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That makes sense, but maybe physics and metaphysics can be handled differently? Im not going to allow this character for another second to get lost in this story. Ive been fooled my entire life! I refuse to be fooled by any of this anymore.

I don't believe in any of my thoughts or perceptions or stories that this character identifies with, it all seems like non-sense that immaturely captivates me on a daily bases. A grown up stops believing in the tooth fairy? lol If i feel bad about some event that happened to me years ago, its absurd, its complete imagination.

At some point to grow out of and no longer get lost in the stories and emotions created by expectations. Thats my experience of it as well, but im at the point now that I want to let these stories go. I view it as if ive been playing victim with all these mind stories. Why does every story need to be taken so seriously?

Is that really possible? Ill experiment with this. I have a very easy ability to create any emotion I choose by changing to any perspective I choose, So i figured why would I get stuck/gripped by one? The negative framing is just the conditioned first perspective that emerged, its not any more true then any other? So this post was a resolve to stop being a victim to my own creation.

@supremeyingyang I thought about the main point you where making, your right that choosing to avoid some situations is the right move. It can be unhealthy to be in a long term relationship and catere to other peoples needs even if we fully accept them as they are.

I agree , This is my first day dumping time in here after a 2 week break.

That's true I'm being a bit forceful to encourage a more open minded ideology. Part of it is its going to be a problem down the road for many reasons. If you have kids what are you going to do if one of them is unorthodox? Make there childhood full of trauma? Ye i wouldn't want to chill with a trump supporter it sounds like we wouldn't be compatible because of my preconceptions, but if i FELL IN LOVE WITH ONE LMFAO, then they revealed they where a supporter of trump. I would very likely accept them because my preconceptions about trump supports was proven completely wrong, after all I'm already in love with one! Im really not trying to shame doe, Im expressing what I think are the absurdities created by peoples preferences.

Its a reasonable idea, i agree that preferences and values matter in compatibility. The thing is in this one situation compatibility was confirmed. To love someone then reject them for some idea they believe in is extreme. Its the cliché.

lmao right so if you dislike someone's identity find a replacement. Lets not consider accepting people the way they are, that goes against our very important and fragile preferences that need to be upheld at all cost. To reject apple for its philosophy that you disagree with is a higher order cause. The equivalent here is to accept people the way they are, that's the higher order position. If you cant do this thats fine, thats where your at.

But what if you used one extensively, loved it and then was told it was a macbook and got a gut reaction that it was a deal breaker?

Yes thats understandable if your of a man, non-binary and dressing/acting feminine this breaks peoples expectations a bit to strongly and women wont be into it. But if your a woman, non-binary and dressing/acting feminine people cant tell the difference, it blends in and meets people conditioned preferences. The answer hes looking for is obvious to intuitive emotional thinkers, he was attracted to her and loves her before this information was presented. That's the answer hes looking for. But now hes stuck in this masculine logical figuring out thinking process that doesn't matter.

I'm viewing it more like a negative gut reaction towards homosexuals and not a ideology against homosexuals (hate).

Im not sure im shaming, i mean if a homophobe comes into this forum he literally gets banned. where are we drawing the line?

These are the extremists. The GF is not making demands. So im thinking its really a over reaction on his part, with misconceptions.

In this case he had no knowledge of any of this and where dating for some time, so now after ONE piece of information he suddenly needs to end it? He has no idea what any of this is. Its strait fear of something he doesn't understand or experienced and has a bunch of preconceived notions about it. Most of the people here also have preconceived notions about it. Non-binary is not a crazy ideological sensitive unstable masculine woman that demands the world to call them by He/Him when they look 100% feminine.

Ask the spirit to play a game of chess with you and post it here.

She did not have a sex change, this is someone who does not identify as male or female in the traditional sense, but is still high on feminine polarity not masculine. if they had a sex change and pulled out a dick right before having sex then yes i would say that's a rug pull and unethical, but to say your non-binary is more of a philosophical note about how she views herself. Transgender is a major identity crises where they really don't like the body they are in and want or wish they where the opposite sex. The gf is, feminine, does everything in a feminine way but does not identify as being strictly female. So it cant possible have any impact on the relationship. Basically he never thought of this before and his preconceptions (GUT) is a state of fear and judgement of the unknown and a form of phobia towards it. Sex: Man/Woman Biology (DNA) Gender: Male/Female Identity (Non-Binary...) Energy: Masculine/Feminine Polarity (Spectrum) The GF is a Non-binary Woman with a Feminine mental state. That's the majority of progressive women nowadays and when you reach any higher level of development you deconstruct gender naturally. It has nothing to do with transgender. If they are more masculine in energy then they tend to want to dress and behave more masculine but when they are more feminine they look and behave exactly like every other GF. Gender identity is not that important when it comes to relationship. What's more important is there Sex, Energy and if there stable in there Masculine/Feminine Polarity. If they suddenly switch to Masculine midway during the relationships it would be a problem. If you really contemplate on your gender identity long enough you'll eventually have no idea what you identify as. But how you relate to people, behave, think or value youll asses as more masculine or feminine.

What are you smoking, it will have 0 effect on your relationship. The fact that you would end a relationship based on this is equivalent to being homophobic.

When she tells you she broke up with her boyfriend she wants people to understand her struggle and empathise, she might also have alternative motives to seduce you as a replacement if your not a friend-zone type of male.

I get exactly the opposite feeling, it puts doubt in my mind when anyone agrees with me. I must be completely wrong then because my perspective aligns with some other fool like me. People underestimate how deeply lost in non-sense everyone is. It could also be arrogance, i asses that i have better insight into the subject so if someone agree with me i know i must of missed something.

"The physical jobs will be the last to go" That's really not a good sign short term.

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It takes time, that's it, it will all come back around and you'll relax. There is no need to force things to change or happen. Focus on life, career, girls, have fun with it. its a game. Go PLAY.

I'm still at that assumption stage where I'm 100% sure I cant figure this out.