Raptorsin7

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@Harlen Kelly Haha

@intotheblackMost of these people who are seeking more partners aren't satisfied with life, and so they are using sex with other people for pleasure like a fat kid uses cake. If you were happy and loving, and you loved your partner, why would you want to do something that harms them just to satisfy sexual desires? Also if people have kids then it gets even more squirrely. Where's mom?... She's off having sexy with Jim because your dad wants more sexual variety to feel content with life lmao

@Zeroguy Well that doesn't really answer anything tbh. It doesn't tell me how to change the dream, or how to imagine specific things. Like how do I imagine my crown chakra opened and bliss? Saying I imagine the crown chakra and I am imagining bliss doesn't really do anything

No, I am talking about who people let those desires drive their relationships. I have a desire to eat junk food, but imagine if I designed my diet around junk food. And i think comparing the desire to rape and the desire to have sex outside of a monogamous relationship is valid. Why is rape bad, but being poly good? Did i trigger you because you like cheating on your partner?

@Zeroguy Hmm, I mean I can see there Is only what is right now. And i'm just labelling you as a person even though you are just part of what is. On psychs I get a greater sense of how this is all just imagination but right now things seem pretty concrete and what you said doesn't really move the needle

@Zeroguy I get that, but why do you full awakening is blackening. It seems like you're saying that full awakening eliminates awareness, but how could you know any of that without being aware of it whilie it was happened. So full blackening isn't really full black

I've had thoughts similar to Sunny. Logically it follows. If this is just a dream and the truth is that reality is all good and we simply creating reality for our own experience then why not just die and create a new dream rather than wait 50 years etc because you will die eventually. Most people will live their entire lives without experiencing love, deep joy bliss etc, but when they die they will get all that and more. From their perspective what is the point of living and not just killing themselves? But at the same time, the guy left his 2 kids to grow up without a father. And if you read his posts there's a sense that he is parroting some spiritual tropes without an understanding of how they fit into reality at large.

@Zeroguy You're still aware of the blackening aren't you? So maybe there's no-thing, but there's still something(Idk another word that fits) right?

Yeah this is some nonsense lots of guys have woman believing haha. I can see how at some point in their lives men seek variety, but at a certain point there is no point in seeking additional sex if you are in a relationship. It's degenerative behavior. Might as well say men have to go out and rape once in a while or the relationship won't work

Be careful who you choose for this role. You should vet their post history to ensure they are emotionally stable and integrated. There's so many broken people on here who think they can fix others lol

But isn't this a recipe for suffering? If you become attached to something how can you be free? The alternative to nothing matters is something matters to a different degree than others and then you become trapped. You can get bought into the story. But if you take a step back isn't it always the case that it doesn't really matter.

@Inliytened1 No but on the relative things don't really matter either. If you start buying into things mattering I think you are guaranteed to suffer. Nothing matters, everything is one taste. I guess you can say everything matters but if everything matters then really nothing matters

Given the trends toward isolation amongst modern young people there are many more single men and woman nowadays than in other periods of history. I think there's a stat saying around 1/4 black woman will get married in the US, and there are other shocking single stats in countries like Korea and Japan. If you were a single woman would you be content to die alone, or would you be content in sharing a partner with other woman? Also, for the men would you be comfortable having multiple partners? Are there any woman would want multiple male partners? Also, would any mean here be content sharing a woman with other men.

Is there an ideal relationship style that is closest to the highest good? Like if someone said my dating strategy is to rape as many woman as I can before I die we can all agree that is not an ideal dating strategy for living a good life. So is there is some kind of relationship style that is best? I've always thought that find a single person to be with and marry is the ideal situation, but this is just conditioning and I didn't actually come to this conclusion on my own. Are there are better relationship styles? Any thoughts?

This is a really interesting point that i've thought about recently. Think about a teacher like Rupert Spira. I have found a lot of value in his teaching style, and I think he's a great teacher, but who are all these people watching his videos? If a person really understood his teaching, why is there a need to keep following? But he has a large following. There are lots of gaps in the classical neo advaita teaching even though I think it provides some great insight

That's interesting, It must be an evolution of culture thing because I already know if I have daughter I will be much kinder to her and harder on my son. Honestly I would prefer having a daughter, but I know I would judge a daughter much more harshly if she was unattractive physically/emotionally etc than my son. It hurts Indian woman because they are much more manly and less feminine. All woman in my family are like psuedo alpha females trying to be in control and it turned me off Indian woma

@Zeroguy Yeah Indian woman are second class. Example, my moms sister had 3 daughters. Her husband's grandpa or grandpa(can't remember) was sick and they didn't tell him that the last child was a daughter because they thought it might kill him haha You probably don't notice because you're in Serbia, but Indian woman are much more mature than Indian men because they are forced to take on more responsibility and are treated more harshly. Very common to see families with like 4-5 kids, and the last one is a son because they kept trying to have a son haha.

This. Those kinds of comments do so much more harm than good haha

Yeah man I noticed that too. It's an Indian thing too, families worship boys and so they end up solipsistic and all about me me. I could threaten to stab my mom in the face, and next morning she will make me any food i want... that's how much families end up worshipping sons. There's a dangerous no mans land in spirituality where a person isn't integrated, but the reality is being deconstructed and stuff like death is no longer a big deal. I think i'm in this spot and I want to get out asap

The guy who originally posted it? Yeah I remember he posted a while back and seemed very reasonable and grounded in his work here. But still even that guy has red flags. He said my ONLY FRIEND killed himself, or something like that. Idk why people say stupid shit like that I know, that's what I always say around here. Anyone who isn't happy or at least pursuing to some degree I will always look sideways at. 100 years max as a human being. There's so much potential for amazement and joy here. I want to have a beach house in hawaii. Wake up go surfing, play some awesome games, and then have 10/10 partner. Maybe once I do all this i will want to off myself too haha

@Zeroguy Yeah that thread is unlike any i've ever seen. I've had similar thoughts as that guy but I want to live and experience a lot before I die. He fucked over his children men, that's brutal for them. I had 0 sense that he had suicidal inclination or anything like that. But you know most people here (99%), especially Leo, are not integrated human beings. So much misunderstanding and nonsense here that is not what this work should be imo. Wouldn't you want a wife/partner in the future who understands the importance of this kind of work? My heart is still closed but honestly that Soonhei is a fool for what he did, I take it as a lesson

@Surfingthewave That seems like something that is far beyond the scope of this website. This place isn't a mental health institution

@intotheblack I'd bet it's quackery, but quackery can be effective because of placebo so it could work but it looks like it isn't working for you. I think a lot of this stuff is nonsense but it can work for some people. When it comes to body aches and posture etc I think the approach to healing these issues is completely misguided. The body holds a ton of stress and contracts when a person is out of alignment with their emotions and higher self, and so you end up with a ton of pain and issues, like posture etc, which are a symptom of a bigger problem but most people are just attacking the symptoms. I had a few LSD trips that really opened eyes to this topic. When I was able to relax and just relax into myself I was able to release a lot of tensions and resistances. I ended up completely changing how I felt in my body after certain transformations in my perception occurred. I had never felt so good in my own body, like how flexible I felt, how my body felt etc. I also felt certain tensions that were buried even deeper that I didn't even know existed. It was an interesting experience. My main point is most chiropractors have no sense of the phenomena i described above and so they are kinda shooting in the dark in their approach to healing. But this goes for a lot of other healing modalities as well but I won't get too far off topic