Emotionalmosquito

@Leo Gura Very difficult to believe but awesome if true. I’d bet good money I’d get swiftly removed from the property if I tried to act like the dumbest wanky frank wild feet death roll popcorn pants on the dance floor. The majority are extremely un-cool in my area to put things lightly. But who knows, it might just work. I took the counter intuitive option this one time where I went out on the dance floor and just stood still facing everyone. They said I had to either dance or get off the floor because I was “intimidating people.” lol

So you’re telling me if I were to put in the countless hours needed to become as good as Dytto, I still wouldn’t get as much action as someone who sucks but is having lots of fun? Anyone willing to make that kind of dedication obviously loves dancing therefore they’d be having tons of fun AND showing mad skills.

Then we’d see the emergence of the omega chad

What if ur a noob at the kino ladder and you put your hands on her hips too early? Then she might just tell the bouncers/staff you made her uncomfortable then you’re kicked out. With my luck that’s how it goes even though I’m not trying to be a threat. I’ve been kicked out for less.

Glad to hear it, mate! As far as etiquette I’d say be extremely cautious of what you talk about and how you’re coming across to everyone. Don’t stand out too much and try to blend in well. I went to a Halloween party I made a thread about a while ago and it was fun. Not a blast, but fun. It was basically a Halloween themed costume party night club. I was able to get away with letting loose and opening up which usually gets me in trouble, though I was still paranoid which is why it was only fun instead of a blast. I think Halloween tends to activate a type of care free spirit in people that greatly helps with socializing. What type of music did they play when you went?

The incel community calls that “MSTOW” men sent their own way. Many incels will resort to calling themselves mgtow as a cope for the fact that they really have no choice in the matter. You can only be mgtow with plenty of prior dating experience both because you need to see firsthand what you’re opting out of and why and because the definition doesn’t even fit if you can’t get any in the first place. It certainly can be, just as any community can. But at its core I believe mgtow is important for men. True mgtow isn’t about hating women, that’s the incel community. Mgtow is needed to protect against the horrors of divorce rape and false accusations. Those are the main two as far as I understand. That’s all I need to know wiki has no idea what it’s talking about. One of the founding fathers of mgtow is a black dude and mgtow is huge within the black community as a whole. It has nothing to do with race.

She’s super witty so thats a helpful quality but the darkness she has would make most girls run for the hills. Unless they were goth or emo. I never understood this. If you aren’t moved by her then what’s the point? They say it greatly helps with attracting women if you can get to a place where you no longer want or need them, but where’s the enjoyment of having one at that point? Imagine intensely desiring an awesome toy as a kid but not being able to have it because you couldn’t afford it or take proper care of it. By the time you’re old enough to get it and care for it, you’ve outgrown the desire so what’s the point? The most enjoyment sex can possibly give you is if you crave it deeply, you’re shocked and awed by the beauty of your target AND you score. No?

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Get him a gift for him to give back to you that you have to wear regularly. Like a super sexy pair of panties and cheerleader outfit or lingerie. If I had a gf, I would love that. Of course that could just be my sex starved imagination talking and he really just wants something more for him. You could always just get him an Arabian Ass Accelerator

Women’s lib happened quite a bit longer ago than overnight. Granted many places are still underdeveloped in that way. But most first world countries have both genders pretty much on equal playing fields now. Depending on location, women have actually gained better positions than men in certain aspects. For example, in the UK, men can be jailed for looking at women without their permission. And it’s pretty well known that in the west, females will usually be given lighter sentences for same crimes as men. @aurum makes sense

I find it difficult to believe one gender is naturally better at healing mental health problems than the other. Look at it like this: This community is founded on spirituality and self help. These things are most attractive to those who are suffering. If nine out of ten of the traffic here is men. Doesn’t that at least to some degree give a hint as to who is being treated more unfairly in the world?

Historically perhaps. But, what rights do men have that women don’t as of currently?

This restriction would without a doubt only be imposed on men if such a dystopian scenario manifests.

If India is so misogyny tolerant why didn’t he get away with retaliating? The dude simply hit back to stand up for himself and got dog piled for it.

Attraction phase is by far the hardest. It’s ridiculously complicated to learn all the different things to do and not do. Relationship phase all you have to do is be a good communicator and make them feel loved.

How big a city you in? My town is barely big enough to do a quarter of bare minimum and I’m in no position to make enough money to move to a more target rich environment. I’d be in jail for repeated harassment long before I did anything close to 5k approaches

I mean, I wouldn’t go so far as to say most serial killers and other violent criminals are nofap experts. And those types tend to attract tons of girls

But what if he’s good at hiding it and is a good manipulator? Then what?

@Leo Gura except in this case not all of us are spammers. Some of us are advertisers offering a product they genuinely want. How can we advertise if the consumer shuts us down before giving us a chance to give the full sales pitch? Also forgot to mention. The most common way girls will tell you to fuck off is by saying “I have a bf/husband”

Is this actually true? Or is it something women say to make themselves sound more emotionally sophisticated than they really are? If Zach Efron walked into a bar would he have to work hard to out compete the other guys? Or even a less notorious but attractive guy like Jeremy Meeks? I’d like to believe that’s true. But the feeling that comes with it is one hundred percent effective at convincing otherwise. Guys have to face hundreds or even thousands of rejections in the process of improving their skill. In a smaller city, that’s not even an option. In addition—and this is particularly true in highly social circle oriented areas— most chicks keep social credit scores that they share amongst one another on guys they’ve talked to. That leaves very little room for error.

The fact that they do this shit sparks within me a nuclear powered rage no human should ever have to feel. It’s like a sick and demented game they play that forces us into the balancing act of risking either grossing them out by coming off as a thirsty perv or worse because we made a move based on a misinterpreted signal or missing out on our big moment while getting laughed at for being a clueless idiot. So ladies, please. Be unmistakably direct when you want something. It’s really not that hard. This is a mentally torturous position you put us in whether knowingly or not.

The white knights will always dive in to save a perceived damsel in distress. Anytime a guy makes a girl even just a bit uncomfortable, his social standing takes a critical hit that’s extremely difficult to recover from. But since often times guys don’t realize due to girls being indirect and subtle, they don’t get a chance to apologize before walking away. By that point, it just looks ten times creepier to seek out that same girl to apologize. Damned if you do; damned if you don’t. I and most other guys always have to walk on eggshells every time we talk to chicks so I really don’t see why most of them are afraid, especially with more systems in place to protect them than ever before in history. Those and fake eyebrows are the most unattractive things women wear. @petar8p In my experience, their version of fuck off is either “have a nice day” or they just bury their face in their phone. Definitely not. If that was true I would have escaped inceldom a long time ago. You have to say all the right things at the right times, read subtle social cues and not make any mistakes all simultaneously. That’s only if she doesn’t tell the other girls how weird you are and ruin your chances with them too. I’ve experienced it. Exactly like what @Tyler Robinson said happened to her but role reversed. Which brings me to my final reply. Literally the story of my life. Only instead of unfriendly it’s “weird”

It’s invite only and about 70-100 people will attend, rough estimate. I can’t afford to make any mistakes here because I’ve been screwed so hard the last several times I’ve tried to socialize at this level it’s left a very bitter taste in my mouth. The safest way I can think to go about it is closely observe about ten random guys for about five or ten minutes then emulate the average of them. Folks seem to have a serious aversion to originality and uniqueness where I live so I clearly can’t say anything outside the Overton window, which in my area is extremely narrow and retarded. How do I maximize my odds of pulling a girl without getting beheaded for perving? Half of what Leo says is a good idea in part 2 of the how to get laid series WILL get me kicked out very quickly. I need to not fuck this up but I can’t see any routes to victory. If I’m too boring, I’ll be allowed to stay but no one will be interested. If I’m too energetic people will get scared and I’ll have to leave. It doesn’t help that I have no way of knowing if I’m fucking up until it’s too late. “People” (if I can even call them that) will pretend to befriend only to later spread word around behind my back until I’m hated. For this reason paranoia is most of my experience in this situation. I’ll be taking lorazepam beforehand but that alone won’t do the trick. If there is some simple fix for this problem for the love of God tell me. The only thing on my side with this event is two of my good friends will be there. I usually do stuff alone.

Correct. Until I open my mouth that is. Yes. I would in an instant if I could. But there is absolutely no possible way I’ll have enough money for that any time soon. Past experiences have given me a valid reason for that. The reason I don’t socialize more often is because there’s only so much human garbage I can take on top of the fact that since I live in a smaller town, I have little room to screw up. If someone gets weirded out, especially a girl, it’s over. There is no logically explaining my way out of it because feelings are irrational by nature. So I have to strategically plan for every night out for weeks or months in advance. Doesn’t it seem awfully unnatural that we have to do so much goddamn socializing just to land a girl in bed? Thousands before you really get the hang of it? If you didn’t know any better it would look as if an interstellar space traveler was trying to understand the customs of an alien race. It shouldn’t be so absurdly difficult to achieve the very thing that causes all physical life unless something is deeply and fundamentally wrong with attraction and dating.

@LordFall I have very little to work with in my small town. Very limited practice opportunities. If I was in a bigger city this little gathering would be about as significant as a fart in a tornado. Since I’m not it’s big.