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Seriously since I have started becoming a jerk my life regarding women has become so easy. I think the bottom line is that if you are nice to people people get suspicious and rightly so. Niceness should be a tiny cherry on top of the cake; it shouldn't be the cake itself.

Her books helped me a lot to put things together. These tidbit videos are nice but but they are just rehashes.

Being an asshole/being nice is surface level. People use it as a mask to get what they want. Both sides of the spectrum can be used as a strategy to get what one want. In some areas of life or in some countries it requires to be nice to be successful so people are nice(like in business). In other countries or areas life it is not so good to be nice (like in pickup). I use both and I recently cut the bullshit about "I'm nice". It goes deeper than that. Nicying your way in life as a philosophy doesn't work. Sometimes you just have to be a raging dick.

I'm fascinated about strategy. It brought orderliness in my life. Love to binge on some good strategy books. Ps: already read all the strategy related books on the book list.

That is not awkwardness. You haven't seen awkwardness.? He was actually goofy, self amusing and not invested. That is what game is. If you get clingy and have self doubt, awkwardness reeks off of you.

Hissy fits are so funny.

What you desire is what you want and what you want is what you do. You need to find a way to change your desires. That is where the magic happens.

I would recommend you start from zero. You have mental constructions about yourself that are incorrect. Perhaps I'm wrong but it is worth trying. Drop all assumptions about yourself and try to experiment, learn and start to study yourself like it is the first day in your life. Drop all ego. Between the lines of your post I'm reading all kind of negative emotions. You need to meditate and let these emotions go so that you can relax. Relationships happen when you relax. You have to trust yourself. Just have blind faith that you will be ok. Just try it for couple of months and if it doesn't work you can go back to your old ways. Being good in relationships also demand experience. You lack experience and only way to get experience is massive exposure. Read the book the 5 second rule and just do it. If your action/thinking ratio is 10%/90%, flip that around. You know what to do, are you willing to do the emotional labor? You have to be honest to yourself first of all.

Most people who get banned look it up on purpose. Leo be like:

Tell her that it is not her beauty that it is the problem but her huge ass ego.

I get that. Don't micromanage by overanalyzing things. I started making progress when I focused on the learning process, instead of focusing on certain desired outcomes. I recommend the book Mindset by Carol Dweck. What do you recommend to somebody who doesn't have the hot girl social circle for dating? Or more precisely.. how does one break into those circles?

So I'm getting a lot of flakes and it is frustrating. One accepted my offer to take a walk and get coffee and stopped responding. Another one, doesn't respond to my text at all. And today I approached a nice lady, she was nice and blushed when I started talking to her. She asked questions back and she was relaxed during the whole middle part of the conversation. At one point she said she was in a hurry, so I started to wrap things up, tell her I want to take her to get a coffee: she accepts. So I give her my number+name, and tell her to text me so I get her number but she was in a real hurry so she just walks off without texting me back. I yell at her to text me back but she just ignores me. She had earphones in though. I'm starting to see a pattern. When shit starts getting real and we are making plans girls always flake on me. I don't really know what I'm doing wrong. I'm just relaxed and in my manhood. I give space to the other person so she can ask questions back and they do. They are relaxed and seem like enjoying the conversation. Probably it is the neediness? Maybe something else? I'm trying not to be needy but it is hard not to pretend to be needy when I'm simply needy. To be clear: in the conversations I'm not needy but they just can sense it.

Dating and spirituality compliment each other. You say they are opposites. That is why it is so great to do it together. Spirituality is the theory. Dating is the practice.

There is no income disparity where I live and in most western there isn't. If they can do the same job and work the same hours they earn the same salary but some women here work part time and want to earn the same salary as men who work full time.

If you live in the west, feminism has done its work, and should be deconstructed. With every year feminism is getting more toxic because it fulfilled it purpose and now it is overcompensating. Toxic feminity is a huge problem. Men and women earn as much women and women still expect men to pick up the bills. Women get the kids when divorcing. The attitude of some women. I can go on and on about modern day feminism. If feminism has reached its purpose in a country, they should switch over to humanism: equality for everybody.

I wouldn't become soft on you if that makes you feel better.

Zen philosophy says the universe exists out of yin and yang, and masculine and feminine is just one manifestation of yin and yang.

Paul Chek would be awesome

@Kshantivadin yes, that is breaking masculine frame. Don't micromanage, rather look at the greater trend whether you are carry masculinity or not. Communication happens on three levels: verbal, non-verbal and intention. You have to have clear intentions and preferably masculine intentions in a intimate relationship. When you are out and about with your intentions (verbally or nonverbally) she will be affected by that and be feminine in your presence. Did you sleep with her? After you slept with her you can show more feminine sides.

So what is a high conscious dating app? They all seem the same to me.

You need male and a female to produce offspring. Being able to produce offspring is proof that there are genders, no? Just look at the parents and identify the male and female. If genders don't exist than two males could produce a baby.

What about the animal kingdom? There is male-female understanding with animals that don't understand concepts.

I can barely any matches on tinder so how can I show I'm high consciousness when they don't even give me the light of day. I'm done with being high consciousness on the topic of dating. I'm going to get what I want. Thanks. It is all in your head.

So I had some time to integrate the lessons and I did some approaches today: TaySocial's lessons about carrying your manhood really helped me. I managed to have some nice conversations with some girls and pickup a really nice blonde and get her on an instant date. For me these are the lessons: get out of your head, be an idiot, be dumb, be a fool, be a dick and be fun but don't lose your masculine frame at any cost. Seems like women accept everything as long as you don't lose your masculine frame, even if you are an idiot or a fool. I still have to test these hypotheses for myself. If I look back to my dating career, it makes sense. This is what I was blind to. It is not important how and why this lack of manhood has manifested in my life, I solved it now.

So he says to stop eating those foods in the picture or what? I skimmed through to the video but I couldn't hear him talk about it.