Lyubov

What can’t you control? You did take Ayahuasca so while I do agree there were aspects of that state change, while on ayahuasca, which you couldn’t control, you are still responsible for it. You chose to alter your state taking ayahuasca. What now in this moment can you not control? Those benefits sounds really good.

But don’t conflate relationships with love. They are two separate things. Love is not a commodity that can be given or taken away. It is hard to put into words but it is truth, it is the sun. You can recognize this sun within yourself and clear the clouds and then choose to act in a way in which you shine, regardless of conditions you honor or what needs you have which you may be pursuing. A mom shows signs she is experiencing this sun within herself by caring for her baby and treating it well. You can love and still have conditions. A mom experiences herself and cares for her child and mirrors back to the baby the love the baby has within itself. All relationships revolve around the same thing where you may tap into various aspects of your true self more than with others based on the arrangement of them. For example, you may not see this as much in your mailman but if you stopped for a moment you still may have love for their existence and wish them well in life just as much as any other person. You may see this more apparently in your wife though who you live with and relate to often and have various things you share together and various needs you fulfill for each other.

How is the prioritization of truth here very limited? All you have in relationships ultimately is communication and if you are doing that honestly you are prioritizing truth…. From my POV you are making distinctions I see no point in. Existential truth? What? What is existentially true in a relationship is when two people are communicating truthfully which includes communicating your conditions honestly and finding what is in harmony with each other, like I said. Yes, a relationship has needs that need to be met, how does that make it less true? I do not align with your model to be honest or your application.

So what is the point of you changing your state and going to the spirit realm? What is the benefit for you? In what way is this true for you and better for your life as opposed to before?

You look at it far too black and white from my point of view. I never said there weren’t conditions nor that they should not exist. Recognizing there are conditions, meeting those in a relationship and prioritizing truth and open communication in balance with them is living from truth, including if it leads to the relationship ending. Since when is removing conditions entirely what makes something truthful? You see this is probably where we disagree. This is living out of balance and chasing an ideal / perfection, an idea of what true love should be. True love in a relationship is prioritizing truth, which has room for conditions. You can have a condition for a relationship that “I won’t be in a relationship with you if you are addicted to drugs” and still maintain love as yourself. That is true if you live by that, and if both people are living by these conditions and being themselves (love), that is a relationship built on truth.

Will Trump even finish his term?

You don’t receive love ever because it is not a commodity you can give or take. Love is what you are if you so choose to see through any lies or barriers you’ve created. You experience yourself and then in your relationships you show signs you are experiencing yourself to your partner / wife / husband / kids, etc. Maybe through words or actions which remind them or point them towards experiencing themselves which is also love. So yes, if you prioritize your true self and seeing through any barriers, and you build your relationships on truth then your relationships will in turn be far more authentic and true and be much less about conditions and much more about truth.

Leo has a lot of young men that follow him and look up to him. I really enjoy reading what Leo has to say here sometimes cause he’s a good writer and an interesting guy. But I definitely do not agree with many things he says and don’t condone his spiritual path for everyone. My path is very different from his. But it’s to be expected. You are basically at the house of Leo right now, it’s his website so you get his biggest fanatics and likeminded folk.

The thing is people have all sorts of funny associations with Jesus, including me. Christianity is a deeply corrupt religion and it is a religion that encourages group think and blind faith. Many people who follow Jesus don’t care about truth. Jesus the saint and of course his teachings are fine. If you are experiencing only positives and benefits from studying what Jesus teaches then that is a good thing. Many people turn it into a dogma though. Anyways good for you and hope you have more helpful trips.

Damn, Hogan died?

Many guys are getting priced out of dating

No never. I almost became a citizen though during COVID, they have a program for naturalizing if you are Jewish and it’s a form of lobbying the USA by getting middle class white Jews to become a citizen, way of getting soft power on the USA. It’s called Aliyah, it’s a joke itself as well. They have no way of actually proving who is Jewish or not so just having a letter written by your Rabi counts, doesn’t even have to be notarize or anything. A lot of wealthy Russians manufacture proof they have Jewish relatives in order to get the citizenship as well.

Israel is a colonial state justified through revisionist history, lies, victim mentality and a warping of sensibilities any rational/moderate person would not apply to their world view otherwise. Israel has to reach for justification somehow, how else would Europeans distantly removed over 800 years have a claim to land thousands of kilometers from where they are from? “God’s chosen people”, “This land was promised to us 3000 years ago”, it’s an extreme form of ideological perversion by spinning a really crazy story, reaching for baseless evidence through emotion and mythology, people eat it up because it’s under the guise of their religion. If you tried to justify mistreating other people in your daily life by doing this you would be labeled mad, delusional a compulsive liar. So you can’t make people like this feel safe because statistically they aren’t in any more danger than the rest of us. It’s ideology and that will eventually crumble.

Jews are safe in the west. It’s pure victim mentality and ideology running the Zionist show. I’m Jewish and I appear white and blend with every other white person in the USA. Unless you were shot in a mass shooting at a synagogue you really have nothing to worry about and statistically speaking that is just bad luck. Zionism is a sort of colonialism to satisfy a biblical ideology where white European and American Jews think they were promised land 3000 years ago. That’s ideology. They have lied to themselves and warped a narrative to throw out all sensible layers and facets to their foundation that they therefor have to now live out this crazy fantasy of being god’s chosen people and having to rebuild some kingdom their holy book promised to them 3000 years ago.

I heard there is a record number of Jewish USA citizens returning from Israel (those that got this second citizenship). They definitely aren’t doing it due to safety. White Jews blend in with all other white people. It’s pure ideology, at least for Jews from the USA.

Of course most of it is limiting beliefs. Basically all problems in life culminate in limiting beliefs. And what you cannot change (IE your height) you accept.

Unlearning is a process. I’m not talking about learning pick up techniques, I’m talking about cultivating a state of being, lifestyle, foundation and social understanding to attract a woman you will want to be with. That is not something many men just are able to do instantly by any means.

I’ve not found that to be true at all. If that’s your experience then that’s cool. Not denying that for you. For me it was a process, like learning to walk. A baby doesn’t one day stand up and run. It tries to walk and falls hundreds of times before being able to walk, and then it continues to fall a hundred more times before doing it well. For many men this is the process they go through when gaining social skills, building their finances and mastering their emotions before they are able to have success in dating. Some men don’t have to do as much while others need to do a lot more.

A lot of it comes from just not being educated or having experience, which takes time to learn. Don’t assume men and women start off the same in this domain. You are born and then when you reach the right age have to do almost nothing to have men come after you. For men, you have to develop aspects of yourself which are not evident, and take all sorts of resources and time. You aren’t born with a manual for all the different things you will encounter in life so a lot of it is purely trial and area and grinding to level up. Building attraction for themselves and desirability is a quality that is developed in men not something bestowed upon them like with women. For women it’s just their feminine way and looks. For men it requires learning and developing for sometimes years beforehand.

I think women both underestimate and do not understand what most men have to go through in order to have a relationship with a woman of any kind. I also think this type of guy, “incel” for lack of a better word, is sort of over represented on this forum. By my estimate they account from anywhere 1/5 to 1/2 of men depending where you are.

I don’t care for socializing much either. Then again a close friend is an invaluable companion and asset in life. I sometimes like talking to strangers though and making a connection. There is something lost in this highly introvert anti social way of life that is sort of embraced here in the name of spiritual growth. I’ve had several awakenings through socializing as a catalyst. I think it just depends on how you live life yourself. If you aren’t living so well or honestly you often will attract similar people and since many people believe they need other people to complete them, they use relationships to fill an endless void that only the realization of their true spiritual value can break. So relationships sort of become this filler. It’s not exactly easy to let go of either since many people build their life around their relationships and family and often times they are bound to have some people who have more issues or lies in their life than you. In that sense then the only way to really entirely remove this issue is to remove relationships from your life, but do you want that??? A good analogy is trying to remove yourself from the modern food chain due to all the processed junk and chemicals and whatnot. You could start a farm but you probably don’t have the energy, resources or lifestyle to do that and you’re better riff just educating yourself on what to buy and making peace with the occasion junk you eat. I’d say something similar is needed for relationships if you value living in society, which most of you do when you realize the amount of work and resources it takes to live outside of society.

As someone who is getting married, I can relate a little bit of what you wrote. Here's the thing, you only have a limited amount of time and resources, and it gets spent up a lot sooner and quicker than you think. If she want's a baby and you truly know in this moment you don't then, be honest and tell her, do not lie about that. Be open to it changing, or never changing, but be honest. As a man there is indeed this drive to crave more and more beauty, I'm grateful my girlfriend is beautiful, thin and has a nice body but even I still sometimes want more or see a woman who has some unbelievable or different proportions and I desire sex with this other woman. You need to balance these two opposing forces of wanting something else vs being grateful with what you have. It's something you need to reflect on and you aren't born with some manual to life on what choice may be right for you always, you have to live life and make mistakes and just live it, it's always evolving and changing. You can't be outsourcing your emotions to her or blaming her in any way for them. Grow up. Don't waste any more of your time wining and playing games about how you feel bad or tricked or whatever. You know the truth and your mind knows the truth and what you don't know isn't a problem, you can continue to learn and grow in the relationship or leave it and learn and grow single. You overthink stuff way too much. Just be honest and stop being so autistic in your thought.

Interesting. He seems pretty chill. I remember that entirely bogus laptop scandal that failed to take off in 2020.

This is the one thing which keeps you stuck in red pill energy, even if you haven't gone down this rabbit hole. Focusing on unfairnesses and injustices in dating, relationships, man/woman societal roles, access to sex and resources. All these imbalances, unfairnesses and injustices in society when it comes to marriage, mating and dating, grinding an axe and obsessively future proofing yourself over these is what is holding you back from seeing through the veil and finding what is authentic and true for you. You aren't keeping yourself safe by focusing on this. You aren't righting some wrong by by discussing this. Just let it go. Imagine there is a way for this entire cloud over the male psyche to disappear if you just stopped focusing on this and focused on your true value and what makes you special and unique? Imagine that by just doing that any issues you have will resolve and your relationships will unfold in a way where they are satisfying and everything works out? Try it

That post isn’t exactly wrong …. I’m Jewish too. Zionism plays the victim card like crazy. It’s pure delusion. They basically genocide Palestinians because of what happened to them during WW2. Israel is a complete farce and a made up country like no other.