LeoX8

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  1. @barcos I would say option 2. You need good foundations to start your growth and detoxify yourself. Its a long process, so be patient. If you take this process you will actully be contemp simply by being, but it takes a long journey I trust you<3
  2. @Psyche_92 Accept that fact. If you are really laughing for that reason, accept that you are frustrated, that you are failing, that you are struggling with your finances and the fact that it doesnt make any sense, accept all of that. We always try to resist those emotions, they are scary, painful so we find all sorts of ways to get rid of them- and maybe laughing is one of them. So my advice is to ask yourself: what's the problem here? what am i missing here that i currently not awere of? Try to be as honest as you can and accept whatever answer you came up with. Once you have accept it you can start to act effectively. If you dont, you will refuse to listen the reason why all of this is happening and things will be very difficult. The choice is yours. I hope that you will find your answers. I trust you <3 Remember “Every adversity, every failure and every heartache carries with it the seed of an equivalent or a greater benefit.”
  3. @robinmk4l You did an amazing choice, I'm proud of you <3
  4. @robinmk4l I feel you. I haven't been through your situation but at a certain point in my life i decided to end it once and for all. It was painful, everyday i just came home and cry for desperation, why i could not get just some peace? You have to make a choice: even if its pointless and absurde, will you still pursue happiness? do you still want to be happy? Forget for a moment if its possible or not , if it does make sense or not or even if you deserve it or not, and really ask yourself:"Do i want to be happy?". It takes courage, but I really thought about that and eventually i answered. Relax yourself, try to focus on your breath and when you feel calm ask yourself: "Do I want to be happy? Do I want to be the energetic and happy guy that I used to be?" I answered yes and since than I never regretted that choice. It takes courage to answer that question, but you certanly can. Once I decided to be happy, I started to get into personal development and find solutions for my problems. Its a long journey, but trust me, the rewards are high and happiness is surely one of them. I encourage you to do the same. Now its your turn to make the decision. I really trust you. <3
  5. @benny You can simply start with the intention of let go that episode. Try to remember the emotions and the pain you felt, even if it's very intense, you can still do it. Feel totaly the emotions and the feelings, at first it will be shit, but as long as you continue you will start to feel "lighter". Accept what happened, its possible and you can certanly do it, even if it seems very difficult at first. Once you have accepted them, you can decide to let them go and make the decision that they will not influence you anymore. It can also help viewing the episode as a third person in the scene, an observator, and really try to find a lesson in there. There's a lesson in everything, and you have been through hell to get that, you really own it. Also on YouTube you can find videos on the topic and some of them are really powerful. I hope that this has helped <3
  6. @beatlemantis I can relate to this. it's like a shadow that will not leave you, and just when you forget it for a little time, BOOM! and it ccomes back. I've been in Personal development for almost a year now and these feelings still come back once in a while. Yesterday i decided to face them: "im not smart enough", "im too lazy", "i continue to get influenced by people judgments", and so on. I tried to really feel the pain, to experience fully those emotions. at first it was like shit, but i continued. I starded crying, it was painful, but i continued, to the point where i said to myself :"I fell all these things, I've done such and such in the past and i can't change that fact. But i dont want that these feelings influence me anymore. I accept that i dont feel enough, i accept what I've done, and i decide to let go of all of that" This was the turning point, I still feel some of the negative emotions but i dont feel bad about them , and I consider this a huge win. I hope that you really try something similar for yourself and that this has helped you in some ways.
  7. @Cocolove I also had the feeling that it was the right thing to do when Leo told that. The problem came later, but now i think i can choose. Thanks a lot for your help!!
  8. The question really come down to what Leo has said in one of his last videos in the course: if you are young you should live your life and make a lot of different experiences. Now i feel kinda stuck. I mean now i have found a purpose in my life, i'm doing research about how to make my purpose real. The only things that i am unsure of is my medium and niche. What i should do? I am still too young and im fooling myself with all of this? I should just take it easily and live my life with the lessons i've learned? I don't have enough experience? I'm really confused.
  9. I'm really suck right now. I'm doing the life purpose course but now i'm stuck between these things: continue to search my purpose or leave it for some time and going to become good with relationships, with girls and hopefully get a girlfriend (it's a thing that i want for a long time). I don't really want to do both at the same time because i think if i do so i will get miserable results in both of them. Do you guys have any solutions or advices? thanks in advance
  10. @Sam Barker @universe @Hansu thanks so much for the advices, they really helped me. Btw im 16 and i already meditate
  11. I get motivated by Leo's videos, a lot of positive beliefs and the process of self-actualization but this motivtion does not last very much. In less than two days I end up getting frustrated or sad because i am not living the life that i want live, and the results also are small and the happines that i gain from them does not last very much. I'm also sad beacause i'm bored all the day.I started watching too much Leo's videos, tried to do a lot of stuff and ended up overworking and not giving value to the contenent, so i decided to reduce the time, but now i am bored, also because i don't have a life purpose. The main problem stays that i don't know how to control or avoid those moments of sadness. I've understood that i have to become a superconductive of negative emotions, but that's all? I mean how can i start avoiding those moments? Thanks in advance