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Buy a BMW like me until sustainable methods are discovered to manufacture electric cars.

Authenticity is the gold standard in relationships. You can better be a raging dick and be authentic than a flaccid nice guy with no oomph. So in that sense I respect NoSelfSelf.

Rumi lived in the middle ages, not ancient time.

Leo told me I'm not awake because of the "shit I post" perhaps I'm the most awake ?

Can we go back to this? Alien consciousness ruined everything.

Again. Being drunk has different connotation in Turkish and Persian (the languages that Rumi used). It does not necessary have to do with to alcohol. He definitely didn’t drink no alcohol because it is against Islam. For example being drunk of love doesn’t mean you drank alcohol.

What Rumi says should not be taken seriously, he uses figurative speech a lot. Also Rumi's mother language has different connotation to certain words so when you translate stuff things get lost in translation.

If I have to choose between the beast and the human I would choose the human. They are trying to make the best of a bad situation.

That is not how being a guy works. Perhaps that works if you are a girl. Fertile women have inherent value because of their reproductive value. Guys have to prove themselves to be worthy of reproduction. But put aside long term relationships, even for short term relationships, just being a guy is not enough. Certain things are expected like being fun, somewhat confident, not too traumatized, having some passion, and so on. While if you want to have a short term relationship being a girl, you just have to smile. Hm, I haven't thought about that because I'm busy with different stuff.

I remember busting nuts on that video as a kid so I definitely reached some peaks on it

If Leo was truly awake he could hack God’s database and look into his followers brains and see who is awakened and who not.

This one is better

This brings additional dimensions to the book Mastery by George Leonard if you already read that book: https://www.amazon.com/Peak-Secrets-New-Science-Expertise/dp/1531864880 In the last year I discovered that I'm not dumb, teachers are just dumb and don't know how to teach. There are very few good teachers out there. Yes, you can learn from stupid teachers but you will have a very long learning curve. As an autodidact I made leaps in various hobbies and in my job in a very short time. People give me compliments all the time and think I have talent not knowing I just learn very effective and efficient in a structured way. From stupid teachers a lot can be learned: how not to learn and that is just as valuable of information.

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@Mada_ So true I’m just a nice guy and I don’t want to hurt people’s feelings but what I discovered is that it is better to be a pig and just free associate than to be a nice guy and be reserved I’m especially done with being a nice guy because of the disrespect I receive while being so respectful. So I’m thinking right now: why should I feed pearls to pigs? Just shitting all over the place and making a spectacle out of it is much more fun than keeping it in ? @Danioover9000 good one

Why does he use the word sublimation? English is not my first language: He is basically talking about sexual transmutation and from my exp it is definitely true. If you are a dead beat horse you are not going to do much. But if you save and savor your libido you really become like a mustang horse with all of its frustration, anger , and will to attack (penetrate) your problems. I feel like this video explains the core of what sexual transmutation is for dummies. There are a lot of dummies on this forum who still don’t understand this spiritual tech. Definitely worth the watch if you are curious about the topic. It is only 6-7 minutes.

Women take a shit, dude. Just like us.

Last week I used a statement of sympathy and the conversation fizzled out. Yesterday, this is different lady, I told her: “good, now it is my turn” to her telling me she broke up with her flirt. And that is what I really thought and felt at that moment. Her answer was “no, no, no, I’m recovering” and it definitely emotionally spiking for her. But I failed to lead the conversation after that and it fizzled out. My problem is that I’m inclined to be boring, reserved, second guessing a lot, and treading softly, and I’m balancing it out with being a dick sometimes instead of a pussy.

That only means one thing which my intuition tells. It is going to be a steep price point.

True. Being anal about such small things like “I shouldn’t ask how she is doing because that doesn’t fit my game plan” is not the kind of game I want to run anyway even if I wanted to get laid. She is just a human like me.

Ok but this was in the night club or a random public place. Currently not trying to get laid or trying to have a relationship because I’m focused on meditation. I’m still going out once a week to practice my game and to make friends.

If they ask me how I'm doing, I'm asking it back, weird right ?

I have no trouble with admitting that I'm not enlightened.