Lyubov

how to have videos posted on subreddits? I mean do i do it myself or ? idk i hate posting on reddit

DNC sabotage incoming. I swear the Dem party exists largely to keep true opposition from forming. I do believe a new left leaning political grass roots party could come about in the USA.

So I am one person and I have to balance my other responsibilities while making videos. In order to grow on YouTube you need to produce decent content people wanna watch. Your videos need to be both good and hold people’s attention + be consistent in output since the platform is driven by frequent production of new videos. You usually don’t make one video then have a successful channel with a million subs. You need to put out lots and lots of videos. Therefore you need a system for your content in order to make it sustainable. As a single person you can put out weekly videos but they will usually be shallow and not very good if you are producing one a week. Because you only have one week’s worth of time to make it. If you are publishing once a month you have more time to produce the video and refine it but you are not keeping up with the algorithm. The big channels either A) earned the right to publish infrequently by having built up a core audience over the years posting frequently or B) still post frequently but have a whole production team that is able to bridge the gap between algorithm and quality. I do travel vlogs which is largely a passion thing. It’s one of the harder niches to consistently publish in and it’s difficult to sustain frequent travel. I’m not sure if it’s viable for the long term financially but there are views in it and hopefully a way to meet like minded people.

He was originally a PUA, that’s true.

There isn’t complete certainty in any relationship. The only thing I believe one can really try to do on their end is communicate openly and honestly while honoring your own flow and authentic way. I don’t believe in vulnerability. I think it’s an illusion. What are you vulnerable to? What are you trying to keep safe? The relationship ending? Them saying something mean to you or withholding signs of approval and love? All of that traces back like a loose thread and culminates in some untrue belief like “I am not enough when my partner _________” or “I am unlovable because ________.” These beliefs are false. The ego / inner child creates this illusion that it needs to be in control with every step of change and every part of the relationship, like every step of the way and every moment in life this lens we retreat into because of the illusion of safety it grants like there is something to protect but the whole premise the word implies is faulty in the first place. You cant be emotionally safe, it doesn’t even make sense when you are the one creating your emotions in the first place. Relationship basically rest on being aligned in your innate spiritual value and acting in Wu Wei with honest communication. Reading books on how to communicate in a non violent way (nonviolent communication for example is a great book) is a great resource for how to communicate in relationships. From there it’s then finding the harmony between two people and accepting when that is not the case.

How does one be more original and creative in their pursuits in life?

Similar vibe entering Russia as a citizen from an unfriendly country. Questioned for hours. But they were polite to me.

Polymarket

Another issue I’m seeing is that a lot of information and self help for men is far too broad and muddied. Self improvement is incredibly personal and sometimes the steps you need to take come before other steps you think you should.

How old are you? What is your nationality and citizenship? What is your money situation and lifestyle? Ponder this: right action, wrong time.

I apologize if my words hurt you. I say fat because it’s the typical build of a person who watches looks influencers and kick twitch tv streams where this trend started. You can appear to be reasonably in shape and look fairly alright and even have decent photos and still do incredibly mediocre with online dating. You think you’re going to pull a super model that melts your face as a normal dude? Online dating is awful and flooded with men who lean entirely on it and don’t get the results they want then moan about how it’s all about looks. Men outnumber women by an astronomical proportion on tinder. We all have different foundations and unique places we start. In my day the obsession was about height. Every single guy moaned about height. Then it included race, Asians and Indians would moan why hot white women didn’t wanna sleep with them. Then it moved onto money and status and now it’s down to the total looks package of being fit and having a nice face on social media. All of these have always mattered and will always matter. The segment that was just unaware of it came of age and has a window into everyone’s life (influencer they covet) via social media to compare themselves to. I can guarantee if your friends were pretty decent guys with decent looks and they optimized their lifestyle they would pull irl if they did pick up face to face.

Excuse me? Do not call me dummy. They haven’t become more important. Chronically online tards just became aware that being fat obviously affects their chances with the instagram models they sit around fapping over. It always has, but people like you will run with looksmaxixng pollutants and use it as evidence against yourself to file away and strike down empowering beliefs about going out and approaching and socializing.

Early PUA maybe glossed over looks to a certain degree, maybe to a slight fault, but to be honest it was for good reason because a) it wasn’t teaching you to whipe your ass, obvious shit, not every teaching is complete and if you can’t put it together that if you’re fat as shit and un groomed and dressed like shit that it will affect your odds…. Idk what to say. 2) it was about developing your belief system, no longer being a victim and taking charge of your life through face to face action. Being slightly delusional in a way about affirming your value is extremely powerful in transforming victims. Challenging norms, making you tougher and more resilient by sharpening yourself and social skills and pushing you to take action. Looksmaxxing is largely by design for pure determinists and does nothing to work on your belief system about yourself. It puts you in a treadmill to try and buy products to change your face. Most guys won’t do anything other than that now.

No one ever said it was bad to exercise, lose weight, groom yourself, dress nicer. This is like some gen alpha shit just taking regular stuff you gad to do originally and putting their own social media spin on it by adding crazy shit to it in order to grift and find ways to become famous on the internet. Since when was looking nice some new concept? A lot of guys just do a shit job at it and generally speaking there was less of an emphasis or expectation for it to be needed at least in the zeitgeist but I’m still fairly certain it always was a determining unseen force a lot of guys just overlooked (why do you think some women say no? They have their reasons). Maybe now that has changed some.

Does anyone here have a facial skin care routine they follow? Something to reduce redness and make your face look healthier and skin clearer and nicer?

I make travel vlogs. It’s not easy at all. Every place has been visited before. It’s challenging to be original. I don’t think it’s necessarily so easy to put out consistently original and excellent content in huge volumes. It’s possible to either put out more shallow shit often or better content but it takes more time, energy, etc.

I don’t see a separation or overly necessary distinction between survival and spirituality. They are both sides of the same coin in Wu Wei. Survival is love. When you recognize that your survival becomes more loving.

Damn this is such a strange topic. On a human and political level I think it's way too lenient to give 500,000 illegal immigrants papers. On a more cosmic karmic level Spain colonized the shit out of South America so fuck em, what goes around comes around.

Yes and no. Ukraine has a similar European culture and religion to western European countries. State lead multicultural doctrine that lets in lots of immigrants from countries where people are from a much different background and religion can push the status quo too much and I think it's reasonable for people to not want the citizenry to suddenly have a sizable minority of people of non European origin, especially during economically tough times, there are citizens of EU countries struggling, letting in refuges and people could put strain on the social system. I don't have any figures or proof of this, I am only assuming that having a bunch of refugees obviously is paid for by taxes.

There isn’t a bigger victim card than the Jew card played by Israelis and the white Europeans who colonized the land.

Chinese mainland citizens

You sound quite biased but I appreciate your interpretation of things. I am not there on the ground so it’s difficult for me to know what’s true. There’s a lot of YouTubers peddling how immigrants are overrunning Europe. I don’t know if it’s just usual racism where most of them are fine and chill and a small percentage of the immigrants break the law. The YouTubers like to focus on immigrants breaking the law while simultaneously ignoring all the fucked up shit their compatriots do. So I don’t have the best read on the situation. I also don’t really care much either cause of colonialism. Not saying I support some heavy reparations agenda but considering a lot of European countries colonized the places these immigrants are coming from, I see it as a cosmic karma that will work itself out eventually one way or another. It’s a pity to see all these refugees flooding in though. I saw a photo of them and I would not want these people coming into my neighborhood or where my kids are. They look very impoverished and are definitely not going to integrate and that could cause some serious issues to the community.

I had friends who went, they weren’t burners but burner adjacent. This was back in 2013/14. As I understand it has changed a lot since then. It’s now more a festival and a lot of normies go.

Yeah sex is super important in this I agree

I’m determinist and principle based. She does this by her own choice whether she does so in a healthy way or not. There are a few manipulation techniques but they only work on women who are codependent and mentally unwell, and if you are using them you are on the other side of the same coin. Negging, seeking out women who act like victim, etc. There is no broad way to do this to women in general, only seek out women who are easily manipulated or immature which is what predators like Andrew Tate do. Now if you wanna do it in a healthy way just be at your top, working on your money, looks, lifestyle and status. Max all that out and be social and enjoying your life. You will meet great women in the process when you go out.