Ulax

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  1. @The Mystical Man Love it
  2. @EugeneTheSage Thanks dude. I think its easy to get dogmatic about something like depression just being trauma related or not having a purpose. So, appreciate you adding in another perspective.
  3. @Antor8188 Nah I think that's mostly a myth. If you're fulfilled you will be attractive imo.
  4. @Julian gabriel Listen, and validate feelings. Don't give unsolicited advice. If you think you have useful advice, say 'would you like some advice?'. That's my opinion.
  5. @shahryar Imo, spiral dynamics doesn't really reflect awakening
  6. @Carl-Richard I like it. I think ethics codes are great, though I think they are particularly useful when people can actually report practioners to an ethics board.
  7. Plus Ken Loach's (British director) work in general
  8. Unhealthy red The film is 'Nil By Mouth' directed by Gary Oldman.
  9. @Linda22 I'm more suspect of the parents using their kid to front a yt channel
  10. Ultimately, unless strategically used, all criticism is arbitrary and is simply used to meet the speaker's need(s)
  11. @Hardkill Imo, no one can tell you how to live your life dude. At the end of the day, if you don't want to do something or don't think something is right for you, you don't have to do it
  12. @Leo Gura Thanks, I'll keep your perspective in mind
  13. @Snt_lk My understanding is that 'internal family systems therapy' is very different to 'family systems therapy'. The internal one is the one i'm talking about. @Snt_lk In a way I'd say yes, in a way no. I think they share the same unconscious goal of survival. However, their life experiences, present circumstances, and thinks like culture will, imo, give them very different ideas of mental health. For example, a sweatshop worker is much less likely to believe they are worthy of having mental health days because they'd probably get laughed at by their boss for mentioning the idea of it, if not beaten.
  14. @Tyler Robinson Imo, porn can beautiful af. I think I've cried watching porn before.
  15. @Snt_lk I think it would be something you'd need to contemplate on for yourself. If you're working in a sweatshop in china the consensus around what 'mentally healthy' means is going to be v different, imo, than if you're in therapists office in San Francisco. Personally, I think the end result of long term internal family system therapy therapy is what id see to be mentally healthy.
  16. @Tyler Robinson In my opinion one of the things to be wary of if you have autism is that neurotypicals will often make tests in ignorance of the different ways neurodivergent minds work. So, imo, it might be worth checking if the the IQ test is neurodivergent friendly.
  17. A perspective on the widespread corruption within the UK police force. Yes, imo, policing is very difficult and mistakes are somewhat inevitable. However, there's also seemingly a lot of red corruption. Posting this in light of Leos recent blog posts regarding the police. I think it paints a fuller picture.