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@milii a career can be reestablished and if the relationship was toxic there are probably high chances that the next one is better. it`s like a wound that`s fresh and of course it is bleeding and hurtfull in the beginning. so you need to stitch yourself together and let it heal. take some time off if you can, spend some time somewhere else if you can, go into nature if you can, watch some sunsets and then some sunrises. cry the tears you need to cry and then pull yourself out again, no one will laugh about you anymore, if they really even do.

even the military is now dissappointed, i guess it will be hard for him. if the votes where today he would probably loose.

well, the next days we can observe how nicely all of them worked together, at the moment it`s erdogan who moves. it actually lost a little bit of the comic character. a phonecall here a phoncall there buhaahhhahhhaa. i just count the phonecalls.

@EternalForest in some aspects you are contradicting yourself, as a lot of american culture you describe exists only because of mingling of culture. also the cultural missionary of exactly hollywood made everything more monotonous than it was before. so in some sense what you are so proudly pointing out as special is what generated mainstream culture. in sense of art there can be a global culture while still preserving authenticity as long as authenticity is allowed to take place in sense of something called critical regionalism in architecture, i don‘t know if there is a term like critical culturalism for what you describe - but in a lot of cases it turns out to be as critical individualism. so in that sense there are two forces that influence each other and feed each other one that strives for individual/group expression and one that strives to adapt and integrate - the process is not reversible.

it sounded like you where afraid of flying your own plane instead of falling. if it was a misinterpretation then don’t trust in the tree, who ever saw trees flying a plane?

are you talking about a plane or about a fear or about a fear of planes? if you want to hold a plane up just trust a little bit into the tree that keeps the plane flying - in reality it’s not really more dangerous than entering a bus or a car or walking under coconut trees. if you want to you can fly everything! you could even become a pilot. just have a little trust in yourself!

@Nahm what if both appletree stories are just some really fitting self fulfilling prophesies that fit the ego mind quite well? science loves it mostly just as much as most religions.

rather than thinking about gravity, realize how you pick them up over and over again. now realize what is bringing things up and what is pulling them down. newton is not about the distinction, he is about relativity. even the apple story is relatively genius.

weed will not really help you that much in the long run, it is more sedating than pushing and it’s addictive with symptoms of withdrawal when you stop. it can also make you more self biased and has a tendency in making people psychotic who already have issues. you even can have a bad hangover the morning after that tears you down, and i would be very attentive if you then have a more aggressive behavior than the day before. if you have any social anxiety it will make it probably worse. of course you can try out every drug you want to, but don’t wonder if you find out about all the controversials of the drug - a lot of people are in denial about the sideeffects promoting weed being less harmful than they want it to be. even the mentioning of it helping to chill out is a denial about needing it to chill out, instead of finding a solution to chill out without the substance, it’s like saying i watch movies because i can relax with it. weed is not bad in that sense, but it’s one of the drugs that are more underestimated than cigarettes and sometimes even sugar. weed is not a skill, it’s a substance.

there is a difference in accepting the body and still embracing being a transgender and not accepting the transgender part in the soul. even the hormone stuff seems ok for women if it’s about preventing unwanted pregnancy. so what the fuck are you guys talking about, except if it isn’t about own fears. there have been people over centuries who enjoyed changing their gender roles. of course hormones should be talked through with a doctor and i hope doctors ask some questions regarding why and if people are sure about their decision before they give out hormones. an additional therapy is probably supporting - but we have gone through a long history of denial about homosexuality and transsexuality and if a person is able to live a happy life with it today it’s because there are already enough examples of people who do, their community is more truthful to each other in a lot of cases than the people in denial. gender disphoria in a lot of cases comes probably because people still are afraid to stand to their preferences in sexuality and about belonging to a group. so i guess gender disphoria is still something that needs to be questioned in both directions why can’t a person be both? the true self in many cases can only be found by accepting the existence of the own preferences and denials about fears that exist in all people.

regarding your own theory self hatred is a form of love. if self hatred was not existent only a devil would be beyond learning. the greatest devilry is to project denial of source and effect.

and the pope was the antichrist. he was reforming the church not the old greeks. there is a huge difference. he was not known for his good manners as well but for the impertinence to call out devilries of the church. someone who spoke up against what was going wrong. doesn`t mean he was enlightened. luther quotes are usually very rude - he was a rude man and an ego and male biased fanatic.

@Key Elements some people say, everything is politics. but you could also say everything is philosophy, everything is psychology everything is theory everything is practice, everything is spirituality, everything is process everything is maya, everything is a problem everything is a solution everything is as it is. everything is everything. this thread was about a parade wasn`t it? i just pointed out that the direction it was going was low consciousness politics

@Key Elements well it gets somewhere, it gets to how preoccupied people are while searching for their personal happyness. china is in a problematic situation, because they are to decide between two roots. actually in sense of gender equality they are pretty much on the same level as a lot of western democratic countries or maybe comparable to other asian countries in many cases even more progressive. but in sense of politics they are very blue and authoritarian, what partially is because the culture moved from an empire to communism, although they are not really as they are capitalistic, what makes exactly the problem they have to face now with what happens in hong kong. the tension between both parties is pointing to the conflict between theory and practice and even brings them in conflict with their bible. in that sense maybe chinas leaders really would do good and sit down on a table with the protesters, what will be difficult beacuse they have no leaders, maybe exactly because of the fear in mainland with which they hold up the stability in the country. the fear is on both sides. but i think china could profit enormously of a peacefull solution. practice will show. it`s enormously heated up and i really hope there will be a solution without using forces.

wow, this thread is such a good example for chauvinism be it on a political level or about male chauvinism. it`s not only sexistic but also racistic and doesn`t have much to do with people getting shot while protesting for democratic rights anymore. it is ending orange/read in such a disgusting way, that mentioning low level sexism is not even enough to call it out. once you go anti fascistic you never go chauvinistic again. even if people claim to not being both. or in sense of china, why do they forget their roots? both historical and political? china mainland could be proud of revolutionary forces, but it seems only to be a show. all just for sexual equality? because that`s all what really got better. if china would want to keep the peace they would give the structures in hong kong a chance to show how democracy could work for them, to go into a better future. it`s such a chance to scientifically observe without "observation" democracy within china, why don`t they take the hand that is reaching out to them?

@lmfao think about the timing, if you move out and then get off medication soon after, it could be more dangerous than maybe change the medication while you are still at home, where you feel more stable. but if you move out soon, first try to get comfy in the new situation before you change the meds. better too slow than too fast. then you can also see if it`s the meds or maybe that you need more a shared housing what stabilizes you more. of course if it`s shared housing you need to feel into it, what kind of shared housing you would need, some are probably counterproductive to stability aswell.

vador, vadari, vadatus be careful you are not falling back into blue.

if you integrate green as a feature and not a bug, and also support green in their healthy aspects and manage to make blue realize that they actually in reality share some values and maybe even can work together in some aspects and handle orange like a partner more than someone below, you will probably do a really good job.

lol, go home and check all your cloths and goods for the made in label, especially maybe your high class computer, then throw all made in china out and pretend you never had them. and then go out and take a breath of fresh air.

there is no standing still there will always be mixed colours on the spiral. of course green will push yellow to their limits. a problem is only a problem if the problem wouldn`t entail a solution.

they are probably mostly busy working on solutions to transcend the problematics that arise, they are the cut through journalists and buisness people who really bring change instead of only talking about it, sometimes they even seem green to us probably. i think there are a lot of yellow people already but some of them are tyed up in more blue or orange structures they transform, of course sometimes green might confuse them for the structures they are working in.

it depends what yellow entails, if yellow integrates green, green will be pushing yellow instead of fighting it but if your yellow is more an orange yellow of course green will fight it, but then you could also ask if your yellow really is yellow, or if it is more an orange, then it`s of course not really yellow. because yellow is the energy that drives green towards turquoise.

slow change is the most tricky, it`s too slow to keep being alarmed as constant alertness is counterproductive to going on as always, so we use to better forget until we get stuck in the water until our nose, or our house gets blown away by a hurricane. therefore if even hysteria makes you blind you should check if something with your eye is not right. or just inhale deeply.

rackete science just for the show, i couldn`t hold myself posting this kind of villainry: it`s not so difficult to find them if we look more closely, problem is we forget the heroes faster than the villains. english wikipedia doesn`t talk about the bra incident

yes that`s how male society teaches us and oftentimes doesn`t leave another way as "tricking" or using "trickery" ourselfs. i know it`s a special skill and that it is also a cultural thing, even though there is a choice in how people learn to interprete and use it. it`s not my way, thank you for the advice, i try to build on trust more than on trickery. i think people can build on trust and still be sly. and part of being feminine is to be MADE a good follower and supporter, the leading aspect doesn`t have to be masculine per say it depends on who you lead. and maybe the direction is also an issue where does it lead to? you could ask yourself.