LfcCharlie4

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  1. Non-Duality when embodied will show you and you will live as the Self, as the Absolute and know yourself and everything to be that,it's pretty fucking awesome. Unless you wanna go live in a cave and meditate forever, you still have the Human realm to live through, after all, you're still a Human with a body and a mind until the day you die, so personally I also want the best human experience, it's as simple as that really. To me, there's no point being awakened if I'm living on the streets begging for food, extreme I know.
  2. @Leo Gura What do you regard as this as I feel there's stages and depths to this for example. Like I feel as if I live in nondual awareness 24/7, with this background of peace that never leaves despite the content and whether I'm 'enjoying' whatever is happening. This has been developing rapidly recently, but I wouldn't say I'm finished yet either. So do you also class it on some sort of depth, and not an all or nothing, as I imagine surely now you must also be living in non-dual awareness, like from the LOC level (sorry) like the 700s potentially? (I know you don't like it but as a reference point) Or say from what Zen picture as I know you like that model more
  3. @Leo Gura Question Leo, I know you had a session with Ramaji. Have you ever had sessions/ worked with any other teachers/ masters of our time, or are you mainly flying solo with the psyches?
  4. @Mikael89 Buy why are you saying you can't change anything lol. Millions have before you and millions will after you, yeah it's not easy, but the quicker you start and gain momentum the easier it will be. What are you suggesting you can't change?
  5. @Mikael89 I honesty thought you was joking, why are you even doing this work then lol if you believe you can't change anything about you? Your whole thing is simply a belief that you have reinforced to the point it is your identity, @Leo Gura can you help me out here lol. You can change your life, you think everyone here was just gifted and it just happened to them? I know I wasn't I used to be overweight, had severe Acne, a shitty diet and was a hardcore atheist etc etc You can change your whole life, that's literally the point of Personal Development work and Self Realization. You're also coming at it from a very martialist paradigm, in fact the brain is actually within consciousness if you want to go into it, all your thoughts and beliefs are coming from awareness, I promise you with the right approach and with small steps you can transform your life. So, what exactly is going wrong that you want to change? How do you think Heroin addicts changed their lives, or severely depressed people, it wasn't by playing the victim and blaming their brain for their circumstances
  6. @Mikael89 I'm guessing I've been really stupid and you're being sarcastic lol.
  7. @Eugenio Maybe she is doing that I'm unsure,I feel that book is more for Empaths looking to find their way, maybe the title is misleading. Btw people charge for spiritual teachings, if it's their job there's nothing wrong with that as long as they help you, I pay my teacher, at the end of the day they're giving up their time and deserve to live life comfortably like anyone else, if your bug is with people earning a living for spirituality you'll need to work through that! I'm going, to be honest, your messages are hard to interpret as they are all one paragraph and chop and change topics synonymously, could you please explain what you're asking? Yes, some people are greedy, unfortunately, that's the world we live in. How do you define greed though is my question?
  8. @Leo Gura I'm really glad to see this from you man, a lot of people here seem to take shit so seriously, go out and enjoy life!!!!
  9. @Eugenio Empaths are simply Highly Sensitive People, basically they absorb others emotions like a sponge and this can cause real issues, if you want to understand more there's lots on Amazon/ YouTube about it, I know a few myself and this is definitely 'real' so to speak, you can even find forums online, it's a real issue that needs specific techniques to address and deal with it. For lightworkers and fairies I personally haven't seen them or researched too much, I researched Empaths in detail for both my own understanding and for work reasons, although I know witchcraft is growing a lot as well, these supernatural 'abilities' certainly exist, but vary from person to person and I wouldn't worry about them unless you actually have them, focus on your own awakening and finding your own path. There's certainly scammers out there like there is in every endeavour, spirituality is certainly not free of corruption, although truly self realized beings (People I class at LOC 1000) would not take part in this scamming, or scandalling. You don't need drugs at all, plenty have got there without them, in fact the majority have, however I acknowledge they can help a lot of people gain insights into the nature of reality, so it's up to if that's your path but I really don't recommend it for under 25s due to the brain still developing. Personally I feel working with a teacher 1-1 and receiving spiritual transmissions are the most efficient path but I'm biased as that's my path just as those on the Psyches path are biased to that, we're all biased in some way haha! If you wanna connect please message me mate, I know what it's like to feel lost on this path, in fact I was depressed for a long while on this path, and to where I am now I still am so grateful for what has happened to 'me.' I'd recommend starting a meditation practice if you haven't just beginner level stuff to help calm your mind down a bit before jumping in at the deep end!
  10. @Eugenio Strongly disagree here on a number of your points. In fact, there's a phrase 'The Stink of Enlightenment' where people think they are better because they're enlightened, and they likely are, just not fully self-realized, it's not all or nothing with enlightenment there are different depths to it, and I would go as far as to say a lot of monks are not fully self realized as they are sheltered and have not embraced this very world as their very own selves- think of hermits etc. Also, if someone thinks they are enlightened and they clearly are, that doesn't stop them being enlightened, again it means they could get stuck there instead of going beyond enlightenment, non-duality and a host of other concepts to finally realize the true absolute beyond all words. At the end of the day, just because someone chooses to be a monk doesn't mean they are fully enlightened, in fact they will, of course, be biased to the monks way of life and believe that is the best path to enlightenment, when it isn't for all people, everyone is different and for most westerners I'd say the monkhood path isn't ideal.
  11. @Mikael89 You do not have a bad brain I'm sorry man, and the more you tell yourself that the worse it'll be. Maybe grab some Tony Robbins style self-help to get you out of this flunk, motivate yourself, set some goals, start a business/ career goals, exercise and start gym, eat properly, optimize your sleep, there's literlly 1000s of ways to overcome this bad brain bs. Do you think the most successful people just got there by chance?
  12. @FuriousGeorge Completely agree mate, any business can be run consciously or unconsciously treating each customer well and not focusing solely on profit, you don't have to run an eco-friendly fruitarian solar powered cafe for a business to be conscious.
  13. @Mikael89 Why is black pill true for you exactly? If your picture is you I can't imagine why you couldn't develop yourself and dating skills? Don't agree with a lot of this dude's philosophy on life and his ethics etc, but even the first 30 seconds show that the majority of excuses are pretty bullshit.
  14. @Michael569 You sir are a fucking legend, men need to start focusing on working on themselves and improving their lives and their dating/ seduction skills as well. I know you said not to use numbers lol, but for ease of communication. a 10/10 Wormen (Not just looks but amazing personality, your dream girl beyond appearance say) will not date a bloke who overall is a 5/10 barely takes care of himself, works at McDonalds and is 40lbs overweight, like you wouldn't if roles were reversed, it really isn't that complicated to figure out.
  15. @moon777light Bro, you can certainly awaken, let's put it like that, 9 months ago I thought I was destined to never awaken and would just struggle with this stuff forever, Now I can't begin to describe the drastic change in my existential experience- let's just say it's amzing! Love
  16. @Raptorsin7 Yeah man, you just gotta be careful as there's a lot of scammers out there and it's not as easy as they make out lol. In terms of my income, I've had months relatively deep into the 5 figures range, and my goal for 2020 is to grow 5 accounts to this region, it's a lofty goal but it spreads my risks and keeps me working extremely hard, and I'm after complete financial freedom. It also allows me to help my friends and family financially, which is always great. I've used a lot of my money and reinvested into building a separate Fiction Brand, this is more of an investment as me and my business partner work with a coach who does the majority of the work for a % split, this is a 3 year contract and we're starting publishing our first series literally next month. You could start publishing with $5k but you'd probs be reinvesting most of it first 12 months or so if you want to build a long term business, if you wanna learn more message me, in terms of SMMA I can recommend Iman Gadzhi as my fiction coach works with him and has gone to his seminars and gone through his course and said it's really good. I'm not in SMMA myself so don't know much else about it I'm afraid mate.
  17. @Danioover9000 I'm sorry to hear about that man, I hope you heal from those things that happened to you and your recent relationship I'm not saying you need women, I am saying don't demonize them and then use women being 'low consciousness' or anything else as a reason not to have a relationship, if you don't want one that's down to you, but a lot of men that do this come from a victim mentality, and project their blame onto women. I'm not sure how to respond to your last question, are you asking how a women re-engages with young men, are you a woman or a man if you don't mind me asking? My main point is don't demonize women as an excuse to why your dating life/ social life isn't where you want it to be.
  18. @Sombra Yeah John Anthony is actually highly skilled with women, but like you said a pathological sex addict lol, he doesn't show any sign of slowing down either after 1100+ girls, it's crazy. He's also quite unethical in many areas of game, and will do whatever it takes usually to get what he wants with Women. I bought his system when it was 87% off and tbh most of it is proper solid advice, there's key information on a range of Game related topics that's actually really helpful, if you can apply them in a much more conscious manner his teachings could be extremely helpful for getting the dating life or sex life you desire, albeit it probably won't be the 10-15 girl harem he has lol. But the whole developing yourself and dating ability is very useful, and a lot of his students do get results, oh and he also says Daygame is a lot harder than Nightgame, probably to do with the fact most people in the day don't want to be stopped as discussed in this thread. I found some of his teachings really helpful, but I wouldn't recommend applying them like he does, his whole life is centred around sex haha.
  19. @Nash @Fede83 @Danioover9000 This will genuinely harm you in the long run. Sounds stupid but because you think like that you're much more likely to attract Women like that into your life. Instead, realize there are MILLIONS of amazing Women out there, you just have to be an amazing man for them to want to be with you. Don't wallow in self-pity that high-quality women don't find you attractive, it's probably because you're not high quality enough yourself, this was a harsh truth I had to come to terms with also, high-quality women expect a high-quality man and why shouldn't they? Also, a relationship can actually be a great Sadhana, it's easy to be peaceful when all alone meditating in a cave, how about bringing awakenings into a relationship and building deep bonds with people. I obviously don't know you but high-quality Women won't take notice of you or come up to you 9/10, why? Because you're meant to be the fucking man, you want something to go after it and stop bitching about it, who gives a shit if you get rejected over and over, that's how you learn. A lot of men today seem to make up a lot of excuses instead of 1) Developing themselves and their SMV (Sexual Market Value) 2) Learning about Dating, Seduction and Sex, to me it sounds like a form of Spiritual Bypassing. I realize this sounds a bit like a dick thing to say, but I realized this a while ago and it was the kick up the arse I needed, and maybe it will help you or anyone reading this, instead of avoiding relationship, go work on that area of your life and get the relationship or sex life you truly want, 9/10 the reason your avoiding Women isn't because you actually want to. Also not saying I'm an expert or anything, I'm just saying I see this mindset from young men a lot and it's honestly quite toxic, 'Women' aren't the problem.
  20. @Raptorsin7 If your goal is purely F.I. and then you'd like to automate that business, use the income for investments to create more wealth (what I'm in the process of atm) then I'd say start an online business, there's lots out there. I personally own my own publishing business and am now also helping coach/ manage friends/ Families to help diversify risk/ grow my income further, but it'd be hard to do publishing on $500 a month, but actually what's your income goal from this business? Online businesses that require little upfront investment are things such as Social Media Marketing, they have much lower expenses. How much money do you have to start this business?
  21. @moon777light Not at all mate, self-realization is possible for anyone on this path. Nobody is more special if they are enlightened, in fact in Zen they call it the 'Stink of Enlightenment' when someone walks around thinking they are better than people because they are enlightened. There's something beyond enlightenment, beyond Non-Duality, after all these are concepts, or pointers to the Absolute
  22. @Tanz Just thought I'd add Enlightenment frees you up to do exactly what you want, that can include orgies and materialism if you wish. However, it is likely to be slightly different to mainstream materialism.
  23. @petar8p lol yeah I used to skim until I got to Leo a while ago. You have to learn to be able to evaluate teachers and messages etc for yourself, study from a wide range of sources etc. Subconsciously the colors will have an effect, but that doesn't mean they are always right, nobody is going to be 100% right all of the time, not even Leo!
  24. @Leo Gura Exactly, but this guy openly admits to lying and being manipulative to seal the deal, his teachings were effective though and he has an unreal lay count, the challenge is doing Game in a conscious manner, wonder when we will see the first enlightened dating coach lol. I see why men want to do it though, especially those going from sexual scarcity or being tied down to one girl for years, it's kind of like a reaction to that, but I do feel it's very difficult to maintain in the long run.
  25. @themovement Yes sorry, I should've read more. However, if you were to go be a monk what would be your reason for doing so? I just think society is facing so many issues right now, that personal awakening and then doing your own to help society is soo valuable atm, but monks can also do this, such as Thich Naht Hanh. However, unless there are already many fully self Realized teachers already teaching at the monastery there's no guarantee you'll get there, and with so much access to teachings and awakening 'tools' I feel it is less necessary in 2019 to become a monk to awaken, although I see it's value for some people.