Alfonsoo

@hariseldon74 I think we should make a difference between the romantic love we usually talk about (what we see in movies, girl/boyfriends etc) and “love” when talking about infinite and unconditional acceptance. To just see and accept = love

I’m starting to find less and less value (apart from pure entertainment) in literature (fiction). Those “great classics” everyone tells you you have to read like Shakespeare, Kundera, Asimov, Tolkien, Alighieri, etc. You know those books. Most of these we were forcedd to read at school. I can see why there are important, but why not read non fiction, self help etc. You can get the same message and even more value from that. So is there really any exclusive value to literature? Why is it so highly praised by “superficial” intellectuals?

@mandyjw you’re right. Just out of curiosity, is there any way you could relate this to romantic/sexual relationships?

@Anton_Pierre true, i think I was starting to lock my self into a point of view of whether something is useful or not and efficiency

So I’ve been hanging out with this girl, I decided I was going to wake her out. There really is something happening between us. That magic. So I asked her out. She said yes. But she didn’t answered my texts. We never concluded on specifics so the date never really solidified. In my dating life this is the first time something like this happens. I girl feels so enthusiastic, things keep escalating, but she suddenly refuses to go past the “first date” barrier. I feel like she doesn’t want to loose me as a friend or something like that.

@SFRL hmmm. The problem is, how can I up the interest without being with her (the date or something)