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What others think about you is secondary. If you think you are attractive, YOU are attractive. I didn't say you would become attractive to every person. In retrospect, if you think you are unattractive, even the people that might find you attractive wont find you attractive, because why would anybody like you when you don't like yourself?

That is common sense, and I didn't even dispute that. I did that but I have trouble distinguishing good and bad criticism on feminism. For example, why can't I be angry at girls who expect me to pay for dates when in my country we get equal pay? If we get equal pay, I think we should share the bad stuff with girls too, not only the good stuff.

I know some people who are worse than Hitler.

I love women with that crazy look

The point is to do pickup without attachment.

I'm triggered by both but I'm triggered much more by feminist extremist because they hurt my interest as a man. Thanks for the insight. It was not easy to read and accept what you said but I think you are right. I think this is called shadow.

The tables have turned. I would know what to do but it is up to you.

@SamC I'm not anti feminist. For the record, I support healthy feminism and denounce overcompensating behaviour portrayed by feminists. You might have a point about my inward disconnection with my feminine side. I'm stoic and dissociative and I'm working on that with a therapist and on my own, but I don't think that is going to change how I view feminist extremists when I'm "healed". Even the word "feminism" is not neutral word and in practise this proves to be true. Are you not triggered by women always getting custody over children?

Buckwheat is my favorite carb. I try to eat it once a week.

That is not charisma. That is being a clown. lol.

@Spiral Wizard "not gonna lie"... why would you be afraid to tell the truth?

Price of healthy food depends on your location. For example if you live in middle of nowhere in Russia, eating healthy will be costly. Fruits and vegs are expensive: it doesn't grow there. Where I live eating healthy is cheaper than eating unhealthy. If you can change locations. As for healthy diet, my diet always revolves around greens. It is a simple diet and I like it.

This is the first time I'm seeing Leo interacting with another human being. It was kind of weird. I thought he would be as much or more charismatic as in his solo videos. His chest hair saved his charisma a little bit though.

I don't have good experiences with feminists. They demand equal pay while they work part time and their male counterparts work full time. Since a year or something I'm following "feminists". These are not prominent feminist but just girl next door types. Most of them are just man hating on social media and saying sexist stuff to men. If we said the same stuff to them we would be lynched on social media.

Feminism has definitely a dark and toxic side:

I went through the program in 2 days. The instructor is a technical dude. I believe he is an engineer or something and his model for PUA resembles that. It is very resembled and technical and I liked that. The downside is that it is a dump of information. It isn't structured like a program with theory and exercises every week. Luckily I did another program. The other program I did was on weekly basis. Todd's program is great. Today I practiced his stuff in the field and I noticed the confidence "the system" gave me. The system is basically a tool to resort back to when you are lost in the game. What I liked the most about the program is the road map that Todd gives. It shows how to develop your skills as a beginner, intermediate, and advanced gamer. I didn't even know these nuances. This program is probably the most broad program on the market. Todd seems like a nerdy and stiff guy but his model fits very well with natural game. Eventually you want to depend on natural game but as a beginner your natural game will suck. This is where this program comes in and helps you. The downside of this program is that it is theory based and not action based. If you are a newby and newer took action I wouldn't recommend this program. First do action based PUA programs and then come back and do this program. There are some programs out there that are on weekly basis and requires you to take action every week.

@Superfluo Hot Seat at home by Tyler is on my list. Is Tyler's blueprint decoded covered by the newer Hot Seat at home? I tried watching blueprint decoded but it was so much fluffed up and long-winded that I stopped. The thing with game is that it has to be learned in the field. You need boots on the ground. For me Todd's system was the missing part. It is like a Swiss knife (outergame). It is better to have it than not have it. I think you guys don't understand what Todd's program is for. He says you shouldn't depend on the system. The system is only there to fall back to if you are stuck or start plateauing.

So which programs are a good supplement to Todd's system then? Todd is not even with RSD anymore and this program was made after his departure. Todd's system actually gives a roadmap how to go from basic to advanced. I haven't seen other programs doing that. In my opinion Todd's system is the broadest a PUA program can be. Stuff like "female perspective" and "social game" is secondary. These stuff can be learned first hand in the field.

There are actually exercises in this program. I totally missed it. lol. @Leo Gura it is not a typical PUA program but I know what you mean.

In the last I made such a paradigm shift regarding myself versus dating, that other paradigms in my life are shaking too. Because if I was wrong about my dating paradigm, my other paradigms might be faulty too.

Dude, just try it.

It could be temporal. I never had bi-fantasies but I do recognize what happens after no-fap: sex fantasies.

Like supplicating to other people. If you boil it down it comes down to this: when you meet somebody your worldview and the other person's worldview collapse. The nice people always supplicates to the other person's world view to get "favors" or some certain psychological need met. A jerk has a very strong worldview: they don't supplicate. Women love this. If your world view as a man is stronger than hers, you basically penetrate her world view. And after that you can penetrate her in more literal ways. Stereotypical woman is passive. I always thought women don't like me. The problem was not that women didn't like me. I wasn't penetrative. It is a matter of paradigms.

Put hot water in a bowl Put your face above the bowl Put a blanket over your head. Problem solved.