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@deso i‘ll chop that into pieces now! that’s actually what you are already doing in an unproductive way - try to treat every issue with a different approach - you want an overall healing, a fast treat, as hard as this is, this won’t happen, there is not: like before, but there are approaches - try to heal the pain first! i‘m not really familiar with how that hurts as i have different physique due to being of the other human species. although the approach to focus on scar treatment at first like @Michael569 recommends sounds at least making sense for the pain. you have never thought about what it would be like birthing did you? try to get yourself together and love your stretch marks like a mother would do. #self-love i‘m sure if you are patient with your healing you will see and find steady healing. this is a pragmatic approach. don’t give up!

positivity and love is a good starting point, although pessimism serves for a purpose and its more an understanding and reframing of the need for pessimism which balances an overly positivistic approach. it does not serve positivity and love if you never doubt or never ask questions a pessimistic person would ask, its about balancing that. but if you smile a positive feeling will follow. if you make a change you also make a change for others. @WaveInTheOcean if anything tells you there is something like above or below in enlightenment you are far from it in the humble experience of nothing.

we don’t start to ask this question we don’t ask any questions. questions arise from themselves. its not you asking a question it’s a question asking you.

that’s why you treat them as if they already are all of that - never underestimate a child. too much shadow is counterproductive.

no - chakras are experiencable, sth existing without the story. male/female is second order.

holy ghost

@Sine somehow you ask about practical aspects of how to spend your time - what is emotional comfort? its rather not about relaxation but regeneration, if you love yourself you can change running into a relaxation program because it has regenerational qualities. but even then you will have phases where your body needs to rest/relax from that, via sleeping for example. in that sense you can always of course go the way of the greatest convenience/comfort - but most of the time that’s egoic craving without any outcome if done for fast emotional reply alone, this is where all things addictive play a roll. having time to sort yourself out would be the natural way of relaxation, how it has been done in a time before tv/video games - if you want to get more serious about it you could start journaling on paper, but rolling/lying around on the floor staring holes in the sky is also fun and relaxing. self-love/self-care is different from taking the path of the least resistance, but once you have installed different habits, they way of going them is a regenerational one. if you do unhealthy stuff from time to time it won’t destroy the healthy foundation you have built up to - contemplate rule vs exception.

@Dirk diggler sth seems to be off with your third eye. and anyways your chakras seem to be switched.

that’s a very individual part of consciousness, some people need to talk to get completely conscious, the therapist therefore is not really the recipient of consciousness in a therapy. in a best case scenario talking is consciousness. there are parts of consciousness which only come to light while talking about them via sound. talking about stuff which is difficult to tell anybody else, liberation, forgiveness, understanding is about being able to talk about suffering but also about its opposite.

the unlimited only seems so beautiful because of limits, its the limit which makes us aware of the possible existence of the limitless. you have an eternity after to yearn for being limited again. an eternity to yearn to feel unlimited in a limited form.

No, fully die so the world dies with you. End all life. even then you are not unlimited, because then the limited is your limit. if it is possible to become unlimited with the only limit to not being limited, it is possible to become unlimited in being limited.

i never said i support the violence nor did i conclude from the single case to the overall police - if you read my comments i already stated that police with pride was supporting peaceful protesters. whatsoever the situation in the us is like that, whoever the people are who act out of frustration or if that is directed or if it is people who have ulterior motives to make more noise than it is needed or maybe its because there is really such a huge poverty gap. but these are acts of individuals or group and in some cases mass dynamics, like what happened with these four cops was group dynamic, despite that these masses are not representatives of the state but in a democracy per definition they are the state. these are not the acts of the masses nor am i even part of that mass - even though commenting is part of the mass dynamic.

how so? will you die with me? i‘m not sure how to answer to that... it seems a little bit aggressive, there are probably other possibilities to release aggression. i mean maybe this is your huge contribution or maybe this is mine - do you want to talk about your aggressions? we can open another thread and find a solution. why does this thread trigger you to tell people to stop commenting? what are your thoughts about this case by the way? maybe you wanted to be asked about your opinion? not that you could not without, but maybe because everyone has an opinion without being asked, you want to be asked for yours.

stop reading without contributing if it annoys you read a book.

so far about committing crimes - ofc police would probably most of the time be in contact with minor crimes, major crimes are oftentimes so complex and corrupted and about huge sums of money that police is lacking direct access to the crime cases - so maybe this is another pointer to how frustration mostly plays out at the ground level of criminality. its probably frustrating for police, too. edit: there are no excuses for failing a job like this - understanding what drives one to do sth like that while trying to find an apology is not understanding that you don’t need to understand the motive, it’s an exemplary crime case within police, if he was the oldest in the group he was the most experienced, this only explains why the others probably didn’t hold him back - classical authority and bystander phenomenon.

yes i do as i live in another country - i see exactly in what direction your country is going. this guy represents the usa to the world, too. not only for americans he is a states representative. how much difference between the us and for ex. china is there anyways?

i don’t see how him being a police officer would be in any case a mitigating circumstance, its the opposite. this is not a killing in the affect, affect is a short term body reaction. take into account a person acting as a states representative.

maybe he posed for guiness book world records.

on an individual level its not preferable to get fear paralyzed over probable changes, but putting it off with: it won’t collapse is an invitation to people to go on with business as usual. in fact it’s better to make change fear driven than not at all, if the changes are sustainable. how regression and backlashing works, we have probably seen enough.

if he has been trained in that like they train people in martial arts he knew exactly what he was doing.

might be as well a bail out to procrastinate. most people lack vision.

@giglio if people like you sit in a jury i don’t know what anyone would need evidence for.

as far as being outside during a riot i doubt its standard to have the cams switched off... if you are a cop i hope your way of defending criminality in the police of your country is watched by some kind of higher instance because you would probably stand at the side, doing nothing. because if someone is getting that defensive and apologetic about sth so obviously power abuse i guess it’s not just professional pride defending that. professional pride was apologetic towards the victims not the perpetrators. maybe police needs a pilot who asks them everytime if they have switched their cams on? or is a policeman brains enough to fly the plane of law and order alone?

which article? because according to many other articles and other authorities i could nowhere read that how he used his knee was trained nor it being trained by minneapolis police. if it was, it was intentional murder - which would even be worse because then he actually would have known what he was doing wrong. poor police, really has a problem to perform on their jobs - is it because of wrong training or because of individual performance? you might ask the same question to a pilot crashing into a mountain. and what about the tasering and car window crushing? or the policemen shooting someone with their cams off? do they even get education in criminalistics?

well that’s your choice. finitude and infinitude both are experiencable you choose to experience the former.