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I wonder what it will take to fix my character issues. I've felt my personality transform during psych trips and I believe i'm close to accessing those same parts of myself with just weed now, but i've been in this i'm close phase for a few months now and I have been procrastinating hard. I think it's time for another psych trip. It's long overdue. Also a good idea to get back into the float tank. The last time I went i tried to leave right after because they have my card on file and I thought they would just charge me. The front desk lady had a bitchy attitude and said I had to check out. I was pretty taken aback, i just want to pay for my float and go in and out without being bothered. I haven't been back since it left me with a bad taste in my mouth.

@soos_mite_ah Ahh okay thank you.

What is considered a high quality man for a relationship? How would you describe a high quality man? What is his financial situation, looks, character, values etc. I wonder how much it would change according to a person's SD values, i'm sure some stuff would be universal

@intotheblack

@Lyubov If a girl had a perfect body but had nothing else going on you would get bored and dissatisfied with time as you grew emotionally

Yeah I would have a low bar for toxicity, but beautiful woman have a certain magnetism i guess it could cause you to overlook stuff. Even just thinking now, I can see how woman could settle for a toxic man with a hope he would change. I could see myself falling for that if a girl was like a 10/10

This is a great point. The more beautiful a woman the more she can get away with

@WaveInTheOcean That's what I'm thinking

@intotheblack There's something that bothers with me articles like that. I have a sense that lots of woman who read that are either single or they are with men they resent who are lacking all those qualities

@Eternal Unity Haha

@Derek White What makes someone an ABCD?

Such great music. Too bad the Koreans look down on Indians.

@Shin Ha

@Etherial Cat I don't think you're right. Where is non-duality on spiral dynamics then? What is your definition of Turq? What is your definition of Non-duality? I don't think this is true. Ramana Maharshi had a spontaneous awakening in his teens and then lived his life as a mystic, I don't think he progressed through the stages in the way you're saying. And if he's not Turq then no one is

Jesus was Turq and he existed long before the 20th century. I can't remember the Non-dual tradition, i think it was Tao, but at the end of his life Genghis Khan started to speak to mystics. The guy basically conquered the world it would make sense that eventually he found his way to the highest values. I guess you can argue he was approaching Turq but completely skipped Yellow but that doesn't really make sense. I'm more so arguing for some integrated form of red. You can see some people who have higher values but they don't have any integrated red so they are door mats. I agree about the scientist part though.

@Etherial Cat Genghis Khan was yellow/turq by the end of his life he's not getting enough respect here. Here's an interesting thought experiment. How much would a woman feel if your partner lost a fight or submitted to some stage red psycho right in front of you? I bet for some woman this would scar them, never feel safe again. Never have to worry about this if you're with Michael Jordan, just saying

Look at the greatest athletes and CEO's etc in the world. It's an integrated stage red, not wisdom and intelligence Good luck trying to build a business or something without some serious aggression and competitiveness. Men compete for a very small pool of attract woman, you need every advantage you can get

Also who you attracted to will be mainly affected by how well you have cleared and moved through your chakras. If a person has imbalance in lower chakras and feel unsafe then they will be attracted to strength etc. But if someone has cleared their lower chakras and lives in the heart and upper chakras than it will be difficult to relate to people who are still stuck in survival and petty needs. Woman expect a man who has fully worked through all traumas of lower chakras to move into upper ones good luck, you better be a catch yourself.

What percent of men are we talking about that have integrated their shadow to the point where they are capable of strength and defending a woman, but are also loving, compassionate etc? I highly doubt there is any significant number of men that could compete with stage red narc like Michael Jordan. Push comes to shove deep down people know who would win and survive Men end up with bitchy woman because of a lack of options. Most men ain't shit and will be forced to settle based on what's available.

How much longer can I tolerate being a loser. That's the question. Surrender to oneness. Don't be afraid of your feelings and being

Michael Jordan is a sociopath. Would he ever have a problem attracting a woman?

@Leo Gura Sounds like this deserves it's own blog post haha

No-thing will bring you lasting happiness, you are happiness

@Someone here You are very dense. Wake up

LOL dude. Don't. Re-read that post 100 times until something clicks. That is the truth