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@zeroISinfinity Why bother with the preface of I did these things when I was younger, followed by I still do them now Reminds me of that Mitch Hedberg joke ”I used to do drugs, I still do but I used to too” What does that even mean? These things are manipulative, if manipulation is for woman you are behaving like a woman

@Pookie Unless what you’re saying is that MBTI isn’t for smart people, I should’ve phrased it as MBTI is Astrology for smarter people than those who believe in astrology, MBTI is one step up in calibre

@Pookie Your post is stupid by what you said therein Why don’t you instead of just saying it’s betrayed, why not explain how and why?

@JessiChell Also, eroticising your own shame and disgust is disgusting You shame and disgust is conscience What you’re doing is avoiding and corrupting the very conscience and aspect of you that regulates you to be a better man and act in a better way If you destroy that very instinct of repulsion and shame than you have literal carte blaunche to do anything Getting turned on by shame is an example of a broken mind You could not have a functioning mind and be aroused by your own failings Things like cuckold porn etc... are complete example of the eroticising of ones own failures, no healthy person would be aroused by that because it goes against the very reason with have a sexuality @Rolo In seriousness don’t listen to advice like that What exactly is being limited here, depravity Rolo all addiction should be overcome You shouldn’t need anything or anyone to be happy Take control back over your sexuality, don’t sink deeper into your addiction to cure it, take a step back and exercise some asceticism I made a post on this that might help you Good luck

@integral What is personality about if not behaviour? Is MBTI not about personality? Can people not change what “brain regions” they use? What does that even mean?

I too have a fear of ejaculation I wake up in the night after fever dreams of me ejaculating You’re not alone @Rolo

@remember ??? I didn’t say we were good at it

@integral Someones personality can’t change?

lsd

@PukkaDanks Amen to astrology being bullshit but check the other posts on here as well, you’ll see a lot of people are religious with MBTI even the main boss man Leo

@fridjonk I agree with everything you said, you missed the point I’m trying to make, it’s this Why build your identity around something that is constantly changing Right now you might be something, and you can work to change that but it shouldn’t be set in stone

@fridjonk People resonate with a lot of bullshit e.g. Astrology Doesn’t mean it’s true, it just appeals to some base “I’m this” impulse Also I think a lot of people have the misconception that they are stuck as there type, and if you’re type can so easily change it’s useless really to identify and resonate with it

@Zak Kid, god and a simp at the same time ? jk though is you have to ask if you’re a simp your probably a simp That’s some simp talk there son I know you are but what am I

@CultivateLove Np @fridjonk No, the point is that MBTI is stupid and there aren’t only 16 types of person, and it’s designed as a business not an accurate assessment of people, you can identify with one type more than another that does not mean it is accurate or you’re stuck as that thing

@integral This link you sent says all that needs to be said on the topic https://www.objectivepersonality.com/opt-100

@zeroISinfinity All love is conditional that’s the point of the thread Why don’t you just grow some balls and tell her you’re breaking up with her instead of doing all this manipulative bullshit

I have a question, why is there no dark tyraid to MBTI?

@integral I’ll look into objective typings Can you link some resources to this, also is there some test or way to firgure out your 512 type? I agree, people aren’t unique and we can definitely categorise them, my point is that MBTI is a shit pop culture way of doing so that is popular for the same reason astrology is, it’s chick crack, chick crack shouldn’t be taken seriously.

@CultivateLove Be specific

@Apparition of Jack Theyll probably just huff a bunch of smoke up my arse

@Username I attempted to watch that video but that woman might as well be talking Chinese, it makes no sense to me

@Username What does eye movement have to do with your personality? I never said completely fluid, but it’s more fluid than solid “Disciptions of types are very crude and assume you use only 2 main functions which is untrue.“ I agree with that You can research why, the job of the test is to tell you what you are not why you are what you are. That you can research or contemplate yourself, it’s not going to spoon feed you. Interplay of cognitive functions, yes I agree with this but it MBTI does a substandard pseudoscientific job at this.

Update [20/06/20] Finished the dopamine detox, it was a lot harder than I expected, this is the longest I’ve done it, before I’d only had done it over the weekend Some quick notes of the top of my head, I failed yesterday, so I wouldn’t even consider the whole dopamine detox a success, I just caved in and said fuck it, and I failed a few times throughout the week, checking my phone quickly, going on Facebook, listening to music, it started out from first I let myself play online chess, at the start I didn’t want to use the internet whatsoever, but I gave myself that exception, when things got really boring. Than I said I can use YouTube to watch music tutorials so I can practice guitar over the week, but when I allowed myself on YouTube I inevitably started watching stupid videos that I shouldn’t have. Over all I hugely cut of most of my bad habits, I hadn’t played VideoGames the entire week until yesterday, neither had I watched TV. I haven’t drink alcohol or smoked week this entire week. What I found difficult is with Covid shutting everything down I’ve been stuck in the house, with nothing to do besides play VideoGames and watch TV etc... so to eliminate that leaves me with a lot of time with nothing to do. I can meditate the entire day, neither can I exercise, so the entire first 3 days most of the day was spent doing literally nothing, it’s strange to see how nuch time I spend on my phone or in front of a screen, it’s actually pretty warped when you think about it. @kag101 I think I agree with what you said Kag, repression creates obsession. Though I don’t think there is anything bad with avoid stimulating as I do feel better over all, it’s just it was a constant battle and I did backslide. I watch that video at some point today, thank you for the recommendation Overall I might attempt something like this again but I’m going to plan what I’ll be doing in the days better, and I think it would be better if I remove my phone, computer or TV from the house to stop the constant temptation to use these things. @Aquarius Congrats, you made it a full day, you did better than I expected