-
Content count
4,625 -
Joined
-
Last visited
Everything posted by Ulax
-
+2
-
Ulax replied to onacloudynight's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
@onacloudynight Hey Sounds to me like it might be OCD. -
@Leo Gura Ye i agree with starstruck. I'd demote some of these mods. This is all just gonna go in circles until you get effective modding going imo. I'd be prepared to mod, I think I'd bring in some value in doing so.
-
@Leo Gura Niceeeeeeeeeeee
-
Ulax replied to UpperMaster's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
@UpperMaster I'd get them to do shadow work first. If you look into the work of psychotherapists like Otto Kernberg and Frank Yeomans it is possible. I just imagine it must be a massive ball ache to try and do. If he has NPD, which I think is certainly a possibility, the issue is that the NPD psyche maintains a grandiose narrative as a defence mechanism against underlying feelings of pervasive shame. Kerneberg argues that this underlying psychic structure resembles BPD. Therapy requires unwiring this narrative and exposing the conscious mind to this underlying structure, which the psyche will greatly resist. The NPD mind functions very differently from the healthy mind, as it is very developmentally stunted. -
@mr_engineer Dude remember this is just one person's/ group's view of things. Various 'sjw' groups will disagree with each other. And some will likely come across as much more reasonable to you than others. Here's a discussion you may find more reasonable:
-
@asifarahim Could Leo's conception not be compatible with a sufi conception of god?
-
@asifarahim What's your belief with regards to Allah?
-
@asifarahim @Raptorsin7 What do you guys see as being of particular value in Islam?
-
@onacloudynight I empathise with your desire dude. I think the conscious thing to do is to be above board with this, and talk to her authentically about this and make suggestions. It might just be that she is not emotionally mature enough to leave a seemingly unhealthy dynamic with her father at present. And if that dynamic is a deal breaker for you, then you guys aren't compatible atm imo.
-
@Thought Art Love
-
@Carl-Richard lmao! I asked it the exact same thing yesterday. But it told me it couldn't do it. Maybe its about how the question is worded.
-
Ulax replied to Spooney Spoonerson's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
@Spooney Spoonerson My mistake -
These Tate stans would win gold in a mental gymnastics tournament.
-
@EmJay For Leo, I'd start with this: https://www.actualized.org/start
-
@trenton Imo, there are unreasonable people on all sides of the political spectrum. There are some very reasonable woke style people out there too. Its its healthier variety, 'woke' is just about treating all groups with a baseline level of human decency, which requires making sure that society and culture is arranged to not just cater for dominant groups but also traditionally marginalised groups, i.e. blacks, transgenders.
-
Ulax replied to Spooney Spoonerson's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
@Rafael Thundercat Same dude! I find it kind of surreal -
Ulax replied to Spooney Spoonerson's topic in Society, Politics, Government, Environment, Current Events
@Spooney Spoonerson Brother appreciate that you have only said positive things about this public figure. Are there no negatives you can see with him? Imo, we are all a mixture of positive and negative traits, just to varying degrees. -
@Thought Art Aww poor site. I don't understand what you mean by 'what is actuality'
-
@Thought Art I can see it being something one achieves, particularly on this site.
-
@Thought Art I don't think so. In my mind, actualized.org is all about raising consciousness, so developing oneself into a higher stage of development sounds like quite a reasonable thing to celebrate on this site.
-
@Michael Jackson Goddamn content policy is stopping me from using chatgpt to become a sex god ahhahaa
-
@EmJay Niceeee. Can you teach me how to ask the most effective questions to chatgpt
