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@Kshantivadin yes, that is breaking masculine frame. Don't micromanage, rather look at the greater trend whether you are carry masculinity or not. Communication happens on three levels: verbal, non-verbal and intention. You have to have clear intentions and preferably masculine intentions in a intimate relationship. When you are out and about with your intentions (verbally or nonverbally) she will be affected by that and be feminine in your presence. Did you sleep with her? After you slept with her you can show more feminine sides.

So what is a high conscious dating app? They all seem the same to me.

You need male and a female to produce offspring. Being able to produce offspring is proof that there are genders, no? Just look at the parents and identify the male and female. If genders don't exist than two males could produce a baby.

What about the animal kingdom? There is male-female understanding with animals that don't understand concepts.

I can barely any matches on tinder so how can I show I'm high consciousness when they don't even give me the light of day. I'm done with being high consciousness on the topic of dating. I'm going to get what I want. Thanks. It is all in your head.

So I had some time to integrate the lessons and I did some approaches today: TaySocial's lessons about carrying your manhood really helped me. I managed to have some nice conversations with some girls and pickup a really nice blonde and get her on an instant date. For me these are the lessons: get out of your head, be an idiot, be dumb, be a fool, be a dick and be fun but don't lose your masculine frame at any cost. Seems like women accept everything as long as you don't lose your masculine frame, even if you are an idiot or a fool. I still have to test these hypotheses for myself. If I look back to my dating career, it makes sense. This is what I was blind to. It is not important how and why this lack of manhood has manifested in my life, I solved it now.

So he says to stop eating those foods in the picture or what? I skimmed through to the video but I couldn't hear him talk about it.

I wouldn't punch her in the face.

I'm a guy and I do talk to girls because I find them sexy and like to do things with them.

How would you fair well if you don't even the light of day? ? If you are an above average looking dude it is a different story: it is a numbers game. If you are a regular looking dude you have no clue. You have almost no chance. How can you get her attention when she doesn't respond to you? I'm genuinely curious. This is what Leo is trying to explain.

I'm not a girl

I'm really done with online dating. I can't even get a bitch to text me back. The competition is too big. You need both. If right location is all you need, then there wouldn't be incels in those good locations you talk about.. but they do exist, although there is abundance all around.

I can't even get a girl to text me back, what does it matter if you are modern day female version of William Shakespeare? And this is while in get moderate amount of attention from the opposite sex during the day and can get sexual hook point from time to time.

Why would you even say hi and want to chat to a random girl as a girl?

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The obstacle is the way. The obstacle is resistance. Let go of resistance.

Karma is unconscious cause and effect.

You not understanding it is proof that Leo is right. ?

Books from Anodea Judith: not specifically one.

Talk to 10 girls and find out. Asking such a general question is useless. Perhaps girls like being gamed by your neighbor, and not by you, while both of you have cock and balls.

Yea, if you go to a bar, all girls will be waiting for you to be picked up. The point is that if you are bad at game you will suck no matter your logistics, both in the bar and on the streets. Getting girls is secondary for me. My primary aim is to just get the skill. Day game is low cost, high reward: the cost is 5-15 minute interaction, the reward is possibility of getting to know a nice girl. The girl in my OP showed the same reaction as the girl in the video. I just fucked it up somewhere in the middle of our interaction. The key is to be connected to your body (i.e manhood). It is in your DNA how to get a chick. What matters is developing the trust in yourself and belief that you deserve her which means no doubting about yourself. I'm doubting myself a lot. My problem is dissociation, I can easily disconnect from my body because of ancient fears (from my childhood) and get into my head (and go into interview mode). Doing pick-up by not being in your head requires training the auto-pilot. You really have to crash couple of times to stock up on some reference experiences so the auto-pilot starts working better. Problem is that these are very painful. Probably I will go to another city and just do some approaches completely on auto-pilot (natural way) and if I embarrass myself I won't give a fuck because it is not my home-city anyway.

It has to do with active-reactive attitude. Male energy is active while female energy is reactive. If their boyfriend or husband doesn't have that non reactive nature she will feel unsatisfied. A women want to be lead by a man who can hold tension, handle her and fuck her deep. Owning male energy has basically to do with being non-reactive to your own fear and other bodily sensations but also being non reactive to her shit tests and tantrums. It starts from the inside though. If a male is reactive to his fears and to her shit tests and tantrums, she will lose sexual attraction to her. Polarity has to be kept.

This is what I did wrong. I didn't keep man-female frame in the conversation. In the beginning I held it and she was interested (I could see that from her body language) and later she lost the interest.

Nice guys use niceness as an asset to get sex. That strategy doesn't work. It communicates that you don't have any standards. If a nice guy is being a doormat to get sex he won't get sex because girls don't give sex to doormats. Nice guys don't understand what girls want and girls understand what they want. It is the blind leading the blind. A girl wants somebody like her dad (I won't go deeper into this. It is a deep topic) but basically girls want a guy with standards and self respect. She wants to chase to get her prize. It has to do with halo effect.