Ulax

@Jacob Morres Perhaps you are hostile, or perhaps you are hostile based on a certain worldview that is used to construct the test

@mr_engineer Fair enough mate, and you're welcome. I get you dude. Sounds to me like that experience generated a real sense of fear inside you towards being perceived as having negative attitudes towards women. It makes sense to me why you would fear sharing your opinion here. I've been called creepy by a couple of women before. And, I felt quite hurt by it. I have some fear about being called creepy too. I think I understand. You now feel more empowered to navigate how you interact with controversial topics with demographics of people who might become hostile towards you?

@mr_engineer I don't expect you'll get cancelled here for sharing your results mate, at least by the mods. Did you get have an experience of being cancelled in real life that has meant you are wary of getting cancelled again? Edit: Seen your latest edit. I won't speak on a modding related issue here. But i respect your preference if you'd rather not share your results openly. Also, if you want to speak on a modding issue I'd PM a mod or leo.

@Emerald Would you say, in your current opinion, that all 'benevolent sexism' ought to be avoided?

@mr_engineer What were your genuine results?

I got 36% hostile, 27% benevolent.

@Emrie Yep I tried it but i didn't get much out of it. Although i think my being very dissociated at the time was a big block. My general understanding is it is very effective at dealing with a single or a few big traumas. For example, trauma from a car crash. However, can be a cumbersome tool to use with someone who is dealing with trying to overcome lots of different traumas. For example, trauma for a childhood spent with abusive parents.

@PurpleTree Growth mindset my man. You've been applying a certain strategy in your game so far, and the feedback you are seemingly getting is that you aren't improving in this highlighted aspect of game. I'd research ways to overcome your inner blockages and/ or how to run your nights so that you do not overthink. I.e. what are you doing between interactions. you could do a thing where after every interaction you think of something funny about that interaction. If that doesn't work try something else. Just keep practicing, experimenting and then reflecting.

Love this share! I love the potential for TRE too. Its egalitarian in a way because anyone from any economic bracket can learn to use it once they know the basic steps. From what I've seen Berceli and his team do quite a bit of outreach in Africa.

@Kshantivadin You can do things like IFS therapy, humanistic therapy, gestalt, meditation, somatic therapies

@UpperMaster Yes. Do you want to be fulfilled? usually, imo, you cannot be fulfilled without dealing with your traumas.

I second this

@StarStruck Yes dude. I think having a growth mindset is insanely useful. Btw I'd recommend the YouTube site 'Precision striking' for learning boxing technique. You can search through his old vids for loads of stuff,

@LordFall I'd say i'm primarily motivated by seeking connection. Though in the past its been my primary goal. More when i was at a particular low point of my life. Also, I think for a lot of young guys it can seem like its women that they want but what they actually want are things like validation and to feel worthy of love in their father's eyes.

@Danioover9000 I like your point of view here.

@StarStruck I agree. The competition is so low. Honestly, at this point, young guys should see learning game as a form of charity to give some dating satisfaction to lonely, frustrated women.

@StarStruck If you want to humble yourself, try and seek out communities that contain experts in the fields you are working on. For example, the first club i boxed at as one of the top amateur boxing clubs at my country. And there were professional fighters there, and amateur boxers way better than me. Plus there was a culture of respect. Even the top guys were not prideful but solemn, humble, and dedicated. It gave me perspective. Later, when i joined another club, where there was a lot of egos, I kept humble the whole time. Even when i became arguably the best there. Also, you could constantly review your progress in the craft. Make your progress dependent on developing skills rather than the results you get. I.e. working on getting your jab to the body excellent, rather than beating the other person. ------------------------- Although, i don't think developing an ego is something to necessarily to be avoided. It could be a fun thing to explore, and also an interesting way to understand how pride shapes one's relationship to reality.

@Devin Ye i guess that could make sense. But no i haven't i just made that argument up myself.

@Michal__ Ye i think that is true. I guess for me though I had a few very rocky years and it was stage green friends and people who saved the day, and i received a lot of devilry from blue and orange. So, I have quite a lot of experience seeing the unhealthy ignorance that comes with people being limited at one of those stages of development.

@Devin Oh fair. Seems you are right. My mistake. I saw a source that says it gets $0 in government funding.

The character of Maximus decimus meridius in gladiator. I think, though the vision the character has in limited in its level of consciousness, it shows the powerful vision that makes for a powerful leader.

@Devin Well, I'd disagree that neo-feminists are that. Also, that is just one example. Also, I don't think its unreasonable for them to be paid equally under the deal. Not because I'm saying that the quality of female or male soccer is anywhere near the same but that quality of soccer shouldn't necessarily be the sole or a even metric that is taken into account when it comes to the government financing soccer teams. The salaries they get can also be seen as a sign of how much the government is seen to value the men and women's soccer teams. Thus, giving them different salaries can be seen to suggest that the government values women's soccer over men's soccer. And, so equal salaries takes step towards promoting the idea that women's soccer and men's soccer are of equal importance in society, which changes cultural discourse and expectations that typically dissuade young girls from partaking.

@Devin Neo-feminists just means feminists today to me. Is that how you intend to use the word neo? I'm saying today that there are lots of different types of feminist sub-groups. I.e. sex-positive and sex-negative

@Devin I don't know if that is true, but even if it is that is just representative of one viewpoint of people in the feminist movement. There are various different sub-groups within the feminist movement, and disagree on a lot of things.