BlessedLion

Karma is a funny thing

He should just be single

I kinda get this- also relationships require a ton of time and energy, and it’s something you have to manage- it’s not ideal for a contemplative lifestyle.

Yes, not too well, but I know he has some powerful talks on manifestation and semen retention Exactly. It's definitely a trip, and explains why self-bias is so powerful Thank you Thanks for the feedback! I watched that series a while back but could revisit it, that was years ago Regarding the constructive creation, that's a great point, and honestly something I am still figuring out too. The wirings for reality to be THIS way are so deep that I think first we have to recognize we are DOING it, but then yes, create what you'd like from there, that takes serious consciousness work. Yeah, I tried to make it experiential through the examples but the truth is people have to spend those hours contemplating this stuff themselves. True, but I feel that there is a very strong "firewall" on the "individual" bubbles to where my bubble stays very consistently as mine, for example- i have never seen out of anyone elses' eyes.

Why do you feel this was all lost due to the relationship? Do you feel like you’ve settled? Does she challenge you to grow? Does she inspire you to pursue life purpose and be better? Im genuinely curious as I faced something similar earlier this year and decided the only way to get my full fire and “mojo” back was to end things and just be single.

I would agree with this. @Lyubov It sounds like you’re just maturing and stepping into a more stable life path. Learn to love it and change the perspective to going deep rather than spreading wide. It’s a maturity and there can be satisfaction in just rolling out stability, solid habits, deepening your relationship, etc. It’s likely the transition that feels weird bc a part of you is dying, and you’re being nostalgic about the old you

Aubrey Marcus is coming to my city for the psychedelic conference, I was considering going to his event, but I decided not to. Why give money and be a follower to someone with a delusional ego like this? Just gives him more validation. Also it gives psychedelics a bad name when you have an advocate who overdoes it and then rambles about crazy nonsensical shit like The God of Isis telling him to impregnate 2 women. I wonder if the turnout is smaller after all this or how the vibe will be there

For sure. No hate on being average- I guess he never really promotes himself as creating a profound life, it’s more just let getting through with as little suffering possible

It’s funny. I open this right after a disagreement with my brother, we are currently living together for a little bit but I plan to leave soon (2 weeks) One thing with family is they are the closest people yet distance and autonomy is a must. I love my family more than anything, but living with them or depending on them in anyway sounds like hell

Deleting old post. Done putting energy into this.

Iran has the right to defend itself, this was a vicious attack. Israel seems to think it can just go around attacking everyone around them and there won’t be any retaliation or fight back. Time will tell. You can’t act like this much of a devil for this long

Definitely agree with this but I’m not sure if how Dr. K positions it is akin to what you’re saying. It almost seems like he is bashing on the guy on the right who became disciplined and got his health in check and a ripped physique. It does depend for sure where that motivation comes from but full honesty, for most men it starts as some form of insecurity especially in their 20s and once they feel disciplined and empowered it becomes more of a joy. For example the guy in Dr. Ks example may have needed to build that body to feel more wanted by women or alpha or whatever then after he moves through that phase he’s can relax and little and just enjoy it because it’s healthy. Just my take- interesting convo though.

I think I’m done with Dr. K. I unsubscribed from his videos. He seems to be taking this new position of promoting being average and giving up on trying to do anything great in life or having a vision. His latest video “Why Most Men Never Grow Up” made little to no sense to me, and coupled with this latest “Women Love Betas” one it’s proven to me he is on a different take than I agree with. He scoffs at using yoga or meditation to transcend what I would consider monkey games He promotes drugery, settling down with any woman (don’t try to get a beautiful girlfriend, lower your standards), don’t view yourself as the Hero in your own life (why not? I think you must when you consider everything you’re up against in this insane society), having a boring average job (this is being mature!), and basically throwing in the towel on trying to do something great and profound with your life. Along with this Beta video, I’m still unsure- what’s the solution here? Be average? Plug into a social structure that keeps people miserable, drained, and lonely? Fuck that, I believe in tapping into and expanding your power. If I didn’t I wouldn’t be where I’m at today, dating models, financially free, living my purpose, healthy, disciplined, autonomous and fully authentic Not my cup of tea anymore and I don’t think it’s what we should be promoting.

From CNN ”Trump offered no signals in the immediate aftermath of the attacks that he was prepared to use American military assets to help defend Israel from expected Iranian reprisal, as his predecessor Joe Biden did when Israel and Iran exchanged fire last year. Without American assistance, Israel’s air defenses could be unable to withstand a major Iranian onslaught.” Let’s see how this unfolds

Yes. Exactly. This was a huge fear actually for me in the dating market- trading my authenticity to be considered attractive by most women. Yet nowadays when I meet women who see my interests, perspectives, etc and think it’s cool they really love it. So that makes it worth the rejections of the other women who find it strange or whatever. I’ve also learned to filter out and find the women who will likely be into my style or “niche” - yoga studios, travel hostels, parks, ecstatic dance. If a see a girl journaling by the creek, doing yoga at the park, or tatted up with new age clothing it’s like a huge bleeping sign on my radar and usually goes well I can see how over the top hyper alpha guys might be like Coca Cola or something but there’s not much depth there

I always appreciate your input and insight, I can tell you put deep thought into it. This makes total sense But I don’t think we should call these Men “Betas” it’s more like “cool” that’s the best word I can fit to describe them. Not cool like popular cool kid, but just like cool with people and themselves and women. Not striving to be something they aren’t, but also if a man a has a genuine desire to get ripped, be disciplined, etc I don’t see why that’s unattractive or seen as running away from oneself

Your Jedi skills are improving 👽 Thats awesome, it’s truly another world when we become conscious of these more subtle energies and dynamics. Most importantly- how we create reality out of thin air!

I’ll let him know! 😂

Definitely bro. Just the world we live in today. Exact reason guys like Ken Wilber, Ralston and Igor are barely noticed yet Vitaly has 10M subs. Regarding what you said on an ambitious man being ready for monogamy. That guy usually has a ton of options IF he’s developed himself and can handle compromise and relationship dynamics. A lot of ambitious men are used to things being done “their way” that it can be a tough transition, it’s like merging companies. But if that man is ready, he has almost endless options with quality women. For the record - Men do the same thing as women with being intimidated by her status, income and intelligence. Most men don’t want a partner earning more than them , higher education or in a situation where they aren’t leading as it feels immasculating. It goes both ways. Hence why so many successful women complain about being single

Point in case. Thank you 🙏 I always suspected this but never had the wording for it. I always thought “Surely, most women will be attracted to discipline, consciousness and development” But it seems (in the main stream at least) that is a threat

I’d like to clarify on this, if the women is secure, conscious and open minded this will make her interested- but if she sees it as a threat to her wisdom, intelligence etc then she will be turned off.

I don’t know about this- Wilt Chamberlin slept with 20,000 women (although he ended up saying “I’d rather sleep with my wife 1,000 times than 1,000 different women”) But he was a pretty standard masculine alpha type I do agree that I think the hyper masculine macho douche bags who spent half their lives in the gym are insecure and women don’t find them attractive, but we can’t just state that alpha guys don’t have sex. It depends on the women and their level of maturity, development and where there are in life. If you go to a club or boat party, those macho guys are usually sleeping with the younger “party” girls. But those girls grow up and realize those guys are unable to commit, unpredictable and pretty much doing their own thing- not a lot of compromise. So they find more safety in the working man who has conformed more, is settled down, and honestly is less ambitious and more “satisfied” in life

Pretty fascinating video. I think it makes sense when he emphasizes the caveat of “long term vs short term” Long term, of course she wants a “beta” (I don’t like that word, but maybe more like settled down/lower testosterone/less firey) kind of guy, he is easier to hold down! Hes more domesticated, docile, easy to be around, and wont out grow or out smart her- almost neutered in a certain sense. A more short term guy will be someone who excites her, pushes her edge, makes her feel sexually stimulated and a bit dangerous. This will likely be the better sex. But of course, this man is wild, he is untamable, he has 10 other women as options, he is also a threat in a certain sense as he might outgrow her or have more ambition that she can’t keep up with. I sometimes wonder if women are actually threatened by certain types of ambitious men and date down to feel safe and secure. One of the best pick up routines I’ve ever seen is to act dumb, women love it, if you show you’re intelligent, conscious, and spiritual, ironically many women run away.