intotheblack

Human breast milk naturally has only about 1g of protein and about 7g of carbs. This was designed perfectly for baby human to grow.

Exactly. Reparenting oneself along with socialising, with all types of people not only girls. This is a key thing people miss out on, forming friendships and deepening non - romantic relationships that they already have. This is even more important than just trying to pickup women. Start forming friendships/non-romantic relationships with real people without expectations, instead of bypassing that and going straight to talk to girls without any core human social skills. This might work short term to get a quick lay, but there is no foundation there to actually create a bond. Start seeing women as fellow humans, and not just as people who should be putting out. It’s this sense of entitlement around sex that needs to change. Incels think that women owe them sex but at the same time show hatred and disrespect towards them. Why would a healthy human want to be around that type of person?

you can’t regulate dating, would be impossible. Just comes down to lack of socialising and relationship education from a young age. most people learn this already, of course unconsciously learning, but naturally learning. relationship education is already changing and in the U.K. it’s now compulsory for primary school children and it’s already been part of the curriculum in Scandinavia for years. https://www.gov.uk/government/publications/relationships-education-relationships-and-sex-education-rse-and-health-education/relationships-education-primary It’s ever since the rise of the Internet and video games that we saw the rise of hermits, before this a hermit was simply a book worm, but even they would still go out and meet people. Just so happens that this all entwined with women having more freedom of choice. So people will think ‘yeah it’s the women’s fault, we should never have allowed them choice!’ Without realising that as society changes, you also need to change with it, not resist it. Most of today’s generation also pretty much skipped a healthy stage blue foundation and went straight into orange/ red-orange so we have a lot of low integrity, materialistic, self absorbed and unloving, disrespectful and entitled people running around. get off the Internet, go socialise, integrate some healthy stage blue and be a better human. All starts with reparenting yourself.

‘’He who fights with monsters should look to it that he himself does not become a monster. And if you gaze long into an abyss, the abyss also gazes into you." - Friedrich Nietzsche. ”There is no coming to consciousness without pain. People will do anything, no matter how absurd, in order to avoid facing their own Soul.” - Carl Jung “Life moves pretty fast. If you don’t stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.” - Ferris Bueller “Because we don’t know when we will die, we get to think of life as an inexhaustible well. Yet everything happens only a certain number of times, and a very small number really. How many more times will you remember a certain afternoon of your childhood, some afternoon that is so deeply a part of your being that you can’t even conceive of your life without it? Perhaps four or five times more, perhaps not even that. How many more times will you watch the full moon rise? Perhaps twenty. And yet it all seems limitless.” - The Sheltering Sky

Wow, never thought about that side of it. I just looked at that website, I’m going to check out the documentary. Thanks for the info!

The guy has a STI, thats why she doesn't want to have sex with him. It's not like he can sleep with alot of women freely, he knows he has limited options now unless he finds someone who has the same sexual health problem.

Yes now I remember you posted about it a few months ago. Don’t get back with him you’d be risking your own health. This doesn’t sound like an enjoyable relationship at all and it seems he wants to get back with you because of his condition and is worried he won’t get another girlfriend because of it. But this doesn’t mean you should be in a sexless relationship, you should find someone else who you trust and can enjoy sex with.

No, knowingly using someone isn’t ethical. But sometimes hearts get broken and it can’t be helped. Because In the beginning there is lust and after that is gone you awaken to the incompatibility.

Why did you break up in the first place? Those problems will likely arise again. I would also question what is it around sex that you don’t like?

@Harlen Kelly It wasn’t just watching porn though. He was wanking off to Facebook friends, Twitter and Tik tok. That’s a bit creepy.

Yes and even if love is mentioned in the dating section you will be attacked for it ??‍♀️ the more I think about it this forum can be very toxic, and makes me want to leave. It’s like a love hate relationship lol.

I’m in agreement for the femininity sub forum. I feel like this forum is just a reflection of the world - too much masculine not enough feminine. but I suppose @Leo Gura needs to decide which direction he wants the forum to head in. Maybe he prefers that there is more of a masculine vibe here. We need to make space for more love here. Love is the only way... ?

Wasn’t denying that men will look and appreciate the beauty of many women. but that need to ‘get’ is what can be transcended. ❤️ ✌?

This is what I’ve been trying to say lol. Ahahah

It also just takes up a lot of time. Someone focused on their life purpose wouldn’t have the time to be searching for sex outside of a relationship. It’s mentally and physically draining. also people are forgetting one thing, love ❤️ people in a compatible and loving relationship wouldn’t feel the need for it, because they are having their needs met, if it’s healthy. (Yeah maybe it won’t last forever) (Now wait for attacks)

This wasn’t my point. I wasn’t implying that monogamy is more transcendental. What I was saying is that certain things can be transcended like the need for acting out a certain desire, which could be satisfied in other ways like having other things going on in your life. Usually it comes down to boredom and lack of fulfilment in other areas of life that they search in other ways to get that fulfilment. I don’t believe monogamy is the be all, end all. And I don’t believe 1 relationship has to last forever. Some do. Most don’t. i was speaking of the attitude of people here, and how they were saying it’s just something the woman has to accept and get over, like it’s the absolute truth. It’s just about finding someone you are compatible with. Most people aren’t compatible, so they start searching elsewhere outside the relationship. Both women and men fantasise about sleeping with others, this is not just a male thing. I was talking to a friend today, she told me she and her boyfriend had just opened there relationship, and it was HER who wanted that, not him. Some people are happy with monogamy. If you aren’t happy with it then stay single or find a compatible partner who wants the same as you. Why not stay single whilst you act out your innermost desires, don’t try to be in a monogamous relationship while you’re going through this, if it’s not something you want or are ready for, therefore minimising your collateral damage on others..

Where did I say it was evil? there is a difference between having a desire to do something and actually doing it and hurting other people along the way. Do what you want but also be aware that there will be a trail of collateral damage. Most of these desires come and go, it’s normal. I’m not saying that having these fantasies is wrong, everyone does it. Something like wanking excessively to your Facebook friends is something small that can easily be transcended by simply having other things going on in your life and breaking away from that dopamine fix. Or even just doing some hardcore workouts and grounding yourself. Plus seeking feminine energies in other ways. cos that’s all it is, a dopamine fix. I remember years ago I went through a phase of watching porn, and I realised how addictive it was, then I couldn’t cum without it. And that’s me as a woman, becoming addicted to porn.. and that was just like once or twice a week. I stopped it cold turkey and went back to imagination which was really hard at first. So I can imagine how addictive it would be if you’re doing it every day.

A smart response. Don’t be in a relationship if you want other partners, or find someone who also wants an open relationship. Don’t force the other person to accept something.

No. Both should transcend. I’m pointing out how the responses here are that women should ‘just accept it’ or find someone more secure. of course women should also transcend never said they shouldn’t! and I would say the same thing to a woman who want to sleep with other men whilst in a relationship. I’m sure a lot of guys wouldn’t want this either. Just be single and sleep with lots of people and get it out of your system, don’t drag other people into it and hurt them.

Yep. Of course it’s purely devilish to say that from a mans point of view, and it’s benefitting them to say that it is the woman who should be more secure and that she has to simply accept that. It wouldn’t be expected of the man to transcend himself in that area. No just the woman should change. It allows them to keep being devils. also remember most the guys on this forum are young and have distorted views on relationships and love.

It just depends on the individual men this is not the total truth. Many men don’t care about that especially as they get older.

I don’t think the issue is watching porn, it’s the masturbating over girls that you know on Facebook. how can she see your search history etc. Does she have access to your accounts?

Wow some amazing photos there ? Tre Cime di Lavaredo mountain range in the Dolomites, Italy

Did you do shadow work and inner child work already ? If you try to bypass your traumas they will come up eventually, maybe this is what’s happened when listening to Teal? it’s making you feel uncomfortable because you don’t want to look at that side of yourself perhaps.