with yourself. What is going on in your life? What do you believe about yourself and your life?

Conservatism is largely a fear based belief system. People face issues in their life that they don’t like and take a toll on them. So they choose to close down. They this then resonate more with right wing politicians hoping for the good old days or someone to blame for their problems.

Israel

I just wonder when the US public will rise up and total defund Israel.

It’s silly to remotely trust Russia / China and get behind them in any capacity or put them over the west. They most definitely aren’t leading in well-being either. People seem to forgot they are totalitarian regimes with a lower standard of living for a large amount of their citizens and little rule of law, human rights, for many years. Thing is the USA and Europe have greatly decayed and are sliding into authoritarian patterns as well. It’s a stupid pissing contents to even argue how one country is better than the other since both have issues. It’s just more stark in contrast for the west because these countries actually were much better at one point but have seriously declined. It’s a talking point and something RT pundits can spin cause for decades Russia and China were slums, and now the USA has caught up in this department so it’s much more stark. Russia and China haven’t caught up, the USA and Europe have fallen behind. There aren’t really any winners here with either one much ahead of the other. Pick your poison. All conflicts like this are going to lead to a decline in life for everyone, with some suffering worse, and others “winning” but in a worse situation than they were before the conflict. The great powers stand little to gain even if they win a war. Russia is fighting so it doesn’t politically collapse either. It is not particularly stronger from this war.

Same people said Ukraine won’t survive a week… Now over three years later they still parrot Kremlin crap about an eventual Ukraine collapse. Load of shit. Stop parroting kremlin talking points and think critically. The Russian population doesn’t support the war by 90%. Maybe in spirit but actually in effort there is tremendous shirking and corruption and the average person does not put 90% effort into the conflict. They look for ways to avoid taxes and hide their money. Russia cleaned up their act and aren’t just burning through their resources anymore, and they are able to sustain their efforts, but they are paying major costs for this and while Russia can’t be driven out from Ukraine the border has barley moved in 2 years… this is not some major win for Russia. Their brain is drained. Their country is not richer and their border has more NATO along it. It’s like winning a war that isolates you and makes your population poorer than before. It’s then trying to spin it. Life in Russia is not nicer nor is Russia stronger. They took land from a country in a war a fraction of their size. If USA gets a hard line dem in, they could see this war start up again.

Russia

Yeah but this guy was just doing weird stuff for attention. But it goes to show if you are just a socially adjusted guy with warm energy you can do ridiculous stuff like this and some girls will find it funny and be attracted to you. Hell, there’s guys in prison who met their wife while locked up. You literally can be a killer and get laid. It doesn’t even have to make sense.