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Just bought myself diamonds for the first time QUEEN SH*T I dumped him yesterday. I deserve better than that. So, I am giving myself better than that. I’ve never splurged on jewelry before and I feel like royalty right now. He had bought me a cheap necklace with a few diamonds (and an ugly topaz in it), so I wanted to buy myself better. I spent quite a lot more on a necklace, and that’s my standard. If you want to be with me, you need to treat me better than I treat myself to be worth it for me. And this is how I treat myself. I bought a ring, to make that promise to myself. I feel free. I feel strong. I love this. This is an actual post by someone one the subreddit. I'm torn between laughing at their stupidity and feeling sorry for them thinking that this is a wise philosophy to approach dating. It's been a pretty eye opening experience reading this subreddit.

At least for Punjabi woman, they are still very loyal to their own culture. Punjabi is north western part of Indian(closest to middle east). Punjabi people in Canada/Vancouver are very successful and so they are starting to date out more, but not the woman. Sikhs/Punjabis are kinda like Jews here lol

This is true of most woman right? Woman like darker men than themselves. I've never woman say they wanted a very pale man, but men do like fair skin woman. Tall, dark, and handsome is ingrained in many woman's minds I think.

Are you doing inner child work? If so what resources are you using? I've been meaning to start doing inner child work for a while now but i'm not sure where to start. Someone recommended this channel it seems pretty good from what i've seen.

Do you have an idea of what kind of career you want to do? Writing, acting, doctor etc? I would look at people working jobs/careers that you are interested in and ask them how they got started and what their job consists of etc. I don't know how much value you will get out of a life purpose coach unless you have a strong sense of what you are planning to do, otherwise you're basically mentally ruminating with another person about potential careers. If you're dead set on a singular purpose then I think this quote is the best answer to your search. “The only useful purpose of the present birth is to turn within and realize the Self.” ― Ramana Maharshi

@Zeroguy No problem man, I appreciate the apology. Honestly I was kind mad at the disrespect but I know sometimes I am annoying so i was bound to get some reprisal. Had a call with this non-dual speaker today, it was a pretty interesting convo. She doesn't like rupert spira lol

@electroBeam Welcome back man

stage red reality meets stage green ideals

Ohm chant into the chakras seems to be the best practice i've come across. Saying it out loud is best it seems. I can feel deeply into the third eye and sensations in my head. This is great stuff.

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@Harlen Kelly What's funny is I bet some guys reading this will think that how you are acting isn't attractive to woman lol

How would you moderate this particular discussion? Ban people because they stuff that you don't like lol?

Is this general insecure feeling woman deal with the main reason they find height and size so attractive?

@OctagonOctopus What did you do to heal your being

What is considered a high body count? If a woman I was interested in had a very high body count I would be very suspicious and it would be a turn off. It wouldn't necessarily be a deal breaker depending on how the person has changed, but if a woman sees no issue with a very high body count (like way over 10-15) I wouldn't take her seriously I don't think. @Vzdoh Do you judge your male partners according to their body count? Do you expect men to judge you based on your body count?

I was wondering if anyone here does not judge someone according to how they look when looking for a partner? Looks are one of the first things I notice when judging a person's attractiveness, and I've heard many men express this opinion, but I wonder if maybe there is a significant amount of people who don't judge primarily according to looks. And if so, why is this?

Awesome journal man.

@Consilience Okay cool thanks. I'd say my practice right now mainly involves bringing attention to the fact that I'm having an experience, breathing into the sensations in my head, and feeling into my lower chakras and energy in my lower body. I put off psychs for a few months but now I'm really excited to get back into them. But I want to see if there psychs with a smoother come up like weed, vs lsd and shrroms but we'll see

@Consilience How does this relate to chakras and opening/feeling into different chakras?

@Harlen Kelly Haha. How much do you think beauty is subjective? Isn't it possible that a person could finding a conventionally ugly person attractive just based on the malleability of what we find attractive? This is bad news for ugly woman

@Harlen Kelly Please do not assume my gender.

@Zeroguy What kinds of spiritual practices were you doing before you got enlightened?

@acidgoofy These people have never experienced the profound healing effects of psychs and so they dismiss them. If anyone is serious about healing, and what you are currently doing isn't working, then psychs are an invaluable tool to incorporate.

So is the basic logic that this experience as it is right now is the freedom everyone is seeking? Like right now there is recognition of something happening. But it's not satisfying, blissful etc? But this is still the emptiness you're talking about right? When is it experienced as fullness? How do you resolve the misunderstanding? I have the sense of being behind the eyes, or at least there's a strong energetic sensation in the head? I guess Jim Newman would call this the contracted energy. What is the process of unwinding the contracted energy

How is the emptiness the fullness? What is identification?