King Merk

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  1. I am sexually attracted to women other than my romantic partner I’m wondering what everyone else’s experience is with this? To preface, I’m in a commited monogamous relationship of 2 1/2 years But this trend has existed in essentially all of my past relationships, including other long term ones I’ll be in a relationship with a woman who I love very much yet I’ll still want to fuck other women Does every man experience this? I’m in my mid 20s. Does this feeling of lust for every bubble butt I see ever go away? I would also like to hear about some women's perspectives on this as well I’ve communicated that I’m sexual attracted to other women to my gf and she claims that she’s only sexually attracted to me. Is this really possible? My horny man brain just doesn’t believe it lol
  2. Connect with you “why” behind it all… Why the fuck clean the house? Really? Perhaps it’s how you show love to your obviously hard working mother Perhaps it helps you develop the discipline needed throughout life to be successful in future endeavors Perhaps by having a clean house it gives you a sense of confidence and a clean space to study and get your work done You must create a meaning to it all No meaning = no inspiration MEANING MAKING IS EVERYTHING
  3. I’m a man but the works of Brene Brown & Esther Perel come to mind
  4. Henry Cavill carried the show. It’ll just go downhill from here… And that sucks being a hardcore Witcher fan thats read all the books and spent hundreds of hours playing the game
  5. I’ve been acquiring French for about a year and a half now and it’s definitely changed how I look at language and my native tongue Regardless of what language you should choose, I believe it’ll be worth your while
  6. A whole month without having sex with my girlfriend? Yea fuck that. Now a month without porn I can get down with. Nothing wrong with masturbation though, assuming you’re not doing it cumpulsively…
  7. Amazing what’s possible over 10 years of concentrated effort
  8. But who are you going to talk to?? rahm vahm❤️
  9. Best book on leadership I’ve read is Extreme Ownership by Jocko Willink. He also has a follow up book called Leadership Strategy and Tactics that is quite good.
  10. 1. There are plenty of minimalist shoes that are also warm 2. To a certain degree you can train the body through cold exposure. I wear flip flops in 40 degree weather all the time. I fine once it hits freezing then I need some covering for my feet but anything above that is fine.
  11. Not if you do it properly. I use a square shape that leaves the sides of my lips open while promoting nasal breathing. It’s mostly a comfort thing though. If I got hurt from taping my lips then I’m a pussy and deserve to die ?
  12. Who cares what other people say. Try it and see how your body responds…. That is all that matters. Carnivore has changed my life but again, that doesn’t mean shit to you. Go out and try it. The proof is in the pudding.
  13. I haven’t specifically done mewing but I’ve trained my tongue’s resting position to be the roof of my mouth, breathe through my nose while exercising, thoroughly chew my food and tape my mouth while sleeping. No doubt these things have helped my facial structure, breathing and sleep. James Nestor was able to add bone volume to his face through nasal breathing and has backed this up through bone scans.
  14. I’ve pretty deeply embodied stage 5 Anima development Over the last 10 years I’ve been in three 2+ year long relationships with some shorter ones mixed in between These relationships have truly helped me become a better man & relate to women in a healthier way
  15. I used to think like this but then I surrounded myself with people who are more skilled than me in the areas I’m wishing to grow. You’re likely a big fish in a small pond.
  16. @LordFall While certainly remaining a real issue it’s nowhere near the most prevalent thing causing harm to our society. It’s so popular simply because of all the moralizing around pedophilia. There are plenty of things that cause much more damage to society but are more accepted so we hardly bat an eye
  17. Deadass. I’ve spent all this time having super intimate sex with committed partners but part of me just want to DP some sluts with my bros ?
  18. I’ve spent most of my life thinking of myself as a heterosexual man. I’ve dated women all my life and felt sexual attraction primarily to women. That said, in the back of my mind I suspect that I may be semi gay. I thoroughly enjoy anal masturbation and have considered doing some sort of pegging with my girlfriend (although I don’t feel ready to do it just yet) I’ve also met a handful of guys in my life that I could fantasize about having some sort of homosexual relationship to. I like the idea of threesomes both guy/guy/girl and girl/girl/guy. But then when I watch full gay or trans porn it makes my boner go away. And the thought of kissing a man or sucking a cock is pretty repelling to me. I’m not sure if I’m actually a little gay and repressing that side of me due to my upbringing (grew up in the rural south - very stage blue). Or if I’m just so open minded that I’m trying to convince myself to be a little gay lolol How do you “know” your sexuality? It seems like such a fluid moment to moment thing to me. Like I’m 99% straight but under just the right circumstances I’d be a little gay. Idk ?‍?
  19. Perhaps this is arrogant but my first thought was me lol I get paid reasonably to do a job I enjoy. I have a wonderful relationship & multiple hobbies that I deeply cherish. My health is excellent and I experience a high amount of satisfaction in my day to day life. I feel deep love for those around me and have an overall taste of “goodness” to most things that I do. I feel like “the good life” is achievable by anyone willing to consistently work on improving themselves over a roughly 10 year period. 10 years of solid personal development work will result in a good life. At least that’s been my experience.
  20. That shit made me laugh out loud?
  21. Honestly I think this is the best advice around sexuality that I’ve received. If it feels good then it is good. No judgments.
  22. @LSD-Rumi interesting. Yea I’ll play around with it more. Admittedly I think I’m afraid of being gay/bi so I’m sure there’s some shadow aspects that need integrated