Canadian

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  1. @Platoon I already went crazy too in approximately the same situation today, she didn't come out the house. Fortunately, We're good now... That what a good advice thou... @aurum you're right lol Hope I have feelings
  2. @John Flores Of course, I don't want to be called ''daddy'' in just 9 months lol
  3. @John Flores That's what I want my friend, to start sexual life and get as much experience which helps me grow as possible...
  4. @John Flores In a brief, you think that there is nothing wrong in having a friend with benefits, our bodies just want it and we should go for it
  5. @John Flores Dude what did you smoke
  6. @iago iriarte arhatha I know, I was just curious how often it happens when a guy is successful in this kind of relationship. anyway, thank you
  7. As I said, I'm unexperienced in this field so far. So tell me, what are the chances to stay on the first situation? the guy totally objectifies the girl and the experience is quite superficial. he does not become attached to her-on this one, because I just wanna stay here, that's it...
  8. @iago iriarte arhatha Is it possible even for males? Usually girls are the ones who get emotionally attached...
  9. @iago iriarte arhatha @aurum Alright let's call love emotional attachment. Do you think one of us can become emotionally attached? just by friendship with benefit...
  10. I'd recommend further @reez So basically, you guys both think that friendship with benefits is very dangerous cuz one of us may fall in love?
  11. @iago iriarte arhatha I wanna know about more about sex because my sexual life isn't successsfull enough so far, that's why I'm taking this opportunity.
  12. @blazed Of course I'm gonna use condom. What did you mean in this sentence? ''let any future girls you might date know about your situation.'' can you be more specific? Tell future girls who I might date that I've a fwb? @aurum Draw the line? I still don't get it. it's just a friendship and I fuck her for fun,that's it. I'm gonna use condom if it's a discussion. Do we need anymore line?
  13. @Tancrede Pouyat Now I get it, I said yes because I honestly don't love her. So she can have even a boyfriend but who cares right? @Jhonny it seems good but I've never had such experience before. I'm gonna try. I have a weird feeling when I imagine others can fuck her to...
  14. First of all, there is a trust issue here. If you don't trust your gf at some level, then there is something wrong with this relationship. Tell her that you don't like the fact that she 's going there. Then explain why. Whatever happens, don't let her go if you feel horrible about it. But still, there is a trusting problem in your relationship. Work on it to fix in the future. If you're jealous, you gonna have hard time sustaining relationship with her.
  15. Hi everyone I want to ask Leo to talk about Death. I think everybody wants to know more about it. Of course he doesn't know what happens after a human dies, but It's still possible to talk about it. I would be happy if Leo shares his thoughts about it. What is it for him? What is the best way to think about our own deaths? Everybody has fear of death, I can get it, but still, what is the best way to deal with the horrible thoughts about it? I always try to avoid thinking about death, but sometimes it just doesn't work... If anyone wants to talk about it, please be my guest. I want to know everyone's opinion.
  16. @Extreme Z7 I didn't know that video, thanks buddy
  17. If u have been there for 3 months and there is no sign of any progress, if you think that it's better to stop seeing her, go for it. Sometimes changing destination helps more than staying on the same truck. I would suggest going to another psychologist good luck
  18. Well, every person gets experience after years at some level, but still, it's an individual topic. Generally, we can say that older people know more about life, they are more ''experienced'' and more grounded, but it doesn't mean age matters a lot. I wouldn't say that ''age is just a number,'' but it isn't as important as it seems in the society. Maybe I am wrong, It's just my opinion...
  19. Hi everyone.... Recently weird things happen in my life. I amn't actually Canadian, I just wanted to hide my personality and that's why I wrote it as my name. The topic I'm gonna be talking about here is very important for everyone. I want to ask you to write all your opinions and way-outs here, so we can solve this problem together. I arrived in Canada in December last year (2015) , since then, adaptation became a very hard process for me. in my country, I had so many friends and everything was easier. What happens here in Canada? I'm locked in my room and watch Leo's videos all the time just to survive and not die from a boring life. My only destinations are gym and school. (school is over till Sep.) I don't believe in myself, I don't trust myself. I've read so many books about this topic, but still, I don't have a feeling I can transform my life. It happens everyday. Every day is almost the same, I 'm addicted to the computer, I waste thousands of hours on it. Today I've heard my friends in my country've gone on a holiday and they are picking up girls , chilling and having an unforgettable holidays. Since then, It became motivation for me and at this moment it seems like I can do everything. I can pick up girls, I can go out and as Leo says, I can fuck the world... But still, when I hear that my friends've already done it 10000 times, I feel weak, I feel frustrated because I start to compare myself to them. I've watched Leo's episode ''how to stop comparing to others'' about twenty thousand times, maybe twenty-one I amn't sure. I'm fed up with everything. I'd been trying recently to find power in myself and transform my life, but since I've heard from friends that they're having so much fun, I felt horrible. This isn't envy, this is something different. It makes me lose my authenticity, and it sucks. What's wrong with me, I know that there are many people here with the same problem. I watch all of Leo's episodes, about 100 times each episode, but still, I only LISTEN, I DON'T Change anything. I just continue living with other people's lives. What's the point of this everything, I can't see a bright future in it. I listen to Leo, I remember everything, I try to really change myself, I meditate, I read so many books and then what? -nothing. Addiction to computer , sitting at home most of the summer doing absolutely nothing valuable, thinking about sex all the time, (and it always fucks my mind that I don't get laid.) Every day, Every morning, I tell to myself, today is a day of transformation, I tell to myself :''Go, u wanna get laid? go and experience , use your knowledge and prove that your knowledge works.'' It isn't about getting laid, I'm talking about sex because this fucks my mind all the time, But not only this, I want to transform my life. I did everything I thought I needed, but I got only waste of time, that's it. I'm angry about myself, but it is what it is, I amn't gonna hide anything, that's what is happening in my life. Every day is the same day. boring! Watching my friends' lives and wish I had something like them. It blows up my mind. Really, I'm a already 17 and I'm old enough to change my life. I know there are many people in the situation like me here, post your ideas, what do you think about it? How to start using my knowledge, how to start real life? how to step in masculinity ? (I've watched Leo's episode about this topic too, please don't link Leo's any episode here, I know the whole text already.) I need action, but I'm like a stupid man, maybe I am... With Respect Canadian.
  20. @PetarKa I'll try what u suggested me, thanks @quantum @Matthew Lamot I read both of your comments and you re right, maybe I still haven't accepted my situation properly , I still need to work on this, I need to get rid of thinking about sex every time. This is the main topic (sex) which blows my mind up every day... maybe after this I can start climbing up... Right know I'm stuck at the same place... anyway, Thank you
  21. @Wormon Blatburm No, I amn't kidding, you just didn't understand what I wrote, but that's my fault, I didn't explain it way. I think I should stop watching Leo's episodes and start to live like ''others''. (I mean other people who live like normal people.) Maybe I wont get as much fulfilment , but it will be less stressful... @Matthew Lamot You are right, but it's really hard to become happy with the life like me... I amn't on that level yet to be unconditionally happy...
  22. @Wormon Blatburm even small steps are getting harder to make... I don't know what to try anymore... I've a feeling like starting watching Leo's videos was absolute nonsense and Leo's channel is a way to waste time ...
  23. @Anna It's the worst feeling when u know what to do but u re ''blocked'' in your mind... @quantum I've accepted my situation and then I tried to change it, but still, I changed absolutely nothing, that's why I started to become angry now... @Wormon Blatburm I know that I can't change everything in one day, but I've been trying to change for so long already and I've changed nothing so far, I have no progress, even a little progress, that pisses me off... @Eelco1981 Yeah, I am mentally masturbating, you're right, and I wrote it in my post... ''thinking about sex fucks my mind.'' -but still, It's the worst situation when I have knowledge, I read books and I can start my authentic life, despite this, I'm changing nothing. The video you linked is my problem.''Just fucking do it'' stage never comes to me... Thanks everyone