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No you'd have to create a brand new account, but since multiple accounts aren't allowed per user I would have to permanently ban your current one.

Red Faction: Guerilla. You get a hammer, dynamite, some guns. Blow up and topple buildings. VERY legal. VERY fun.

I would just focus on whatever girl gives you the best chances. Once you lose your virginity and get it out of your system you'll have a big AHA moment and realize it wasn't rocket science and you can get a hold of this stuff.

@Razard86 It's a line from one of my favorite video games. Reminds me not to take life so seriously.

What kind of experiences and exposure have you had to the world? If you search wide and long enough you are bound to encounter something that sparks you inside. Chances are you've led a monotonous life and that's why you feel the way you do.

Because you gotta pick a side (apparently) in this day and age and he chose the one he has more in common with.

Bring back usury!!!

I don't think the average young male (or female) conservative is a wife beating unhinged, openly misogynistic, government hating idiot. Just like I don't think the average young liberal is a blue haired, 69 gender believing, corporate hating, eco terrorist.

If you are going to use Online dating as a male (unless gay), set your expectations to zero. It's the perfect platform and representation of our broken and delusional culture, and the extreme hypergamy that gets worse every year. The only benefit to Online stuff is it's a great place to practice texting game and talking to girl with zero investment, besides a bit of time. Other than that literally every other method of getting with women is better. Social circle, pick-up, school, w/e.

Ok I think I get the picture now. Speaking from my own experiences, don't wait too long or until the day she finally gives you "permission". It's up to you as the man to lead and make her feel comfortable and intrigued, to make her want to have sex with you. It's counterintuitive because you don't want to be naggy or pushing for sex like a dog, because that will annoy her and make her feel closed off to you. But at the same time you can't cede all ground and let her feel like she has impunitive control over if you have sex or not, because she isn't going to stoke those feelings herself. Women don't really like to take complete responsibility for that stuff. They say they will but then when you give it to them they'll resent you for it a lot of the time. Think, "Why didn't he make a move? I was giving him all the signals." If you wait too long without escalating and showing romantic intent (to fuck her), she will just let enough time pass to where she loses those kinds of feelings for you. Right now she is an ember and you need to blow on her just enough to get the fire going, but not too much you burn her out.

Sorry to say but I think you're already in the friend-zone man. What do you mean by "seeing" her? Have you gone one dates before? Is she just an acquaintance from work or school? Have you kissed her or done anything intimate yet? If you don't make them exclusive after a month or two she is probably actively dating (and fucking) other guys.

Wait there are actual studies that show this? I was just going off my intuition and experience lol. How legitimate are these studies, at all worthwhile? I'm gonna guess it's an "ignorance is bliss" thing.

Who says you have to love them? Just have fun while you're there. University is all a formative experience anyways. You aren't obligated to meet the love of your life there.

C'mon man. I said I wasn't referring to figureheads, and you bring up the most head-in-the-sand one lol. I was talking about day to day people on the street. Although it seems Canadian conservatives and American conservatives different cuts from the same cloth.

I'm not talking about pundits and talking heads, I mean the more regular Joe kind of people you see in everyday life. Not the people online. Life is so much more simple to them it seems. They are content just working hard for 40 hours a week, getting a case of beer for the weekend and hanging out outside. When I run into ideological people IRL on either side, I usually poke the bear and bit and ask them things to challenge their worldview. I noticed Conservative leaning people might get a little annoyed,say something stupid, or just laugh. But it's mostly a shoulder shrugging "whatever" response. When I challenge Liberal leaning people they much more defensive and offended. Almost to the point you're an enemy and the potential for any friendship is gone. They might even report you to HR or try to get you in trouble somehow. This is just my personal experience in modern Canada.

Never try to get back into a relationship that ended unless you have children with that person.

I'm noticing a trend that Conservative minded people seem to be overall happier, care-free, and able to enjoy life more over Liberal minded people. That's interesting.

My Opa was born in Nazi Germany in 1940. He swam in literal rain filled bomb craters to clean himself as a child because there was no running water. I bet if I showed him clown meme and explained to him the context of how it's actually the secret symbol of some wanna be 15 year old 4chan neo-nazis he would wonder what the fuck the big worry is and laugh at how much of a joke it is. I'd be willing to paypal you $500 to have a phone conversation and explain it to him yourself. He saw his neighbors get sent off to real death camps by actual Nazis. The fact that word is even being summoned as though what's happening now is somehow comparable is as ignorant as it is insulting. Pure fucking shame. That's what all this internet stuff is by the way, a total joke. You've been sucked into it like an idiot. "Go touch some grass". As they say.

I actually don't have any disabled friends. I could though, want to be my first ? I'm having fun bantering with you. You're spicy.

No, he's a twat. His beenie looks stupid and he wears it inside all the time which is probably why his head overheats and he makes dumb-ass takes. There are a lot more things than just a uterus you'd have to match before they perfectly matched females anatomy. In fact I imagine the amount of things you'd have to operate on wouldn't be totally feasible. They would probably die from the complications. Not to mention the bill, probably pretty steep in the good ol' US of A. At that point you'd be swapping out the entire person, which means we might as well have lived in a different reality where they were actually born in the body they want, but then they wouldn't exactly be "them"? Right? It's almost as if we're all in the same boat of being trapped in this reality and these bodies, and that we've all gotta suck it up one way or another. Just food for thought.

I didn't refuse to acknowledge it. I just assumed (incorrectly) you would be able answer the problem yourself instead of me having to tell you it. Well here we go; A biologically ordained female who cannot give birth is just an unfortunately defective female. She still has all the parts, they just don't work for whatever unfortunate reason. Hopefully they can be fixed. A trans woman never had the parts to begin with, so not the same as a defective biological female. And don't suggest they should be given the parts to give birth either, because that's a fucking abomination. That kind of experimenting will lead to countless dead and deformed infants. I'll have no part supporting it. Absolutely vile.

The fact an innocuous frog with a red nose has had it's narrative manipulated into being associated with those who perpetuated the holocaust.... is evidence of clown world ??? Only people who bring it up for the sake of bringing it up, are being assholes. They know what they are doing. Any other time it's because it's an accurate factual statement based in reality. Because truth takes priority over peoples feelings. Here is an example; Medical professionals might need to correctly identify or assume the sex and anatomy of an individual who has been in an accident in order to perform a life saving surgery. For example the male and female pelvic bones are different to a significant degree and can house enough pooling blood to be fatal. The difference in operating on such a dynamic and large part of the body that can vary between sexes is complicated and can mean the difference between bleeding out and not bleeding out. I guess the doctor will get cancelled and lose his job after saving someone's life though, because the hospitals camera caught him misgendering them. Now delete your account lol.

This thread should be a footnote for an example of toxic Green in Spiral Dynamics. I know I obviously didn't articulate myself in the most formal manner but really it's because I don't care that much and don't have time to waste energy on essays for internet strangers. It's just a forum for shooting the shit and bouncing ideas around. I've literally been playing Battlefield 1 and eating all dressed chips while wrecking this dude lol, top frag every game too.

You're basically just having an argument with yourself. Perhaps consider I haven't felt the need to contend with a lot of your points because I AGREE with them. I'm with you 99% of the way except for that last 1%, where you expect me to make the final plunge and baptize myself. In what I don't even know anymore, because my entire contention is that despite whatever language games we play there is a difference between a cis women (which everyone considers real women by the way) and trans women (which is its own distinct category), which you just pointed out; Everyone knows that difference is there and you for some reason acknowledge it, yet simotaneously and incoherently expect people to pretend its not there. Not just in language either, at a more fundamental intuitive level as well. If it was just the first you would be ok with the fact I am willing to adjust my behavior and use pronouns, but you aren't ok with just that. You expect full ideological adherence, and rest assured it is an ideology. Maybe take a listen to Leo's Cult Psychology videos and you'll see what every other (sane) person does. The problem we are running into is an impasse between language and meaning. A new(ish) category of "women" has been thrust into societies collective consciousness, and we are being forced in assimilate it into what everyone else has agreed what the word "woman" has meant for the past who knows how many years. This change might be in good in intention but won't work when language and meaning don't align at a fundamental level. You're expecting everyone stand on linguistic stilts and juggle non-truths, saying words they don't really mean and everybody knows they don't mean in opposition to their own intuition. An intuition that nearly all of humanity has, by the way. All in service of an unfortunately suicidal and narcissistic extreme minority. Talk about skating up an ice-hill. "Hey mom I met this really great woman and got into a relationship with her. I think she's the one!" "Great, what's her name? Do you think you'll have children one day?" "Well the thing is she isn't a "woman" like you would assume mom. She is a trans woman, so no we can't have children." In a normal world people would just be able to say what is factually truth and use words that people can understand what they mean. YES trans women are also "women" but when push comes to shove and those differences WHICH YOU ACKNOWLEDGE EXIST inevitably arise we will all be confused and condemned because we were all expected to lie and say something is a spade when it is really not a spade. We don't live in a normal world though, we live in clown world. We can't just say they are "trans women" from the start in conversation and all have a peaceful understanding. We are being guilted and shamed and gaslit by cultural terrorists who apparently don't have anything better to do with their time than make irrational unrealistic demands that undermine our entire conception of basic words for like, 10,000 people LMAO. Don't get so mad at me by the way, I am just the messenger saying what we are all thinking. I just have the guts to say it and I'm not scared of the mob. You can't cancel me bitch, I'm like Agent Smith baby I'll just multiply Everyone knows we are just playing pretend for adults. Everyone is going along because it's the mature thing to do and it's good for social cohesion. But nobody actually believes that trans people are the same as what people REALLY mean when they say "man" or "woman", besides a minority of unhinged 20-something year old progressives that haven't accomplished anything in their lives, besides graduating I guess. It doesn't make anybody a right winger to point this out either. The difference between a dumbass right winger and me is a dumbass right winger will actively vote to impede or take trans peoples well deserved rights away, while I've only ever voted for the NDP in my country I'm not talking to you anymore by the way so save your energy responding. I know and I'm sure the readers know I'm on the right side of history. I don't need to cast aspersions about how many friends you have or what your IQ is, everyone can see the circus. I don't need to help advertise! Have fun and enjoy clown world! Edit: The only thing I will say is I'm willing to bet my life is the roles were reversed and you were the mod I would have been banished not even 2 comments into the thread. That's how I know on a deeper level I'm better than you