Intraplanetary

@Swarnim good stuff

in what way?

fun

yes, the more you give yourself to a man the more he takes you for granted. The key is to be self-reliant and be like water to a thirsty mouth - let him sip, don't gurgle. I agree with @aurum loving is a choice and practice and this has to be mutual. I wish to have a relationship where I could completely let go and surrender in trust that the abundance of my love and loyalty would not be taken for granted. One day.

I have quite a lot of free time on my hands these days and the same will be in the foreseeable future so this idea has just popped - how could I make some extra cash online. Does anyone have some broad ideas? I'm looking for some legit and honest ways and don't mind to invest some time learning something if would be needed to gain basic knowledge. Cheers guys

the guy is gay and he wanted to be a girl in his puberty, but since transgenderism was unheard thing back then, he accepted himself to be a man. He also speculates that people should evolve past transgenderism in the future.

Someday when the descendants of humanity have spread from star to star, they won't tell the children about the history of Ancient Earth until they're old enough to bear it; and when they learn they'll weep to hear that such thing as Death had ever once existed. - Eliezer Yudkowsky

kinda relevant.

does that apply to coffee too? grounded or instant.

never say never.

nah, that book is about creating boundaries between man and woman. we are more similar than we are different. that's for sure.

omg, you're hopeless i wish one day you'll fall in love deeply; you will want that woman by your side every day and night. @integral you shouldn't come complain here and ask strangers advice about how your girlfriend is distracting you without even having a conversation with her. Communicate with her and see if things will improve. Leave this forum as your last resource.

not in my world ??‍♀️??‍♀️??‍♀️

That is exactly my path. I contemplate and self-reflect the shit out of myself, plus I do some practices from all different spiritual disciplines. I integrate them all. And even though I read books, I've never been very cognitively oriented in my development at least not in the way SD describes. However, I'm still highly perspectival and able to make connections where people would not usually see them which is the key in how Yellow thinks and sees the world. Map is not the territory. Thanks for sharing this @Adam M

Is it possible that a person can move to Yellow by simply developing oneself spiritually, hence naturally becoming perspectival and also through contemplation? Is it possible that spiritual development by default bring a person up to Yellow stage?

100% developing pure faith is deeply spiritual. Reality is imaginary, hence your believes are fundamental in changing your reality. It may take years and great focus to imagine something into reality but it's possible.

so what allows Yellow to happen then? if not becoming perspectival?

definitely watching, thanks for sharing

You really need a lot of time alone to be able to go through your emotions. Other things just going to distract.

Emotional intelligence and intuition are developed in solitude through practise and not by going around talking with people. Yes, a woman can sit work on herself and wait to be approached and it won't take her long to figure the guy out.

I mean that the more I master my emotions the more I become aware and make wiser decisions in dating. I believe people with lower emotional mastery tend to get hurt or fooled. There is also a lot of trauma bond between people which can be mistaken for love and since most of us have issues since childhood there is a lot of it going on. A very feminine woman with high emotional intelligence and intuition is a wise one and I don't see how she is going to fall for an asshole. I think in the end, the success to long-term relationship boils down to a person's development and maturity level regardless the gender.

There is a huge spectrum of emotions. You yourself said that emotional mastery is more important than intelligence. Emotions are the key in growing spiritually. Love is emotion as much as understanding; and there is nothing more fundamental than love. What you said here contradicts everything you teach unless you are talking about people who are not aware of their emotions and get themselves trapped into dysfunctional relationships. But emotions certainly don't turn you into an unconscious animal.

too late ? ?