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don't get pumped. stop creating emotions that you probably think are keeping you introverted or lazy. you are creating laziness or whatever this opposite of pumped is. just stop creating that by examining the beliefs behind them. you'd be surprised how friendly and extroverted and the people you can meet just during your day to day life by removing the beliefs that keep you unengaged with people when you go outside.

it's intensive, 5 days a week 4 hours a day + speaking club and materials. yes, SA you have to be very careful. You can be drugged there if not careful. Caucasian will help, but the work you've done on yourself will pay far greater dividends than back home. No fooling at all. I have, it's ok to bad. Results will vary depending on the city and lots of other things including yourself. I do not enjoy USA dating style. Women are not my type there for the most part. I'm about efficiency and I really like foreign women and traveling and exploring. The lifestyle and adventure that comes with this is a huge part as well.

100x more. In NYC I'm lucky to get 3 tinder matches a day, 10 with a boost, 20 with a super boost. In Moscow I got 700 matches in a single weekend.... goes down by 10-20% every country west I go. I'm not a dope either, I'm in great shape, have cash, decent job, responsible for my emotions. I look good and am mentally strong and am a leader. It's a world of a difference. I would recommend most guys do it if the love to travel.

Lol don’t expect any (beautiful) woman to wanna commit to you if aren’t willing to move in together. You are right about boundaries though. You will have a surface level relationship that is going nowhere and you won't learn as much about the nature of women as you could if after a year you are still doing the "dating" thing. It's a rite of passage for going to higher tiers with women by living together and going deeper in this domain. You won't learn that through pick up. It's not necessarily the right priority for everyone or what they need though if they need more space for their career and life purpose.

I stay up late and let her go to bed before me. This helps. I get a lot of work done at night. I had the exact same issues when my gf and I moved in together a year ago. There are solutions. Join a co working space. That can help. Really stick to your boundaries. My gf would get kind offended when I would stand up to her constantly distracting me and asking for me to do stuff. She is unemployed too so you can imagine how much she would distract me. Spend conscious time with her and give her your all when it’s couples time but set strong boundaries for work and alone time. It will take some time to get it right.

Wonder how Tate fans will spin this ? Tate is definitely an incredibly angry person

This is also an option as well but one downside is London is expensive as fuck and you don’t get exotic foreigner status. Many places I recommend guys go are cheaper as well so they don’t need six figures to live well.

Make some porn with her instead

I am in agreement. I believe we should strive to not have sex be transactional but something two or more people so together for their own pleasure. It could be for intimacy or simply just exploring sexuality. I have no interest in paying women in poor countries money to sleep with me. I don’t think it’s right to hire prostitutes and it’s a mistake to do this.

I found out about David Bond a few months ago and tbh, something about him rubs me the wrong way. I don’t care for him or his contents. You are correct. It needs to be done with finesse, cultural awareness, and respect. There is occasionally some fool who gives it a bad name. Plenty in South American who should of just stayed home. A good example of someone who does it well is James Marshall. That guy is from Australia but he ended up doing this out of Hungary, Ukraine and Czech.

There is always this guy … No problems with it as long it’s done classy and not breaking any laws or contributing to degeneracy. I’m not paying prostitutes for sex or dangling false hopes. I also think it’s important to keep certain parts quiet and definitely not be crude. You get foreign points when you travel so it’s definitely worth it to go and see a new culture, learn a new language, get some good Instagram photos, make new friends, see new places and of course get some good experience with women from different cultures not polluted by the stage green gender war found in the USA. Every guy born in the 90s who is straight and wants to actually have abundance with beautiful feminine women owes it to himself to travel cause that ain’t really a thing for like 99% of guys in the USA.

I noticed sections have been changed and there are different mods. Was there another controversy with members? I noticed there are less online.

This is my plan if things fall through here. Bounce over to Colombia, learn Spanish. Costs $600 a month at the best university for 20 hours of classroom time a week. Takes six months to get to B1 level of Spanish which is enough to be on your own and have little problems with daily life stuff and meeting women. Can live there really well for like $1000-2000 a month. If you basically don’t drink and splurge on luxuries, can easily live there for $1000 a month. I am hoping to change to a remote job that pays me $4000 a month and I think I could live like a king there on that salary. Definitely able to make it work on a budget. Heard women are super cool and fun and the locals are some of the most amazing people in South America. I’m definitely excited and I’m glad I have this plan in case my relationship ends and I need a new place to start over. Not going back to the USA which has been destroyed by gender/culture wars.

Many Americans have the core belief that “problems in life can / should be solved with violence” and in addition it creates the belief “the world is dangerous and we must respond back with more violence” so from these two beliefs you have people who use violence to steal or shoot people to solve disputes and then you have the second type of person who is paranoid and is trigger happy, for example cops and the paranoid types who owns a ton of guns. This seeps into political institutions who vote for people who enact the second belief into laws and behavior of the society. Both sides lead to a cycle of escalation and because people believe they need the agency and freedom to hold weapons in order to keep themselves safe these two beliefs spin around each other and allow for zero change in behavior or belief. I don’t fully buy the poverty excuse. Plenty of poor countries that don’t act as violent. Illegal drugs and corrupt money plays a role but again, comes down to beliefs that violence is fine to settle disputes in that area because they are outside the law and the only force to oversee that is the will of whoever can be the most violent. This is a dangerous and pervasive mindset that has nothing to check it because the only thing that could is more force, which has already been preemptively prepared for. The main arbiter of force allows for more weapons because they can’t protect the citizens from the ideas they all already share that create the problem in the first place. what I wrote is a little convoluted and could have been expressed better but I hope you get what I’m trying to say. The beliefs create a sort of carousel that goes around and round and violent beliefs can be particularly hard to stop because it’s usually the de facto / final force for changing beliefs.

Is it possible to group certain sub forums and hide them? I’d like to hide the spirituality, psychedelics and mental health sections.

It’s interesting you list Argentina because I’ve heard Colombian women are more open to dating foreigners. I’ve heard that Argentina is less friendly and more like a European country while Colombia is more lively. Apparently you get less gringo / foreigner points in Argentina compared to Colombia. How was Argentina for dating ? I think there is a way to get a long term visa which allows for longer than six months. I’d like 1 year minimum.

There are a few things I have to say about this channel the “DeFuNd ThA pOlICe?” people don’t recognize how difficult and dangerous policing is in the USA which leads me to my next few points I believe the core of the issue is a culture of cowboys and guns. You don’t see this same level of violence in Europe when it comes to domestic and street crimes. There is a prevalent code of violence in the USA where an abundance of weapons and a culture that preaches about violence and using it to solve problems is part of the culture. You see this in South America as well but the only difference is their police force is super corrupt and inefficient so it’s even worse there. Some people say poverty is part of it but there are places way more poor than the USA like in Asia that don’t result to violence like they do in the USA. I think because this land was colonized, the remnants of the “frontier” mindset and rugged environment are still present so people just out of belief and habit solve everything with violence. The core belief in the USA is “we will solve this however we can and we will use violence cause it’s dangerous out here.” In Europe it’s “this is a problem but we are sensible people and violence isn’t necessary.”

So you’re saying we may see this happen one day soon?

How’s the logistics for staying in Brazil long term? (1-2 years) Portuguese is a pretty challenging language, we’re you able to learn some ? My experience is in Eastern Europe and I agree with you but since this war started I’m switching over to South America. Spanish is easy so I’m gonna just go over there and look for Colombian and Argentina ladies (Brazil sounds interesting as well) till I can return back to Eastern Europe when it’s more stable, ideally Russia.

The thing is what is considered ethical or right is always changing. There was a time if a guy was gay he was thrown into jail and now gays can marry. Happened literally over the span of my dad’s lifetime. It isn’t so much that capitalism is unethical, it’s just what society values has changed so it ends up getting framed this way because most people think their ethics are the truth of life and the standard all of reality is striving for or to live up to. And then when it doesn’t they are disappointed and get bitter and go on social media or cable news to scream.

The back seat mod in me wants to see it locked so other threads in the section get some more action

I can’t stop laughing ?

I disagree. They do in Miami have tons of beautiful women at techno / house music parties. Underground gets less influencer types because Techno nights are usually free to get into and they don’t have strict face control and tables to rent, but also it’s not always about that cause when you got skills and connections you just wind up taking a hot one there as a date beforehand you met somewhere connected through the music scene. big dj like Solomun or those After Life events get tons of bombshells but those are well know things. That’s the USA, in Europe women are hot everywhere the more east you go and clubs are packed with bombshells playing good techno.

I made a mistake and take back my assumptions. I’m not familiar with Brazilian politics and institutions and made a wrong assumption that the institution there is weak because of the economic situation there. I hope they are able to clean up corruption there so things get better for everyone.

It’s like this in most US and UK nightlife. Sausage party. You gotta start going east in Europe the more east you go the more man to woman ratio reverses.