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You don't want to tell your children "we met in the nightclub" and before me she danced with 3 other dudes.

You don’t need to achieve such high feet to know your misery is your own making. Even if you reach those feet of truth , the practical side of unraveling the Gordian knot is a different skill than truth realization. From my exp it is critical to do part and shadow work on the ego. No need to reinvent the wheel. It is nice to reach such high feet but it is an overcompensation if your goal is to stop your self-sabotage for a good life. Most people just want a good life. They are not interested in that deep shit.

Men didn’t choose that lol. Nature did. He just need to get out of the victim mindset. Get his balls out of the protection foil and use them.

Not only women that hate men snap judgements like that, even "healthy" women, make snap judgement on their intuition. It is just how they work. You are not going to change the women on this world so you need to work on your smoothness so they won't call you creepy. That is something you can work on.

In the language of womanese "creepy" just means you are not smooth and don't appeal to her emotions because you are awkward about things. They just care about their emotions. In fact if you were immoral but are very skilful at appealing at her emotions they will love you more.

In my opinion God doesn't mind what happens to individual life forms. He pertains to the whole. So when people ask why doesn't god help me they don't understand god only cares about the whole and not you in particular. I'm asking because I just heard that a friend tried to hang himself from a rope. He attached it to the sealing of his house, put it around his neck and jumped from the chair only for the sealing to come down. He told me he believed God helped him for a reason, otherwise he would be dead. I'm happy that he is still alive but this made me thinking... Personally, I think you are your own god. For example if I wanted to kill myself I wouldn't fail at that, especially if it is such a big life decision. I don't get why people fail at everything in their life including failing at suicide. You had just one job and you even fail at that. But that is neither here or there. So did God helped him? In a sense yes, he helped himself by failing.

Is it worth taking classes or can one learn it at home ?

You are a finite being so you can't fully take on an "infinity mindset" (abundance mindset) as the character. The reason is why simple: opportunity costs. If you do one thing you can't do another thing aka you can't have your cake and eat it too. My point is: abundance mindset can be misused very easily for making bad choices. I can't build LP and at the same time go out every night and hide behind this abundance mindset for example. I can't eat fried food everyday and be healthy too. In my opinion abundance mindset should be balanced with scarcity mindset because you are a finite being. This can be seen in health very clearly. Health is a scarce thing and you should be careful with it. People who have an abundance mindset on the topic of health eat a lot of bad food or use a lot of psychedelics and use it and after they lose it they discover that health is a scarce thing. If they understood they are a finite being they wouldn't make this mistake in the first place. Without a scarcity mindset it is impossible to have gratitude. Only if something is scarce you will value it. That is just how the human works. But the thing is to realize the value/scarcity/beauty of something (like your health) before loosing it. In the same way a lot of people only see the divinity of life on their death bed when scarcity mindset finally kicks in. I realized this with my LP and my time on earth. I had this abundance mindset about my LP but it was toxic. I thought I had all the time in the world but that is just a childish take on things. There is great value and beauty in scarcity. The reason why we value beauty is because it is scarce, if beauty was everywhere all would be the same, and we wouldn't even turn our head. And why make something beautiful, if everything is equally beautiful in the grand scheme of things? Perhaps if you can't die you can afford this mindset but if you believe your life is going to end one day, there is the reality of opportunity cost; you can't eat your cake and have it too. And if you think you can you are in for nasty surprised in health, wealth and other endeavours.

@Thought Art Good stuff I'm just going to try one session and as long as I don't make a fool out of myself I'm ok.

Your profile doesn’t reveal gender but you are female.

Can I enroll mid season? If I enrolled now I have missed 3-4 sessions or sum

Good stuff to let go of fear. If you do pickup you should be scanning your body for fear, locate the fear and instead of running away from the fear approach it. I like your way of generating triggering situations. It shaves off ton of time for emotional development.

@Raze yesterday I was at a social gathering and a stunning girl came to me to talk to me but they are very indirect about it. Obviously women will rarely approach you in the supermarket or on the street. They have their own ways.

Yesterday I saw something in my dream , I woke up, I immediately opened up my Twitter feed on my phone and saw that thing right away. Dejavu.

You have more awakenings to do Mind (dream) is more real than body (physical reality).

Dreams are more real than physical reality.

What do you mean?

This dude is getting censored: I never caught him giving shady advice but he kept pushing his bullshit products in every video. He says Youtube is going to censor everybody who doesn't give mainstream advice under the banner of anti-science advice.

Ideally game should be a subconscious process. A cool guy who is respected doesn’t think about how to be like that. This is a very deep subject that is explained in psycho cybernetics. The real gold is in identity shift.

Girls don’t approach like guys. They do social game. If you have a loving vibe (loving life) girls will just sit or stand next to you and start talking to you. If you are traumatized by lack of love it won’t happen because you will have a screwed up vibe. Girls are very sensitive to your vibe.

If you are a regular guy (who had a loving childhood) you don’t need to approach. They will come to you and if they don’t come to you, it is very easy to get one by just being not weird and not creepy. The thing is that these guys are traumatized, weird and creepy because of lack of love in their childhood. And trauma can’t be healed by getting your dick wet, it is just supplication to trauma, not solving the root of the problem.

She is on the magic school bus if she is 16-24 of age. If you got all the free stuff and genitals thrown at you your personality would change too. You act like a dog and be treated like a dog. Act like a boss and be treated as a boss. Girls will treat you as you treat yourself. They are very harsh but it is basic survival. Only after you reached the "we" phase, she will see it different. Respect yourself and move on. Stop paying for dates. Let her invest too. She will respect you for not acting like a provider simp. Dignify yourself. They disrespect you because you disrespect yourself. In the same way if you don't think you are hot they won't find you hot.. but if you think you are hot yourself they will think you hot too. Girls are weird and they don't even understand themselves, so don't look for answers from them. Developing a strong frame of reality is something I'm working on too. It is not easy.

If you procrastinate and don’t know why you lack insight into yourself. Your identity is like an invisible prison. The walls are made of fear so when you encounter fear you have to move towards it. Not move away from it. The way to get to know yourself is not by thinking about yourself but feeling yourself. No phun intended.

I’m just a nice person. I can’t help it but only people who are nice themselves appreciate it. Personally I think a person should have both the quality of niceness and the opposite of it. Some people are repulsed by niceness because they see it as weakness. I’m starting to integrate the opposite of niceness to become whole. If I don’t want to dance with somebody I will just say no without making excuses. Or when I feel like putting somebody in their place I will just do it. Being a nice guy is just an identity you build and if it is working for you you should keep it but it if don’t that identity needs to die for a new one to arise. Now I think about it niceness is not that bad. If you are traumatized and you are nice to compensate that is what really disgusts people. Now I think about it I get why people are repulsed by it. It is a very unpleasant vibe.

Simple way to stop being a nice guy is to stop pinging her. This will solve most of the problem.