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@Danioover9000 I just see this as green over focusing on a drop and ignoring the ocean.

@Forestluv lmfaooo thats a good point. But hey, women are attracted to gay men.

lol with that attitude signals the brackets your in. There are consciousness/maturity brackets, the higher up you go the easier it is to get dates online. High consciousness dating is alot easier. Their is less competition. Nature of the bell curve. Mature people identify other mature people pretty easily, they can communicate harmoniously with little effort.

@Woke456 lol life throws you punchs, its part of the game, learn to take hits, eventually the impact lessons until there not felt at all.

It was a metaphor

Pointing to a part to reveal the lack of holism.

@Preety_India A figure of speech, i assume most men can walk and carry their own weight. lol It's a man's body language to a woman. It's the signals he's putting out with his body movements. It all means his mannerisms, his stance, his sex appeal, his job, his finances, his style, his clothing, his hairstyle, his facial expressions, his independence, his calm smart tone of voice. All men pretty much figure this out at some point and play the part. Fooling women. Underneath they are low quality men role playing as high quality men. Leo is a high quality guy who still had to learn to role play as a high quality guy. Its ridiculous.

@SolarWarden Learn integral theory, that should jump start yellow for you.

@flume @fridjonk Are you guys out of your mind? lol, these are 15-16 year olds, meditating during class is a waist of time, they will be bored out of there minds. Doing anything like this in school was torture for me at that level of development. About all they care to think about is how hot the girl next to them is and to becaful not to do or say anything that might make them look bad.

- Ask a question and have them answer it from a specific stage/perspective. Show them that a question can be answered from many perspectives. - Split the class in half or in fourths and give each group a world view that they have debate with each other. Then swap the world views midway and make then debate from the others perspective that they just spent good energy rejecting. This will really screw with them lol.

Is this an absolute/relative mix up?

In boxing getting hit at first is a very emotional experience, but with practice and experience you learn that even with dodging and weaving you still get hit and its ok, its part of the game. The impact lessons until there not felt at all.

Isn't this a standard coping mechanism? Also the first relationship will likely fail apart do to the persons inexperience and attachment issues. Waiting this long leads to dysfunctional co-depended relationships. I was 21 with my first and it was not ideal lol.

He looks terrible for his age. What someone looks like when they sabotage there bodies for 40 years. Skin is not supposed to wrinkle, hair is not supposed to fall out... this is all misconceptions of aging.

@Peter Miklis The point i was trying to make was that picture is a guy who communicates intimacy with everything he does including his personality, attracting women. It has nothing to do with him being high value, or they confuse this with high value. Women are fooled across the board by a man who can carrie himself well, that includes talking.

Right and all of does traits will be tuned to intimacy. Following leos points, i can say from my experience that when ever i showed my feminin side with a woman after we started dating, it is overall rejected. They tell me im being immature, when really im just being affectionate and giving, this is my natural instict and it needs to be suppressed because they dont need/value it in the slightest.

Is this guy high value? Why would he be we know nothing about him other then a picture. Lets look only at his face, what does it say to a women? "I know how to fuck you". That smile and relaxed eyes comes with a masculine energy that he presents himself with. The way he speaks is sexy, the way he stands is sexy, why? Because its a representation of intimacy. Everything he does is a reflection of what hes going to do to her in bed. That inner lust a man has to take a women shows itself in the way he carries himself. Nice guys have non of this. They dont represent intimacy.

@Peter Miklis lol he wouldn't go that far but he would have the mind set "she's lucky i'm even talking to her" and so everything that followed was perfect pick up. They never stood a chance. When a man takes a women from behind, from his perspective there is a animalismt lusting to take her, to dominate her. The "true" attraction a women has for a man is his inner lust to fuck her. That's the foundation that everything else is built on. Nice guys don't have this foundation, so they walk around communicating non of this.

A friend growing up was one of does standard alpha-male stereotypes. Big body, big muscle, dumb. He once told me, "I don't look at women because i don't want to give them the satisfaction, they don't deserve it". He embodied what women find attractive and it worked. Women would throw them selves at him. Of course he was an asehole.

Why not do this? What's stopping you? Are you "better" then this? lol

Dont explicitly teach SD, implicitly teach it. Really you want to expose them to green/yellow thinking, that might be the most beneficial. Give exercises that promote multi-perspectival thinking. They will unlock SD on their own. Teach/practice with them: - Give them the tool of Meta questions, go meta for many examples/subjects, pick subject they care about. - Ask a question and have them answer it from a specific stage/perspective, get them in the shoes of other people, give them a perspective and get them to answer questions from it. Show them that a question can be answered from many perspectives. - Systems thinking, show them the inter-connectiveness of everything and give them systems thinking questions they can use, always make it practical, always focus on giving them a tool they can add to there tool box. They have no idea that unrelated things are indirectly connected and effect each other. Then expand it to holistic thinking, explore parts and wholes. - Relativity, they have no idea what this is. - Creative exploration of ideas, they have no tools to do this. - Big picture Thinking, you want to teach them SD when they have no idea how to do basic big picture thinking. Whats the bigger picture here? lets zoom out... SD is automatically unlocked at high green/yellow, the pattern reveals itself.

Stop masterbating to porn or do NoFap. A state of independence comes when its cut out.

Men like this have high standards for the women they date. I wonder how many women naively think they qualify. They are then frustrated with the quality of the man they attract...

@CBN Thanks ill add that technique to the repertoire. Its a very natural thing to do, im guessing most guys figured this out on there own. Maybe we should start a sex techniques mega thread.

In leos sex education videos, he explains how to bring up the sexual intimacy. That part is simple enough but right after that quickly sais then make her cum over and over...??????? No details. The issue is with my current relationship after her first orgasm with oral and fingers she doesn't want me to touch her clit again and just wants penetration (She says the clit is to sensitive after she orgasm). The penetration is great, she enjoys it but how am i supposed to make her cum another 5 times like leo suggests if i cant touch her clit? How to go about vaginal only orgasms? Ive tried every angle and speed and duration. It doesn't seem to bring her any closer to a orgasm but she is very vocally enjoying it... and i know size is not he problem because im using sex toys. Is she not able to orgasm multiple times? What exactly is going to stimulate the next serious of orgasms? Shes getting very excited from the pentration, dirty talk and play, but its not pushing her over the edge.