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It's easy to to tell if something is "good" or "bad" from a somehow "moral" perspective.. If after you do it you feel happy.. Blissful.. Peaceful.. Accepting.. Loving.. Then what you did was Good and you know it . If after you did it.. You felt miserable.. Suffering.. Angry..regretting.. Hating..then what you did is bad and you know it. So you could apply that to the act of prostitutes or killing a child.. These people are generally feeling negative emotions about what they are doing no matter how bleak or careless they appear on the outside.. There is a moral compass inside every human.. Even tho from a rational perspective morality is completely relative.

"The tao that can be named is not the eternal tao. The name that can be named is not the eternal name"

Perhaps you should try to grasp how silly it is to try to grasp the ungraspable. Trying to use thoughts and concepts to comprehend what by it's very nature is incomprehensible is like trying to use your ears to drink water to satisfy your hunger.. The wrong tool for the wrong goal.

You can't have an unconditional condition.

@Javfly33 also I think it's helpful to create a duality between the true self and the false self.. Saying that "you" don't exist and leaving it at that is really not the whole story.. You obviously do exist even tho you don't! It's just that the self cannot be found as a product of any external or internal phenomenon.. It's always in the background.. The ghost is not inside the machine.. The machine is inside the ghost. And to be more accurate it's all just the ghost.

You see how hilarious that is? It's like asking how can Santa accept that he doesn't exist?Ofcourse he can't because he can't do anything because it's not him who does stuff in the first place.

Why is that an issue anyways? It's only an issue if you think that you "should" react to certain things in a certain way determined by society or by how others react to that same thing.. None of that matters unless you think it is.. If you find something disgusting don't go there.. If you find something exciting go there.. Hungry? Eat.. Not hungry? Don't eat. As simple as that.

Ooooooh the ladies in this thread soooooo triggereddddddd XD. ??

Well one of the reasons is you will feel sexually satisfied by watching porn and you won't feel motivated or hungry to seek making a family or having real partners.. It's relative to that I should say. If you don't care about that or you can balance it out and connect with real women while at the same time consuming porn.. Fine go for it.. I can't tell you what you should or should not do.

Maybe I should marry all blondes out there since you guys seem not interested in them lol...

@Gesundheit Look I'm smart enough to not get into this debate.. It's so easy to make a case why you should be watching porn.. "it feels good DUH done bye bye".. But it takes intelligence and maturity to see why you shouldn't be watching porn anymore as I said especially if you are no longer a horny teenager.

No.. A guy who doesn't like blondes is the one who has some shadows that needs to be addressed lol jk. Seriously tho..I'm not saying that to provoke women who are not blondes.. I'm just being honest. It's something from my childhood and puberty.. Immediately I got attracted to blonde models who I saw in magazines or wherever else..

Yes and I am being honest. I used to watch porn back in it's prime (2014-2016). But honestly I just outgrew it. It's ok to watch a little bit here and there if you are horny.. But don't let that be your sexual outlet. You should strive for mating a real partner not some pixels on a screen.. Ofcourse I'm not saying it's right or wrong.. Who am I to judge? .. But come on.. as a grown ass man who wants to be serious about relationships you shouldn't be a porn dude anymore.

Leo stop watching porn already it's 2020 buddy lol .. Who even watches porn anymore? No judgment lol jk. But tbh it's not so high consciousness of a habit.

Honesty If you are not dating blondes you are wasting your time. Just like : if you don't take psychedelics for consciousness work..you are wasting your time.

It's not unexamined lol. I'm currently dating that blonde girl and she played a huge role in shaping my views on dating lol..

And what else matters when it comes to picking a partner for ME? When it's your partner we might need to be objective about it.. But I'm speaking about the perfect traits that " I "want in my partner. Ofcourse I would like her to fit my biased interests.. Why not? Should I want her to fit the criteria of Donald trump lol?

No what does astrology have to do with this? Maybe it's something about the DNA or genetics.. Got nothing to do with astrology. From my experience blonde girls are not just the most beautiful on the outside but even on the Inside.. That is a feminine.. Polite.. Classy traits. Ofcourse it's relative after all what is considered beautiful or classy might be different from your POV. Not so simple. It should be on paper. I actually asked the same question earlier on this thread about thar ugly face they posted.. Look at it and tell that's not ugly.. It's on page 2 I guess. So are you saying I should not marry and just keep dating multiple women constantly?

Hell yeah lol. Yes which is exactly my point. There is difference.. Your criteria is different from mine is different from someone else.. You are not ready to compromise on personality and I'm not ready to compromise on blonde lol...

What lol? Do you disagree? I only date blonde girls and I can tell you they are as equally beautiful as a personality as their looks. Why? You wouldn't want to spend the rest of your life with an ugly person.. At least you won't go cheating if your spouse is attractive enough to keep you locked. If I marry Scarlett Johansson I won't even leave the house or let her leave it lol jk. ??

Yes I agree and that's also what I want. But the difference is what's the priority for you? It seems like your priority in a guy is his personality and then comes his looks.. But ofcourse you'd like him to have them both. My priority in a girl is her blonde (I mean her looks lol) and then comes her personality.. But ofcourse I'd like her to have them both. You get how this works?

To you.. Relativity

Ofcourse who would reject the best of both worlds? If a person is both physically attractive and got a good personality.. That would be the perfect partner.. Everyone agrees on that I guess. The difference comes regarding what's the priority according to YOU? And since people are different their priorities are different.. My priority in a partner is their looks and THEN comes their personality. BTW blondes are usually classy and polite. They meet the criteria of physical attractiveness and the good feminine personality traits as well.

No I'm not talking just about sex although that's a huge part of what the male mind is focused on in relationships (let's be honest). But regardless.. I'm being honest.. I don't care that much about her personality traits if she fits the criteria of physical attractiveness according to my male mind. To me .. If a girl is beautiful and blonde.. That's it boom done let's marry lol

I mean if she is a blonde no problem with me lol...