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Stop gazing at village idiots on the internet. If you want wisdom and knowledge go find and talk to people in your local community. People who run volunteer organizations, temples, businesses, animal shelters, clinics. They are real people that will share what they know for basically free. If there is one thing that is true about most people it's that they love to talk about themselves and what they are doing in the world, and they don't market themselves in a needlessly toxic way. It's amazing how many people fawn over these parody-like individuals, like flies to shit.

Exactly how it works? Young men learn how to interact with the opposite sex in adolescence from their peer group of other young men encouraging each other and taking risks. If they don't experience that then it's going to be extremely difficult later on when they lose reliable access to that peer group. Which is why there is a marketplace of pick-up resources. 15-20 years ago there really weren't any incels or much of a problem with men not being able to interact with women. Even the nerdiest losers got laid eventually. It was mostly technology that has caused this modern phenomena in my opinion (partly feminism to a degree as well). In the age of "social media" people are actually more awkward and less social than ever, ironically. Hence why pick-up is a necessary evil. It's one of the only tools unlucky men have to dig themselves out of that hole. since they can't go back in time to adolescence. They have to brute force it. Of course the guys who need it have to romanticize and market it as an all encompassing general self-development tool, as a way to cope with the fact that in practice it's really a lot of manipulative tactics and scummy behavior. Consider there is a reason why a lot of the big names in pick-up have a torrent of rape accusations against them, and are banned from basically every platform and even visiting some countries looool. They've needed to rebrand to cover up how much devilry goes on. It would be delusional to deny it and just say it's some feminist conspiracy to control media either.

Does it even exist if nobody is paying attention to you? Nobody would even know you're even doing it unless it's some small area and you stay there for too long.

I've gotten laid within two minutes from just a smile, you'd be surprised what can happen if you just take a chance

Fentanyl is one of the most dangerous substances you can possibly use. Let's not condone or entertain discussion about it that might convince people it's worth trying.

I'm anti-marriage. I don't need the government and an overpriced ceremony to validate my commitment to someone.

You're right pick-up (clubbing archetype) isn't optimal for forming healthy relationships, and it's certainly ripe for abuse. However for incels and other unlucky guys who didn't get socialized properly growing up, there really isn't any other option. They need a straight-forward, brutal manual on how to do that stuff. Once you graduate high school and college, you won't really have an opportunity to learn it from socialization. Your family isn't going to teach you, and if your friends are also inept in socializing with girls - you're fucked. The real trap is not doing anything at all. That's how you create those people that shoot up schools that you see in the news every month.

No, I didn't.

0. It's kind of boring and shows a bit of insecurity to talk about past relationships on a first date. Leave out all details and just share a bare minimum like, "I was in a relationship for 2 years, it just didn't work out." Asking about kids is fine and should come out quickly. 1. This is far too personal of a question. It's too judgmental and can put people on the spot. 2. This is fine to bring up, by the end of the first date you should have a good idea of what each of you are after. 3. This should only be happening as you're approaching sex (making out). As a guy bringing up if you're gonna have protected sex or not any sooner before the moment you're both naked is a sure fire way to never have sex with that girl in a million years. 4. Hugely personal question. Should only be brought up in intimate conversation before sex. 5. Not a good 1st date topic. Shows you might be too invested in thinking about a long term relationship too soon while barely even knowing them. 6. Kind of an invasive thing to ask, don't you think? This is all just my opinion.

I wouldn't talk about ANY of those things except for #2. Those are all things for knowing each other after a few weeks and multiple dates.

There is really no empirical difference between prostitution and pornography, they are both exchanging sexual services for money. The only difference is one does it with the purpose of being filmed. For some reason recorded exchanges have a ton more legal flexibility, which legitimizes it. While the less legal exchanges are prone to more sketchy behavior. I mean yea you don't know the escort, but you're only going to pay her $300 and you'll be paying Mia Khalifa like $3000.

I'm almost gonna lock this thread because it's such low quality, but I'm going to ask. What are you hoping to learn by asking this?

You do get to discriminate your clients, sex work is an unregulated industry. It will just hurt your business though and your volume.

Usually it's not anything you do, unless well it's obvious you made a mistake. Just don't be reactive to her mood swings and outbursts, and try to remain cold, calm, and stable so she isn't tempted to "test" you. Sometimes they will just be emotional not for any logical or particular reason, but purely for the sake of drama. This is your first girlfriend though (first because it won't be the last), so try to take everything as a learning experience. You should really be screening for general compatibility, don't just get any girlfriend. I've had multiple gfs and I've never had any of them get angry or freak out at me except for 1 single time. I make sure to screen out high energy dramatic girls and make it very clear I don't put up with fighting about stupid shit, or I'll just leave. Do not apologize unless it's obvious upon reflection you did something wrong.

Cold approach pick-up is the absolute worst option for a virgin for getting results quickly, especially in a conservative place like India. It's like trying to skate up a hill of ice with a backpack of cement on. The learning curve is so steep and the environment is going to be working against you, you are going to get discouraged heavily. The best and easiest way to get laid (if that is all you want) is going to a college party with some guy friends.

What kind of timeframe are we talking? Within a few days? At a certain age in life? Horny people never really stop being horny. Retirement homes are notorious for STD's spreading rampantly.

I wonder is there is a legal limit to how much spray tan cans they'll find in his home.

Honestly, I'd respect her wishes. You have a girlfriend already so there isn't much of a need for porn. Yes it's convenient for when she isn't in the mood, but she told you herself she wants to have sex more so it sounds like she is in the mood quite often. You got it made man............ I wouldn't throw a relationship away over something so trivial. Would be kind of fucking stupid to break up with a "smart, spiritual, stage yellow" girlfriend, over porn. If she feels like it's cheating maybe just concede that to her, even if you like porn. Pour your passion and energy into the relationship and having better sex with her.

Most of my relationships have been like that. Living roughly a 1 hour drive away from each other. It's great for building a relationship without burning each other out too quickly, or putting too much pressure on anything. Because it's not convenient to see each other on a whim or basically whenever you want, you each get space and some alone time to focus on your own lives while still staying connected through texting/phone calls. It takes a bit of planning and investment each time you want to see each other too, because you need to make a small trip. This makes your dates and physical time together feel more impactful and feel more special. With my first girlfriend I remember each of us getting excited and feeling the anticipation of the weekend, finally getting to see each other on Friday night. Living very close to each other I don't would be a great thing. It could bring out a lot of insecurities and fights. If one person didn't want to see the other on a weeknight they might have to make up an excuse in order to not hurt their feelings. Imagine they wanted to hang out almost every night after work? That can be exhausting.

Sorry to surprise you but most women are "shallow" (but not idiots). You need to screen for the kind of girl you want. You can estimate this with experience just by looking at them, talking to them for a few minutes, or knowing what kind of job they have, or their interests on a tinder profile. The first date is to create buzz. Don't kill the buzz by being like this guy; https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f68VXKMZT1Q

Just some general quick advice to help your chances and minimize anxieties. - Don't have a long date where you're talking for multiple hours. 1-2 hour date max. - Don't talk about serious stuff. - Don't be vulnerable or share that you're inexperienced or shy, if she is shy take it as an opportunity to be the leader. It will attract her. - Do something FUN like bowling, or swimming, or anything you're using your bodies. It will help you both relax and get rid of nerves. The #1 Rule of advice I have for you is NEVER share your insecurities with a woman until after you've had sex on 3-5 separate occasions. You want to save the pillow talk until she is (somewhat) in love with you. Don't kill the baby in it's crib and spill your issues during the attraction phase. Women can ONLY tolerate a man sharing their problems after you're already in a committed relationship, never before.

It depends on the culture and where in the world you live. Sorry to break it to you but the majority of the world isn't some post-modern cosmopolitan paradise. Most people are going to want to date within their race, it's just how it is. Figuring out why isn't really going to help you or change it anyways, so it's better to just focus on what you can control.

Aright here is what I want you to do. Get on the phone and call your doctor, if you can't get a hold of them call a telehealth nurse. Say to them, "I think I jerked off so much I gave myself strep throat. What do I do?" Then listen carefully to hear their reaction.

No, too much masturbation can't cause physical illness lol. In fact it probably helped release some of your stress. Which I imagine is the main issue and what caused you to get sick. Stress weakens the immune system, so you caught something that made you sick that your body would normally fight off. Coffee also doesn't help stress as it artificially increases your heart rate and stimulates your nervous system. Stressed people don't live as long on average as relaxed people, so find more ways to relax besides fapping, and eat healthy/cut back on caffeine.

A lot of information and concepts are obvious and straight forward, and also freely available. You just have to get the sense of what to look for and not be too naïve. Of course coaches and experts selling training and books want to overcomplicate and overelaborate everything because it makes them money, silly.