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@Realms of Wonder You are responsible for your intention, not your reception.” ~Amy E. Smith I’ve realized that I put a lot of energy into trying to explain my point of views . Sometimes those explanations are an honest attempt to connect with another person or to step a little further out of hiding. Often, they are a result of my own self-doubt and desire for people to like me. For example, I feel an obligation to say yes to any invitation or request I receive. Sometimes I’m glad to agree, other times I’d prefer to do something else. It gets tricky when the thing I’d prefer to do seems unimportant. So you might be right about some of your observations but that's not the full picture. I'm here to share my knowledge. And to engage with people to gain from their knowledge as well. I post here because I like chatting with highly Intelligent people from all over the world about interesting topics . that's all

Yeah there is this whole thing callled Sexual transmutation .it is taking the sexual energy that's building inside you and channeling it into something else. You'll let that physical energy build up,and you purposely don't release it in that sexual way.You could, of course, channel it directly into physical sex, as so many do, but if you need a little extra oomph of creative energy or physical might, holding off on the sex and using that energy elsewhere is the idea of sexual transmutation.

Lol Of course its so easy to get laid there . Come visit India and you will be shocked how difficult it is here .I'm not making excuses but that factor (the country factor) does play a huge role. You can't compare Indian society with western society when it comes to sex and being open minded about it .

Im simply looking for a serious relationship. Just because i talk to girls everyday and appear confident and positive in relationships doesn’t mean i don’t suffer from fear of intimacy. We can’t fall in love unless we trust others enough to show them our weak side and our worries. So fear of intimacy is fear of being fully seen for all that you are, and also fear of being seen as imperfect. Basically I got a shit ton of work to do before I can get into a relationship. And that's the most annoying part of this whole process.

if there’s a creator, and he Is indeed infinite. Then it’s a definite possibility. Why create 7 billion people and make them live together? If God wants to create and develop a soul, why not give him his own personal world to live in. It’s no extra work… at least not for someone capable of building this universe Everything ‘here’ is sheer illusion. It's completely illogical for ‘you’ and ‘other people’ to assert that they or any of their silly words exist in any sense. If you're so clever, prove the definition of your little sloppy world there. I guarantee you will resort to an infinite regress of using other imaginary axiomatics to justify each other. Wake up.

@something_else where are you from ?

Maybe because one might be living without any passion or goal in life. You have nothing to distract yourself from the most overrated, beautiful, orgasmic fluid exchange we call intercourse. Intercourse is amazing but everything in excess is always wrong. When you will be occupied with real things ( goal ), intercourse thoughts will least bother you. I do not say don't go for it, I just want to say don't make it your obsession. Don't act like you have nymphomania

@Preety_India If every human was fully enlightened, would evil still exist? In other words if every human was always fully aware that ALL IS ONE and ONE IS ALL then NO. Why would you harm yourself and diminish your own experience and prevent your own growth and expansion? A fully enlightened being is always aware that separation is an illusion. Sorry but I don't know how else to explain it to you. So have a good day ,I guess

I recently got a blowjob from a hooker and that was it . This was few weeks back .and that felt awful tbh because the girl was poor and desperate for money .and I used her to gratify my sick desires . But besides that I have a "one girl per day challenge " In which i force myself to talk with at least one girl everyday. And as expected tons of rejections with few success here and there .

I'm not .Personally I think it is NOT necessary. No one dies from lack of sex. I think it's fun, and it's nice, but it's a want, not a need.

Thats true. And that's why I said a radically different state of consciousness is required to recognize the beauty and perfection in what we call evil. Don't get me wrong..reality would be a HELL of a lot better...no pun intended. Crime would be nearly gone, war would be a thing of the past.... That would be a much more conscious, turquoise society, far more advanced - with Love/Pure Consciousness as its focal point. Though not without its imperfections, it would be much like that highly advanced alien society you imagine is out there somewhere - or humanity in 1000 years.

I agree . I remember Osho saying something along the lines is that to transcend sex you must live it fully first .

@Preety_India For evil not to exist only the absence of your judgement is required - wich is one facet of enlightenment

Yeah that definitely me bro ..thanks for the compliment also I thought about that a lot .I'm currently living in Thailand where there's a lot of sluts and hookers .but I don't want to engage in mindless casual sex with poor girls who need money . That's against mny moral compass. So I better wait for marriage .

Do you know what the materialism perspective consider the point of human existence is? Despite what that motivational YouTube video or Instagram quote might have told you, it is not to “find yourself”. The point of life is to survive long enough to pass on your genetic material and have children. That’s where the drive to have sex comes from when we go through puberty. As one rises to adulthood, the drive to have sex increases and most people become extremely horny. This is our biological imperative. On a personal level, sex is extremely pleasurable and can be very positive if you have lots of consensual sex with a partner whom you like. Could I have been more productive in high school, college, and other times in my life if I completely ceased the pursuit of sex with girls? Sure, but I wasn't going to do that. I had the urge to get with chicks and like many other members of the animal kingdom, I did a lot of things (some of them very stupid) to attract female attention in hopes that would lead me to “close the deal”. I lifted weights and got huge, grew a thick full beard to signal virility and maturity, partied a lot, chatted up almost every hot girl I saw, but I'm still not satisfied .and I know that I won't ever be satisfied no matter how much sex I have. Because happens lies completely beyond the animalistic desires of the body .or at least that's my perspective.

Because we lack consciousness to see that it's all perfectly perfect. If everyone was at an advanced enough stage of enlightenment it would be as if the earth was one giant collective consciousness. Think of the ideal family who's values align so perfectly that there is never any issues. Now extend that family to everyone on the planet. At an advanced enough stage of enlightenment, all resistance to what is ceases. The duality between selfishness and selflessness is shattered. The idea of doing anything to harm another person seems ridiculous. The idea of taking from others to suit yourself seems counterproductive, because everyone IS you. Once you realize your groundless nature and your identity becomes completely fluid, it makes more sense to abide as the entire earth rather than as an individual. You don't have to tell someone not to cut off their own arm haha.

But I know as a fact that I'm not getting any sex in less than five years. I have a university degree to finish and I have to find a job with a decent salary to afford for a marriage or serious relationship.

In our modern era today..I think it's important to most people. However I don't think it should be the number one necessity to live a good life or to even live any kind of life . I know that sex is biological need just like food. But we can surpass that need just like on fasting day we fast and still be happy. When one gets higher pleasure he can surpass lower pleasure. We find so many sadhus, saints and great people they are happy and satisfied without having sex. Essentially we are not this body but soul, when soul is in connection with supersoul he is happy just like fish feels comfortable in the association with ocean or water.

@Federico del pueblo I'm sorry if I'm annoying you with my threads on the dating section lately. Its just that I'm a single dude with not much friends who likes to mentally masturbate about all kinds of stuff. And what is better than sex to talk about? Do you got better topic?

When I was in my 16 in puberty age I just loved sex! I would think about sex in the morning, afternoon and evening. I would love to watch porno flicks, I would talk about sex and I would eagerly wait for sexual encounters to happen with girls. In fact, my dream was to have one million girl-friends, be the most desired man and have sex with thousands of women. Alas….how times change. Today, at the age of 25, I constantly ask myself “Were you seriously a playboy or were you lying about it?” Do you know why? Because today sex is no longer important to me. My sexual appetite has decreased to such a level - I only think about for 5 minutes. Yup - 5 minutes and I am done.

@Federico del pueblo i just gotta get rid of my desperate mindest . Someone told me lately that you aren't getting it precisely because you are chasing it so much . It's what's known as the reverse rule . Seek it less..and you will get it more . How do you think about this ?

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Its obvious. To have a complete and perfect understanding of the entire Universe. Scintists have been working for a century to fined GREAT UNIFIED THEORY. The importance of unifying the natural forces in one theory is to understand in depth the universe and nature in general.Also it clarifies how the universe is created and what are the properties of this great unified force or field which is the source of finding the universe.It is a big dream of humanity to understand well why this unverse is?and why we are here?these scientific questions are too important to find their answers,of course the real religions which believe in one God they have some information about the creation of the universe specialy in Islam,but still it is too important to find a one theory of everything scientifically, though science cannot in fact understand the full mind of God,it is a red line that human be in God place fully.

It gets tricky here because the way you are framing it . you see ..the bottom line is that Solipsism can't be proved or disproved. And I know this very well. However,If you understand how consciousness works (it’s fundamental) and how reality works in idealism, you will possibly reach the conclusion that we are all solipsists in superposition. What is the problem with solipsism? It seems you are looking for a solution without a problem. Philosophically, I am a solipsist and a panpsychist. My position is that we are all solipsists in superposition with each other and so the only mind that exists that we can know for certain is our own. From that standpoint (mine), all the other entities (solipsists) might as well be p-zombies (7.5 billion at least ,from fully fleshed examples fading to abstract conceptual entities. I believe that the others to themselves are fully fledged solipsists in their own right and not p-zombies but from each of our individual existences, the all the others are p-zombies. For example: I am writing these words and from my vantage, I am a sentient being that experiences all the trappings of existence. Qualia and physicality are mine and exist because I consciously/subconsciously create and experience them. To you however I am whatever you conjure as an abstract concept. I am the pixels on a screen that you conceive/perceive as some forum user with the label “Someone here” generated in replies to questions. Your brain translates those pixels into symbols that you perceive as words which point to connotations within your consciousness and cobble their (your) meanings into concepts. What do i mean by this? You are projecting the idea that what you are experiencing right now has a deeper independent reality to it. Which you call the external objective world. You Believe the world exists when you are not perceiving it. recognize it’s a more of convoluted belief system that requires extra mind baggage.. that careful.. objective.. direct study of experience and reality does not need. In fact.. if you studied your direct experience long enough you’d notice all sensory perception has no solidity to it at all.. it’s just a fluid.. spacious.. fluctuating field of is-ness popping into and out of a void. the “objective” reality science thinks is out there is quite literally impossible if they knew what they were actually studying, which is perception. The thoughts that think there’s an objective layer are also popping into and out of this void. This requires an extremely stable...mindful concentration of what is really happening vs what your mind thinks is happening. However your consciousness of the present moment is actual. regardless of whether you deny perception/consciousness, it’s here, it’s primary, it’s completely undeniable. Any extra metaphysical claims about the substance of reality are subject to unfalsifiable skepticism. And again.. It's impossible to prove an objective external world outside of your imagination due to the nature of conscious experience only having the ability to exist as experience. Consciousness is all you have to prove a world. So you are always using consciousness as the actual substance of inquiry and you cannot step outside of consciousness to verify is something outside of consciousness.

@Preety_India You first tell me what you mean by 'evil', 'evil' to me is an intention placed into the act. But then still, killing an ant is the same as killing a baby. The reason society reacts differently to both acts is because in their perception of the subject 'humanity' (themselves) is more important than the other. Good and evil are concerned with human notions of ethics and morality and are both relative and dynamic, in that they differ (sometimes significantly) between different cultures and are subject to periodic change and adaptation. Thus, good and evil are not absolute i think it has to depend on your meaning of evil . does eating meat count as evil? you have to realize reality is neutral. evil and good are projections .they are assigned by your mind. so ironically to be enlightened is to realize that everything is perfect already. but then of course undoubtedly if all people are "enlightened" there will be less relative evil .