Raze

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  1. It’s not wrong, but it’s better for you if you are present and don’t let the mind wander and generate suffering.
  2. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lD1ny_Q8sKo
  3. https://www.shinzen.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/12/art_urges.pdf
  4. Sadhguru is a fraud. Gary Weber is good. He has written clear science based instructions that modernize Ramana Maharshi’s teachings, released everything for free and refused ever taking a profit from the teachings, and his brain was studied and was found to have one of the most advanced states of enlightenment. https://jeffwarren.org/articles/neuroscienceofsuffering/ he has retired from teaching. recently I like simply always awake aka Dr. Angelo Dilullo https://www.youtube.com/c/SimplyAlwaysAwake he is new and I don’t know how great his results are but he responds to questions.
  5. If you are a man and you get married in the west you are extremely stupid, unless: - your wife makes as much or more than you and will continue too -you were in a relationship for at least 4 years prior and it was seriously tested in stressful situations -you studied how to make relationships work from good sources or a counselor -you are a very ethical moral person and did extreme strict screening of your wife and that she matches your values -you got a prenup
  6. https://www.shinzen.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/12/art_urges.pdf
  7. Try self therapy by Jay Earely
  8. 1) start a basic meditation practice. You can try unified mindfulness for a free online one. Or get the mind illuminated and start. The importance is doing it every day even for 10 minutes. Allow this to build up for later, for now don’t focus on spirituality. You pronanlt wont have major progress for a while which is fine because for now focus on material life. you can use meditation to also help your goals https://www.shinzen.org/positive-behavior-change/ 2. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1R3zIvZqCAQ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SuZ_f4oANGE&t=1054s focus in stages, don’t worry about advanced things like stage yellow or enlightenment. Start small and practical. i recommend Tony Robbins books. Read and apply them. The focus should be basic things like a job, gym, making friends and getting used to socializing remove things from your life that kill concentration like social media, YouTube, or porn. If you still have trouble applying it try reading psyco-cybernetics. make a schedule. 3. Socializing is mostly practice. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ulu6TOu-gqs https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qu-wFuDqZws https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dyx1X3yBxao https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pCZdJiGSk8g 4. If you continue to self sabotage or procrastinate get therapy, I recommend IFS. Don’t use Leo’s videos aside from his earlier ones related to basic life. Don’t worry about his spiral dynamics or deeper spirituality or enlightenment stuff for at least a couple years. 5. Limit how much you consume self help content if it’s a way you procrastinate. Maybe limit yourself to one or two a week. Instead watch short motivational vids to encourage yourself.
  9. Try “start conversations with women” and “get her number” videos here http://davidtianphd.com/masterclass-content/
  10. Do the keto diet, you lose weight despite eating as much as you want https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X_dawQLA-mA https://www.shinzen.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/12/art_urges.pdf
  11. Why to stop: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7oFVOJf0TzY&vl=en how to stop: https://easypeasymethod.org/ learn meditation. For a free online meditation training try http://unifiedmindfulness.com/ and use https://www.shinzen.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/12/art_urges.pdf
  12. Just sell them. That will cut out most people who aren’t open minded.
  13. Try internal family systems therapy or try the Sedona method, Byron Katie work, or letting go by David r hawkins https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2CidDVoHdmQ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=60xN2BHPVkw
  14. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7oxt4dbfgVc https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gWe6KFgmcgc
  15. I don’t think so, the Supreme Court punt a lot and this is more of a custody thing.
  16. https://www.city-journal.org/child-custody-gender-gauntlet This article has come out detailing how a father ended up losing custody of his child because the court essentially declared he wasn’t properly supporting of his sons new gender identity. The author is stage blue-orange, however what’s interesting is she points out how the stage green gender affirming view was taken by the court as important, the judge herself seemed to be stage green as she had a trans child of her own, and there is further examples or how this is becoming the norm. This may be an example of how even the judicial system, which is normally considered solid stage blue and orange, might already be rapidly shiftng to green, and in this case the court seemed to side against the stage orange father for insufficient green understanding.
  17. Far less dangerous than the dangers of it not becoming popular
  18. TITLE: everything's gonna be all white (2022) Official Trailer | SHOWTIME Documentary Series
  19. No. As long as you make your intentions clear, it is on her. This is equality. She will probably blame you for wasting her time eventually though.
  20. Take the finders course and go for location 4 read and apply happiness beyond thought by Gary Weber