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I think try both and see for yourself and then decided. The older you get and the more you grow will also change how you approach this. I dated around when younger and was fun in a way but now I definitely wouldn't do that now, being with multiple people will take up a lot of time and energy that could be spent on other things. One person is bad enough. But when your younger it seems to be more doable. Also some people naturally have higher sex drives and more energy so you might be one of them that could pull it off. Also another thing to bare in mind on a spiritual level is they say if you sleep with people you are not fully connected with its damaging to your soul on a spiritual level. Not sure how true that it but its worth baring in mind.

This is super interesting I can definitely relate to this, on the one hand no fap makes me feel amazing but eventually the pendulum swings the other way and I get to horny and end up sleeping I didn't connect with or relapse. The middle ground seems to be the healthiest way, I pretty much am always on no fap and sacred to ejaculate because of the low I feel afterwards but maybe if I start doing it more I will get use to it.

@MsNobody I use to be a massive player when I was younger and was even a dating coach for men for a bit. When I 'woke up' so to speak my whole approach to dating started to completely change and I started to treat women very well whilst at the same time giving them exactly what they wanted. I generally think there are conscious men out there who are also not beta and have game but use it for good, tho they might be quite rare tho I know a few guys like this. From the sounds of it I would say you should start to hold off and screen men hard to see if they are this type of guy. And if they are not maybe don't bother. Start to learn how to gain control over your urges, just because a man is say attractive dose not mean much, they need to give you more if you ask this for yourself. wait for someone who is growing consciously, solid in himself, is free of toxic masculinity and who will help you grown as well as giving u great sex. (also someone who won't treat u like shit). Say I dunno someone like Russel brand, he's gone through that hedonistic phase and knows how to please a women but has started to really mature. Thats the way I approach it now when meeting women, I just screen super hard and I am super picky. But I can be as there is a Hugh abundance of girls out there as well as men for a hot chick who has her shit together. Also think about what sort of girl a man like this would want. I have always wondered whats the best way for women to approach dating in a conscious way., there is matt Hussey but Im not sold on him. Thats just my two cents but Id imgaine like Leo said there must be much better advice out there with an experienced women in this area.

Yeah well I'm not going to validate it because deep down I know full well you don't want to suffer anymore in this area. The fact of the matter is you could learn how to get girls if you want and the choice is yours. so from here on in I would only post questions now related to helping you in that area. Ive seen this first hand, 100s of guys who sucked put in the effort and eventually got meaningful relationships. I coached some of them. Sorry to be harsh with you but I really think its the only way to get through to you. If you lived in the UK id happily sort you out myself lol There was of course the ones who did nothing and complained and ended up lonely or depressed. Its interesting about your Instagram point. I guess thats the problem with your generation, you have grown up with the rise of toxic social media and its wrapped your perception. Put it this way if you learned game and you approached her in real life it would be a different story. Regarding your hangup about looks, its probably coming from a deep trauma within you. Doing some inner work and psychotherapy will be good for you. Also some self love pratices. Obviously this isn't the best time to be going out meeting women so the best thing to do would be to use this time wisely and study some game material, do as much inner work as you can and when Covid starts to clear get your ass out there and change this once and for all

Ok so the first you you should be doing is working on fixing these beliefs. I only used the term "unattractive' to illustrate the point you don't need to be good looking. A high quality women would much prefer a deeply connected and grounded man with purpose and vision. Which is hopefully what you are aiming to become ? Why are you doing this to yourself? There is a solution to your problems. Go out, socialised and learn how to relate to people and women whilst fixing your inner game. I feel the fact that people now go online more than they go out has caused a huge misconception on how people interact with each other. Please tell me what are you waiting for?? If you don't want to take action then fine that's cool but if you suffer because of this don't complain about it as you are essentially lying on your own bed of nails.

yeah he just needs to go out more and stop spending all that money on coaching and just get experience. I was a hardcore newbie also and took probably more approaches than Leo to get my first proper result. He needs to get at least 500 approaching in then revaualte, lets face it some people are just lazy and need to fix there mindset. I prob got rejected over a 1000s times and I never complained once because I knew deep down I would get there if I just kept going and low and behold I did.

@arlin Hey man, I use to be in your position. How old are you? When I was younger I was terrible with girls like beyond bad. However back then the only stuff online I could find was RSD and pick up. There is a lot of misleading stuff out now that can really mess with your head. I spent well over 5 years deep in game so have 1000s of hours of experience so I know what its like to suck and it make you very depressed to then getting it handled to then leaving it completely to embark on a spiritual journey to the big E. I even use to coach it back in the day but I forget how much suffering this can be for people so Im up for helping someone out. Where do you live? First regarding the looks thing, your right to some degree. Looks do help, they get you a "in" and in some cases it can be a very big in where you don't have to put that much effort in however developing your ability to relate to women and embracing your masculinity and sexuality is way more important. Ive got a lot of male model friends and they do not get the best results. I know some pretty unattractive guys who could wipe the floor with them. Also I got to be honest here even if your super attractive it generally dose not make a difference with the super high quality girls you would want to date. Anyway, what can you do. 1. Move to a big city with lots of people. 2. Learn some basics ways to talk and relate to women and start going out and practising it. Go to bars, do some daygame, join clubs, make new friends , try making new female friends and just get yourself out there. 3. Start working inwards on why you have hangups with women, why are you not getting sex and relationships. Start to try and see if you can pinpoint the issues. 4. work on your fashion 5. find other people on the same journey who can inspire you. 6. Enjoy it as it will be one of the most fun parts of your life and you will look back with a lot of fond memories. 7. Look at potentially hiring a dating coach. The fearless man seems pretty good, old rsd. 8. Be very mindful to not get sucked into pua culture, see Leos video on PUA. 9. Hit the gym, getting bigger just seems to help. 10. MMA and BJJ are great for overall confidence. Like anything this is a skill that can be learned but just do it in a holistic way. The dangers are that PUA and mens dating advice can come with some toxicity and you can become addicted to sex. That happened to me if your approaching women all the time it can mess with your brain the same way porn dose but If your coming from the right place you should be bee to avoid this and get this sorted in a relatively short amount of time. 2 years maybe more all depending on how you take to it. Anyway get of the internet and get your ass out there interacting with women and you'll soon come to see its reality not that big of a deal and its very fun. Then when your ready you'll go back to being celibate, this time voluntary as you'll lear you were chasing your tail and you will go uber spiritual. Or just happily married or whatever.

@Javfly33 yeah Ive been in similar situations, I once ended up living with the Russian mafia. I put some effort in making friends with the boss who was the crazy one and it got me out of a lot of potential violent situations with them. I even lent him like 20£ knowing he was not going to pay me back but I knew he would stay out my way incase I tired to ask for it back. Worked a charm ahah. Ive also had other similar situations. My advice would be try and make an effort to make friends with him, if that dose not work, learn to fight. MMA is prob the best gives you all the tools you need. Don't let him push you around, most tough people are generally very nice its the insecure people who can't fight that feel the need to act like that. Its really about not showing fear when you stand up for yourself. If he clearly is a maniac however then just move out and don't put yourself in danger.

What is the highest way to deal with societies evil and injustice? The way I'm seeing it atm is that evil is really just a part of reality and needed part of reality. Ultimately Its really just another form of love and seeing it this way eliminates ego from getting in the way when trying to deal with it in society. Seeing it for what actually is, is the first step in dealing with it properly. The problem I am having is that if I tell this to people it causes them to get defensive and also they claim taking that perspective is bypassing the problem, which in ways it can but I see it that if you don't then you just using "stopping evil" as an excuse to exercises your own agenda and belief systems. But of course people will always see it this way until they have mystical experiences so whats the best way to relate to them? I work in a very "green" environment so people are very sensitive and passionate with the idea of stopping injustice and protesting ect. however they seem to get very defensive regarding ideas on none duality and everything being an expression of love. So I know to keep my mouth shut but is there a better way to communicate this or am myself not seeing this correctly. Thanks for taking the time for reading this

I think it would be to complex and nuance than that. And who said humanity needs to change? dose 5meo not show you everything Is perfect as it is no? if god wants to change humanity he will, how dare we get in the way

@Johnny5 There are indeed, Im just not sure being passive about it is the most effect way tho. Maybe it just dose not matter. How do you communicate such Ideas without triggering people or do you not bother. People will grow at there own pace I guess

Can you trust reality? Can you trust trusting ? All games of the mind

Yeah and he has awakened through 5meo and the fact he's the baddest man on the planet ahah

Interesting tho it did the opposite for me made life waaaay more enjoyable. Like life x100 but It took me awhile to reajust

@Nak Khid yeah I've met mike tyson quite a few times and he's fully awakened

@Kiko Hey mate if its any motivation I use to suck with girls also like really really bad. aged 22 I got involved with pick up for a few years it was a lot more popular back then around like 2013. For two years I went out every day and it was brutal at first but eventually it all started to sort itself out within about 3 years of pushing my comfort zones. Luckily this is something you can work and improve on and dose require effort but if you put in enough effort you can get better results quite quickly. And there is a lot better advice out there now, a lot more wholesome. I'd say Brain Begin the fearless man seems to be the most integrated maybe check him out. Ultimately this all comes down to how much love you have for yourself and others. When I researched 25 I finally got good with girls and I was miserable, it didn't make me happy. I ended up having a dramatic spiritual awakening brought on by some intense life experiences and then naturally progressed on that path as I realized deep within my soul no one can truly make you happy you have to find it within yourself. So with that being said you don't really need to put pressure on yourself here as you are the one who holds the light at the end of the tunnel not members of the opposite sex. Knowing this makes it so much easier as you can then start to work on truly loving someone without the need of anything in return from them. Ive researched a stage where I could live the rest of my life without ever meeting someone again. If one comes along great but it really dose not matter to me. A true awakening will make remake you a happy virgin. So keep this in mind you will be going around in a circle but thats ok as it needs to be realised. P.s learn comedy too, women looove to laugh its the key to there ♥️

@Jacobsrw Yeah vipassanas are great really recommend them. Yeah for sure, luckily about 50% of the meditation done there can be done alone you can request a cell too. Yeah the book is a very good outline for meditation. @Raptorsin7 1. Look into doing a retreat or doing your own home one. 2. make your sits gradually longer 3. start looking at incorporating yoga, start with traditional hatha then you could try kriya? 4. Read the book the mind illuminated 5. Outline what it is you want from your meditation, stream entry/ enlightenment 6. keep practicing you'll get there it can be a slow process for some, Im quite impulsive so I have to incorporate a lot of yoga to ground me into my body, for past month managed to turn lockdown into a spiritual retreat and made so really great gains. The main thing that I can say that gives you liikelyhood of success is just doing longer sessions so 4/7 hours a day and you'll be getting down with buddha real quick. Tho everyone is different I guess

Yeah the longer the sit normally the more likely of a breakthrough. I find if I do it strong determination (not moving) things start to get really funky 1.5 to 2 hours in. Also retreats are great and give you a huge boost. Incorporating yoga also helps a lot. Also have you read the mind illuminated? Thats. a great book on meditation?

I'm very worried for his mental health I think he needs someone to support him and guide him through this transition something seems very ungrounded. I wish him all the best however and its good he has woken up so to speak and can spread the message

Leo have you ever considered writing a book about psychedelics and everything you have learned on them? Would be awesome, you are the man to do it

The only way to truely find out is to awaken to god otherwise we are just playing intellectual games

Ahahaha I love hearing stories like this, beautiful ?️‍♂️

Great report dude thanks for sharing was an interesting read ?

@Free Mind hahahah I think he was joking, but I wouldn't underestimate mike. He is doing a great job of pushing this into the mainstream as he in a well known figure also he has had an insane life and had experienced a lot of things most people never will so he has developed spiritually quite a lot id imagine.