Raze

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  1. If you got ifs therapy like I told you, you would already be on your way to solving this
  2. The problem with this argument is that better chess players tend to have higher IQ’s, and due to IQ distribution there are more high IQ males than females. Even if there were equal numbers of men and women playing, there would still be mostly male masters and grandmasters. The average chess grandmaster IQ is 135, and there are twice as many men with IQ’s above 120 than women.
  3. You’ve posted multiple threats here, how are you devoted to love and helping the planet?
  4. Eat protein, it is much more filling. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hs0vk092UN0 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NzeXRDUk1ds
  5. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kDf_WSzj6Rw https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DiAr3Hgbv60
  6. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uqsl9qVhfuI https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zYmFAWvk0TU https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=twTrrGiRXtY https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-0ZpRcLjcmI https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iLMhT__eg0A https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=75FeP1Z_oXY https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Vns7rEL0LxM https://www.girlschase.com/content/how-find-woman-you-most-want-10-step-process https://www.girlschase.com/article/dating-rules/ghosting-part-2-why-people-ghost-and-how-not-get-ghosted https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dwnZP1TPJic https://www.girlschase.com/article/dating-rules/how-deal-women-who-flake-and-how-prevent-it
  7. But there isn’t really a solution, a lot of people come here needing help and with a variety of view points.
  8. This will be an analysis of a incident now in court from a spiral dynamics perspective Summary: Richard Bilkszto was a fill in principal attending a anti-racism training for the Toronto District School Board. The sessions were led by Kike Ojo-Thompson, founder of the KOJO Institute. Bilkszto alleged that Ojo-Thompson told educators that Canada could be considered more racist than the US. Bilkszto, who had previously taught at a high school in Buffalo, New York, completely disagreed with the suggestion and called out Ojo-Thompson, who allegedly lashed out at him. During a follow-up session the next week, Ojo-Thompson allegedly brought up the argument again. Bilkszto claimed that after he reported Ojo-Thompson’s alleged misconduct, the school board failed to look into it, appearing to side with the instructor. The Workplace Safety and Insurance Board (WSIB) eventually looked into the matter and found that Ojo-Thompson’s conduct “rises to the level of workplace harassment and bullying.” Then, following a six-week medical leave later that year, the district refused to reinstate his contract, which Bilkszto claimed was a result of either his fallen reputation or as retribution for having the WSIB investigate the incident. Richard Bilkszto eventually committed suicide and his family blamed the backlash and reputation harm as the cause. In my opinion this event shows many examples of a society transitioning from stage orange to stage green and what to expect, I will explain with further details of what happened: 1. Traditionally in a stage orange society most non-political institutions and companies actually avoid taking front facing political stands, focusing instead on donating behind the scene to causes. Due to the stage green transition of workplaces however companies are taking a public role in declaring alliances and directly educating their workers in their beliefs. This is resulting in conflict as older, stage orange employees aren’t used to direct ideological assertions they are forced to attend, as seen here in the principal, a 60 year old man, arguing with the educator. For example, A recording of her presentation which was verified by a Canadian journalist has more detail on Thompsons arguments for why Canada is more racist than the USA. She brings up an example of Canada’s Monarchist tradition as evidence for its racism. Claims like this would generate disagreement from stage orange, because Britain outlawed slavery decades before the US civil war and Canada’s creation. This however misses the stage green perspective the educator is giving that is about the symbol of the monarchy and colonialism itself, not the specific circumstances. 2. Stage orange is individualistic, as a result they tend to argue from the perspective of what was said rather than who is saying it. Stage green is collective and prioritizes advancing knowledge about structural and class issues. This can be seen in how specifically the principal and educator disagreed: Bilkszto was reinforcing the stage orange perspective by challenging her claim. This creates friction because the stage green perspective is that he is centering himself as someone with racial privilege over someone facing racial discrimination. The education they were receiving was not supposed to be open debate. 3. Stage green puts the collective over the individual. In a stage orange society normally it maintains traditions of often standing by someone you know even when they do wrong, or at least remaining silent. However stage green evolves to focusing on collective harm, and the transition includes greater emphasis on openly engaging in the criticism. This can be seen in how Bilkszto’s coworkers reacted: Bilkszto himself was let go after this event, he claims allegedly because of the accusations of racism. This is an extremely important survival mechanism for stage green collectivism, because an individual’s backlash against it can spurn further backlash, so all defensive mechanisms need to hastily stand against it as a warning to anyone else considering joining the backlash. See here, a stage orange journalist reporting the story expresses disappointment no one has publicly come out in support, likely to avoid facing backlash themselves. 4. Because stage orange is individualistic, generally it looks at events as more local to exactly what happened and maybe examples of more directly related factors, in this case stage orange people have been criticizing the school board and using this event as a negative example or anti-racist trainings in general. But similar to how collective stage blue will extrapolate further based on individual events (ex using a minority criminal as an argument against the minority as a whole), stage green views events from a wider lens. In this case stage green reaction to this event was to coalesce around the educator and push back against attempts to reform or reduce anti racism trainings in the future, because stage green prioritizes anti racism trainings (as a push back against racism in general). See the response from a Toronto MPP on Twitter: For further examples, a group of activists, students, and teachers have come out saying they are worried this event could hurt anti racism education initiatives and have produced a list of demands for the school board to affirm its anti racist stance and funding. sources: https://www.thefp.com/p/a-racist-smear-a-tarnished-career-suicide?utm_source=tfptwitter https://nypost.com/2023/07/24/ex-canadian-principal-who-sued-board-for-bullying-during-anti-racism-training-dies-by-suicide/#:~:text=A former Toronto principal has,more racist than the US. https://quillette.com/2023/07/21/rip-richard-bilkszto/ https://www.cbc.ca/news/canada/hamilton/toronto-principal-suicide-weaponized-rhetoric-1.6928122 What is your opinion? Is my analysis off or wrong? What is the solution?
  9. That means nothing regarding the 99 percent not in power
  10. That has nothing to do with what I said, stop making excuses and seek help before you fuck up your life permanently.
  11. Because you say things indicating you are having difficulty processing and understanding your internal world
  12. Because I already sent you videos for this problem you clearly didn’t apply and I’ve told you three times to seek mental help before you do something you regret.
  13. You can start meditating and learning math for free right now though? Just go to the meditation program designed by the first guy, unified mindfulness or brightmind, it’s free, and start practicing the free khan academy videos.
  14. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-cVBohQ2x1c https://www.khanacademy.org/math https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fb_v5Bc8PSk https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=didXE0HkSC8
  15. Survey data finds republicans and men are more satisfied in relationships, but democrats and women are less satisfied. This is strange because republican men are more likely to hold patriarchal beliefs and support figures like Trump who were accused of misogyny, yet republican women support being more satisfied in relationships, meanwhile democratic ,en are more likely to hold egalitarian and feminist beliefs, but democratic women report significantly less satisfaction in relationships. What could be causing this discontent? One potential cause is in general women seem to prefer ‘sexist’ men https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/women-who-stray/201812/feminists-think-sexist-men-are-sexier-woke-men Thoughts?
  16. Maybe talk to a psychologist and work them out instead of making endless posts and never following any advice you get
  17. The funny thing is historically, the advocates for free speech were the oppressed people. “Safe spaces” were places where you could speak your mind. The irony is the people advocating for speech restrictions are actually the most privileged, as they think they should be allowed to dictate what can and can’t be said. Any restriction of speech is by definition going to be decided and enforced by the powerful against the weak.
  18. A number means nothing if she won’t meet up
  19. Actually they were preceded by censorship of the oppositions speech
  20. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OiRcvRRNPI0 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s5_DS89_lKU
  21. This study specifically brought up men with egalitarian views in comparison, and women still preferred the sexist men. This probably wasn’t the case in this example.
  22. Are you low vitamin D or low testosterone if you are male? This can cause anxiety. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9OWTtGsk4wI https://www.bannerhealth.com/healthcareblog/better-me/can-certain-foods-increase-stress-and-anxiety https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s5_DS89_lKU https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sNDvf0q2Xds https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I1AjuygSNos https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qsyP80BydV4 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BVqANXVTLN4 http://happinessbeyondthought.blogspot.com/2012/05/surrendering-i-letting-go-of-suffering.html https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MU1Rp184IT4
  23. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tJ6c36XQ5RM https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=itznHH1N1uc https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W50-F65tbBE https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Hbou0nRkYZg (I recommend sending your question with more detail to david@auratransformation.org , he is a therapist who answers questions on relationship issues on his podcast, and has spoken about what issues a man can have that causes women with mental health issues to be drawn to them, he may give answer you and give you more insight specific to your issue on his show if you need it)