JosephKnecht

He is asking about non-dual states. Non-answer is the best answer.

This is a good question. Does sexual attraction exist within the context of one's identity? I presume that the things that attract us are created outside the context of our identity. In fact, the things that attract us are outside our identity since we need them to help create our identity. In that case, affirmations won't help. This is just my speculation.

To truly know, one must try. To think you know, one must ask. You can't enter non-duality. You are non-duality.

How can one know the truth of one's insight? If something is in your sight, it is true. In other words, only things in your direct experience are true.

To create a sense of stability you must make instability your friend. Only when you are comfortable with instability, you will have a sense of stability. All stability is temporary and thus an illusion.

That was amazing @Quantum Toad.

And Jesus said to him, “‘If you can’! All things are possible for one who believes.” - Mark 9:23

Psychologists try to understand normative human behavior. Psychiatrists try to cure abnormal human behavior. While they try to understand and cure, they forget how the norm is created. In a way, they unknowingly will society to conform to socially perceived normal behaviors while creating the norms.

It means don't quit now. You might be an inch of finding your diamonds.

Everything starts with a kid at a playground. The question is where does it end? Congrats Leo.

You can't let go of desires if within you there is still a desire not to let go. In other words, you can't desire not to desire because that itself is a desire. You desire that which you lack, since if you had the thing that you lack, you wouldn't desire it. To let go of desires is to realize that you don't lack anything. To let go of desires is to realize your perfection in the present. Your perfection is the present(gift) that you give to yourself without desiring it.

Joscha Bach is reverse engineering human psychology to construct an artificial human. I shared his talk on this forum a while ago.. You might enjoy it too.

The website is nice, artsy, and creative. I like it. The stories are also deep, personal, and authentic. You seem to have lots of creativity and it shows. You also mentioned Leo in both stories so that is a plus. Keep up the good work.

It is legal. You are free to give credit to whoever you want. What you are trying to do is to use the reputation of others to build up your name. This is also legal but not highly ethical.

You should educate yourself and acquire marketable skills. The more skills you have, the more complex problems you can solve, and the more money you can earn. Everybody can sell products on craigslist, but not everyone can fly rockets into space like Elon Musk. My suggestion: find something you want to learn about. Educate yourself and become an educated 18-year-old.

You can't rationalize attraction. While you are explaining to them, you are trying to rationalize attraction. Attraction works on a subconscious level. When you desire a woman, you are attracted by her presence, but you don't understand the reason for the attraction. Attraction comes first, rationalization of the attraction comes after the fact. Maybe you are blind to the challenges women face... As a man, it is your duty to approach, to improve, to learn, and to grow. You can take your pick among all the women and approach and date whomever you want. As a girl, socially you are only allowed to accept and submit to the attention of the guys who showed interested in you. Therefore, you have less choice. If you were born again, would you rather be born a man or a woman?

It is possible. You can create robots/automation that produce material abundance so that the base needs of the world are satisfied. Once that is achieved, we can all just sit around and read Shakespeare.

Apparently, the first date went well. There is Part 2...

Level of difficulty: Impossible. Years of practice, dedication, trial and error, self-doubt, doubt of others just to arrive at Nothing. You have to lose yourself completely. You have to become aware of how you are deceiving yourself. You can't trust anyone, not even yourself. But lucky for you, the possible is in the impossible.

I guess they make their Life Purpose to become monks. So their life purpose becomes to seek that which could not be found. You can't skip stages, but you can increase your pace and go through a stage faster than otherwise. Sometimes the easiest way to let go of desires is to exhaust your desire. Once you have beheld everything that you desire in this world, maybe you too can go to the mountains and become a Monk.

Yes. You should create a life purpose for your life. You can't make quantum jumps on the spiral so you have to take your time with your progression. Determine what are your passions and skills, decide where you would want to be 5-10 years from now, and work on that goal. In the meantime, do your meditations and try to grow your spirit as much as you can. Enjoy the journey to the destination and don't just seek the destination.

Yes. You have to create a purpose for your life. Otherwise, you will just meander aimlessly.

You have had many lives. The purpose of all lives is to eventually get to enlightenment. If you can't get enlightened in your current life, you can create another life purpose for yourself. In the end, it doesn't matter. There is only one destination, but you chose the path on how to get there.

There is a 100% chance. There is nothing else that God could be.