Lyubov

Going out and approaching anyway even if you are scared is a good way to move forward, do that, but it glosses over why you were scared in the first place. Something is unresolved there. Ask yourself why you choose to create fear in this situation. Believe it or not there are many people who feel zero fear talking to people at parties, including beautiful women. Why do you choose to be scared though? It is not happening automatically. You are choosing to create that fear but you are not conscious of how or why you are. And there is a reason for it as well. Feelings do not exist in a vacuum. There is a belief behind the fear. You can push and power through it, that's fine, do that, but don't miss the deeper lesson by only doing that.

you don't need to do too much swapping out. what if your mind naturally heals like a physical cut omn your body if you know how to remove what is impeding this natural development? Does a seed have to consciously swap out stuff to grow into a tree? I believe a human life in many ways is like a seed turning into the tree. You have to water yourself, plant yourself in the right place, take care of yourself, etc. But you din't have to do too much in terms of engineering yourself. If anything you need to reverse engineer all the beliefs that are limiting you from childhood. what does it take to truly change how the psyche operates? Realizing you are the creator, not a victim. This is crucial. You have to realize you are not a victim, you are responsible for your life, you are at the center, not the affect. You need to align with your true value and know aligning with this guides you.

I permanently changed my mind using self inquiry, allowing myself to mature and aligning myself with spirituality / truth. Yes, it is possible to resolve every single issue you have, take responsiblity for your life and create what you desire.

Like Leo said, it's not that complicated. Mushrooms can expand and personify some very dangerous personal beliefs people hold, usually due to unresolved issues from their childhood / trauma, and largely due to their unhealthy psychology and a lack of awareness of their responsiblity for their beliefs, they can look through those beliefs while on shrooms and act very violent. The higher the dose the more intense. It's why I don't believe these substances should be used unsupervised by people with unresolved mental health problems.

Why do you choose to create fear?

I don't know. I don't know what the Tao is.

I read this book back in 2021 and it was very helpful. I would say this form of communication is also the one I try to use with self inquiry.

Yeah probably, I’ve been wanting to clean up my algorithm.

You guys talk way too much about these scammers and instead neglect your own innate knowing and inner guidance towards your full and authentic potential. Stop listening to all these scammers for Christ sake and starting doing something you’re passionate about. That is literally all the guidance you need in life.

I’ve notice on my social media there is sort of a red pill equivalent for women where it’s all about getting a “high value” man and having him pay for everything. Most of the content seems to be coming out of Miami or Dubai. Women giving advice to women how they are the prize. Sometimes women as old as 30 who slept with everyone giving the advice. It’s really weird.

Careful with the Tate advice. You never know what they are lying about. these guys are potentially very dishonest people but I don't know for certain. just giving you an alternative perspective on the authority and value you give information, not actually knowing what it's made of or seeing the true story behind it. As for what he is saying, it is not difficult*** to have 5 girlfriends if you are loaded in Eastern Europe, if that is what you want, you can find five beautiful women who need financial support if you set your life up logistically to support that and just trawl instagram and find five girls impressed by your cash, you could keep several of them around for a while as long as the cash is flowing and you have an expensive lifestyle. It doesn't require much experience in relationships unless you are severely under experienced or have limiting beliefs about yourself that create fearful emotions around women. You are much better off getting advice from pretty typical dudes who are performing amazing with women and have a lifestyle you can see yourself obtaining in the next 12 months. Trying to learn game from some rich guy doing mansion parties in Eastern Europe is very different from what you will be doing in real life. *** the only things difficult about it would placing your self worth in the number of beautiful girlfriends you have and also the massive amounts of imbalances this causes if you have friends, a business and your health to maintain.

i'm conflicted. i want to support civil liberties but why does every time it goes super LGBT it goes sorta overboard? I lived n eastern europe and it was genuinely refreshing to be in a place where people aren't so loud about who they sleep with and traditional values are quietly on display. I actually prefer it and i am fine with all the LGBT clubs and lifestyles in those places if it isn't pushed like some religion. can we live n harmony and allow equal rights for all lgbt while maintaining the tranquility of a traditional value society, where being LGBT isn't promoted like some fad that can confused all the kids looking for an identity?

crazy how much potential there is in tech to really better everyone's lives but it's devolved in many ways to some sort of feudalist battle of the over lords between some of the most egotistical people ever, a tragedy of the commons to sustain this unsustainable blob, and they really promising they gonna save us from climate change and all the world problems. when will humanity see through all the lies and illusions much of what modern tech is based on, not even the tech itself but how it's used.

Love is not a commodity to give or receive. It’s something you create within yourself and your partner mirrors it back to you. If you choose to create love for this person your whole life , then yes My question is why are you setting expectations and standards though? Seems like you think if this doesn’t occur the love one created wasn’t true but I would not agree with that. It’s possible but do you believe you have to live up to this standard you set? Because it may not occur because people change so it’s not guaranteed

He’s basically talking about how core beliefs from childhood can go unresolved if not examined. You can have a materially easy existence and create a tremendous depression for yourself.

Conversations here tend go in an unnaturally woo woo / insufferable way outside the spirituality section, so I will keep my message pragmatic and de mystified. Basically from a young age due to our upbringing many of us come to the conclusion or assumption, due to our lack of reasoning abilities as a child, that we need other people to be whole and complete. This isn’t to be mistaken with any sort of survival process which is predicated on many other people and our own skills and the resources around us. but any disharmony / painful emotions you may experience when you are not receiving attention and approval from other people in your life such as a partner, friend or parent is your own creation. You have some sort of belief about needing other people in your life to be happy / whole / valuable, which is untrue. now this doesn’t mean we have great appreciation for everyone. Each human is unique and different and valuable and there is a ton to do and see with other people, and people can serve as a powerful mirror towards us as well. So I’m not saying human relationships aren’t a part of a sort of balanced way of living, but do you NEED them to give you value and purpose in life? No, you choose to doubt your own self worth and natural wellbeing whenever you put other people as a mandatory requirement in order to feel happy and good.

there are a ton of problems with porn in not sure consuming it is necessarily always harmful though depending on the content, if it was made with integrity, and your own habits I do think porn is way too available online for underage people, I do believe porn does skew the mind if you don’t have experience and haven’t been able to form loving relationships, I do think porn can be used like a drug and it def adds more to superficial aspects of society, it def can be misused but I also think it’s a reflection of deeper issues. Just by watching it though I’m not sure it can be harmful. What’s the difference between that and masturbation without porn ?

I was living with my ex up until two months ago, lived together for two years. Honestly it's been really challenging ending, but I'm starting this new chapter little by little each day.

I prefer Taoism much more

Rio de Janeiro

I have some thoughts to share here. I’ll keep it brief and concise. I was thinking a lot about what it takes to become truly great at something or really build a business or create one’s dream vocation. I think we will all be in agreement that commitment, dedication, working consciously and smart and continuously approaching it with an open mind and putting in time to build it is necessary. Rome wasn’t built overnight. Utilizing our passion and getting clear with ourselves what we want and what we are doing. I think where I want to open up the discussion is how this fits into living in flow, balance and oneness. Embracing and accepting our own uniqueness, strengths and weaknesses and having a balance but also perhaps realizing in order to achieve or create certain things there may be a level of drive, time and energy needed to put into what we are creating, which in turn may throw us off balance. I’ll give a practical example: I want to study 16 hours a week of a new language but realistically after 12 hours I’m pretty shot by the fourth day. And I am wanting some sort of change up of tasks because it can be a bit monotonous. Now this right here I would begin to question myself why I believe I need an instant reward or change up, but putting that aside, I think really all we can do is accept our own unique pace or throw ourselves out of wack. Maybe I’m not explaining it well but I’m looking to understand what is perhaps just our beliefs about what we are doing vs what is sort of uniquely is and why we are that way. Because I was listening to a linguist talk and he could study 9 hours a day, I am not sure I have that in me. So do you all believe in some sort of life lesson, we have to maybe throw ourselves out of wack to really reach an advanced level in a vocation or can it be done in balance and flow?

I’ve seen this guy in the video on instagram. He originally started out as a caricature of the office plankton ass kisser but his fans started defending him in the comments so he became sort of admired for his positivity and probably a source of entertainment for other white collar guys. He’s funny to me for different reasons, I don’t have remotely the same lifestyle and I would not enjoy working in an office and doing the corporate grind.

I did this. 10000% better than the USA just based off what I value but it’s definitely not for everyone. Life is more dangerous in Brazil, where I am. But the risk is worth it.

it did indeed, not a clue what you are saying

It is a belief system. Different cultures have different beliefs. Some like you described believe elderly should be addressed differently as a sign of respect. I don't see anything inherently wrong with this but your own personal situation could make you see things differently.