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it's also a good question to ask how do I prevent them from unconsciously co-opting everything I say for their survival agenda which they're also unconscious too?

You're better off spending the first 10 minutes hyping it up listing 1 million scientists and reputable people that all came together to create this amazing model that just won the Nobel Prize and it's on fire on social media, hype it up like crazy so they get a sense that this is really important. The main reason they don't take it seriously or apply themselves to understand it is because it's coming from you. They're hearing it from you instead of A source that they usually get their information from that is biasedly aligned with there reasoning system, values. it needs to be packaged for there taste buds.

@Vision Got to answer these questions lol, what do you want to start with off the top of your head? What attracts you? Do you wanna work with artificial intelligence?

@Vision It depends on what your interested in working on, if your attracted to this "building cloud based solutions (GCP, AWS), data analytics and robotic process automation" then what id recommend will drastically change. Not all areas of software are the same or enjoyable for everyone. There is a lot of diversity.

Im personally a mind map user for taking all my notes, obsidian didn't do it for me as it is now, but i like where the development is going, it needs a few good plugins to get it going. Yes Start by learning the basics, there are infinite YouTube tutorials on every language, then practice what you've learned. After a bit pick something your interested in making and figure out how to make it. What are you interested in? What ideas do you have that you wish you could build today? Ill guide you in the best technologies you need to learn for does projects, so you can start there. The technologies ill recommend are also the industry standard and will easily land you a full time job. Also have fun, when i first started learning i made many small games to learn and explore, programming is a sandbox game.

@Vision Sorry i misunderstood what you where asking, i thought you where asking about cloud services as a business model. I know a few guys who slowly built up there own over time, for every new client they would add a service to there infustructure and in a few years they had a entire package of cloud services to quickly build any app and keep there customers tied financially to them lol. But the services are no different from using google or amazon cloud services, so they basically remade what has already been done a million times, but now they own it and can charge for it. Excellent. Yes but are they profitable? There are so many alternatives/competition. Most of the work people do goes to open source or ends up freely accessible to people. Im constantly learning new technologies for different jobs, so ive done a few things like, Full stack web development, Smart Contracts, Game development, IOT and Hardware modeling/programming, Mobile apps, Chrome extensions, Trading bots... ++ I worked in a company for a few years 9-5, its definitely less enjoyable then working with startups, but the pay is good + benefits. Working with other people is a pain and a distraction, its takes a lot of effort coordinating, tracking tasks, meetings, bug management... I work for people and have side projects. Ideally i would of done things differently and started a company or various services but life doesn't always give you the opportunities. 22, i would of started sooner if i new coding existed, i had no idea what it was. But before any of that i was addicted to problem solving and games like chess, so programming was a immediate addiction that suited me.

10+ years Thr ability to create anything out of my imagination. It's so much fun to learn. I don't see the point in building a saas, why reinvent the wheel? but if that's what stimulates you go for it. I would recommend it to people who enjoy problem solving. INTJ INTP ISTP pretty much account for 90% of software developers.

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Penis pump will drastically increase sensitivity. Just don't abuse it, it can damage the pains.

Yes, its worth it.

There's no one better, You'll get better not them.

find a local girl also adjust your rose coloured glasses she's not perfect.

Stop blaming people for your mistakes. all the information was presented to you and the method you used to make sense if it was flawed.

Are you a ESTJ?

His life style is not compatible with your life style, its not personal. This is part of the learning curve of figuring out what you want and don't want in a partner.

The biggest struggle is learning the hard way what a healthy relationship is. This means dating around and getting locked into bad relationships for years until you figure out what you really want.

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I like to cuddle and talk no matter the kind of sex, do some loving eye gazing and give my partner a massage. then do some wrestling/play when she recovers from the fatigue.

Did you figure out what you're doing wrong yet?

Organic Bell Peppers (red, yellow, green) I discovered this a few weeks ago and narrowed it down to bell peppers using food isolation. I wanted to bring this up because no one mentions bell peppers as an aphrodisiac. The results are undeniable, you'll have to try it for your self to believe it. Using this product found in the frozen food section of my local health food store. (green organics tri-color peppers) 1 cup is 200% vitamin C Eating raw bell peppers non-frozen does not have the same effect, maybe the nutrients are being preserved with the way its frozen on harvest and shipped? I also eat them with other nutrients dense foods that have a huge list of nutrients on the label, its possible that the peppers are helping my body absorb the nutrients from the other foods im eating. Overall my sexual energy and erection strength is as high as it was in my 20s. It also improved mood and skin, maybe related to serotonin.

I was trying to say that your standards are completely subjective and subject to change, Defining good art and music by one metric your metric. The standards will change as you experience more and your measuring stick becomes something else.

Ego-Succesentric I asked someone a question "What is the meaning of life?" and the answer really hit home for me, "to achieve" paradigms are amazing How I experience orange is that they have taken the part of culture that best suits them based on their personal preferences and don't realize that they're just regurgitating that one part of their culture. They can see other parts of culture and they are rejecting it so they think they're thinking for themselves, when really they're just conforming to one part that they like. No awareness that The reason they think and care about the things they do is because they simply been exposed to them. Strong in the box thinking.

That's not what I meant i'm not talking about being their friend i'm talking about connecting deeper. Women know my intention immediately there is no second-guessing anything I'm not a cuddly bear for them to unload all their problems on. i'm romantic interesting intimate and create a connection immediately all this is being displayed. Are you boring? The only explanation is they experiencing you as a friend and you're boring them sexually, they're not getting excited for you to take them, for whatever reason you're not viewed you as a man who can take them properly and dominate them in bed.

lmao you already tried that and now you're here, The fact that you're here answers your question.

it's that you're not good at making them feel like you have a deep connection. Pay close attention to how they are experiencing you and gameFly that. Not just with dating but with all human interactions, get deep, cut the route of things, small talk is a filler or a platform to then pick and probe deeper. Make everyone feel special, make them feel like you understand them and you want to understand them, make them feel like they can talk to you about anything. This is a lot easier done when your survival conditions as a child forced you to adapt to your parents emotional needs and you became responsible and highly sensitive to how your parents experienced you because not doing so meant a negative outcome. Do and say things in a way to tailor's to that person's needs. To have this childhood would give you all the tools you need to connect with someone extremely fast. They call these people empaths, all it is is a childhood survival adaptation that made the person hyper sensitive to other people's perspective. Speak to people like they are your long lost best friend, it shouldn't be too serious but there should always be intimacy in the conversation.