flowboy

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  1. Given that this is a very close relative of PCP... none for me thanks. I've also felt amazing a few days after ketamine, doesn't mean I'm healed and all my problems are solved. You're on a high and you're going to have a crash.
  2. Well, I give up Apparently the Ayahuasca Pill is more of a contentious, dividing, family-feud-inducing issue than the vaccine. Should we mandate the ayahuasca pill for every citizen over 18? I vote yes.
  3. In Europe there's actually ayahuasca ceremonies where there's no added DMT leaf. Just the vine. And it still works. How do you explain that, if it were all about the DMT
  4. @Leo Gura Great argument. Almost as good as the "smartassy" deflection. If hordes and hordes of people said eating food off the floor is safe and tastes a lot better, then a truly open-minded person will actually try it, or maintain an agnostic position until they have.
  5. I've tried to do this many times, painfully unsuccessfully, so I don't mean to come off harsh or judgmental. It just never works. Don't expect the average man to be conscious of what actually works on men, don't expect the average woman to be conscious of what actually works on her. She's not the authority you should look to, your own experience is. It's very frustrating but she doesn't know what would actually work on her, even though she'll think she does, so she might be just wrong here and you'll never know. Or she might be right, sometimes people are just not your type, but regardless, bringing up this topic in a logical manner ensures that you'll never date her.
  6. That's up to you. I found I can simply not motivate myself to work consistently on something I'm not deeply passionate about. But if you can, more power to you. Maybe that can get you to a more comfortable place to develop a deeper purpose. Those stories I believe to be real, yes. If you can find holes in the market like that and capitalize on them, you can make a lot of money quickly. Doesn't mean it's not a lot of work. In a way, I kind of resent not being able to do that: I've started and almost immediately stopped a marketing consultancy, I've started to sell 15k coaching programs to corporate entities, but before any real milestones happen I'm struck with the realisation: "I just don't care deeply enough about this" and lose all motivation. So I have to follow the other path: starting from my obsessive interest, then seeing how it can help people and make money.
  7. Yep, just keep it occasional. Np Yes, that works. People hate standing around / sitting around in public transport anyway, they're happy to chat. You may have to encourage them to unplug their earphones, but that's easy. Sounds like your history in the university environment might get you a bit in your head. In that environment, I would just give up on women there and focus on studying and maybe strengthening connections with other males if you can, it can have a mood stabilizing effect for when you do an approach on your way home. But no worries. A very random street approach is easy to do and there's no worrying about reputation.
  8. So you admit that you don't know what you are talking about? I also don't know. I don't have a dog in this fight really. I've never tried Ayahuasca. I'm often skeptical that it will be that great or that different. When friends tell me that it can heal their traumas, I say: come back when you're actually symptom free and tell me that. But I will try it, very soon. And my opinion is that experience is king. If you haven't tried it, you don't know. I thought you were all about that, Leo. Seems like your open-mindedness ends wherever it involves the theme of needing and trusting other people.
  9. It's in your vibe, your eye contact, your body posture, your confidence, your loudness and tone of voice, your facial expressions, your leadership. The content of what you say is the least important part. It doesn't even have to make sense, it just has to pass for somewhat coherent, so that she doesn't go "huh?" So yeah, you can just pull up your phone with google translate on it, as long as you also talk to them in the right way and make eye contact. You can literally have a conversation about nothing, where nothing significant is said, but if you have the vibe of a fun attractive person they will want to see you again.
  10. So you don't need to create 16 options. If you sometimes go into a supermarket, sometimes walk on a busy street and sometimes bike through a park and or go to the gym, then you can just stick to 1 approach a day, wherever it happens to occur, and just keep that habit and stop complicating it, it will work. With the gym, I never really did that a lot but it's certainly possible. Only thing with that is, that it's more of a constant scene with the same people recurring, which means that you have to get to know the guys there as well and talk to them, and you can't do a lot of direct intent game, otherwise you're going to get a reputation as the guy that hits on all the girls. So if you can behave like a genuinely extraverted person who wants to get to know everyone, then you can game in the gym. It's not as simple as cold approach daygame though. I can't go to my regular gym and say "Hey, you're cute I wanted to meet you real quick" to 3 women, and do that again and again. That gets weird. So I would have to spend time getting to know the regular guys, remember their names, getting to know all the people who regularly are there, make smalltalk with them so that I look real popular, then maybe invite someone out for something that seems casual. That was always too much work for me, but I see people do it. Of course if sometimes you have a vibe with someone on the bike next to you, then you can chit chat and get a date. It's just that they're going to be there every Sunday morning, so if you do it regularly, you'll be working out amidst all the girls you asked out already. Which I suppose will work in your favor if you're a stud and they all said yes and you satisfied them in bed. I always found it much simpler to just approach someone in a busy shopping street or a supermarket or a park. Complete anonymity, low effort, no one's looking and gossiping. By the way, just forgot: public transport! I got so many numbers in trains, buses, even airplanes! If public transport is a regular part of your day, you can work in an approach there too.
  11. Hmm, yeah that might be a thing when people really have to strain themselves trying to speak that language. But in the Netherlands, half the classes are in English when you go to university, many university programs are entirely in English, it's really not hard for college-educated Dutch people to speak it
  12. I liked this review. Though I haven't tried it. And I will not, because of this review I will instead buy this: https://youngevityproducts.co.uk/collections/all-products-1/products/beyond-tangy-tangerine?variant=386864066 It includes essential trace minerals, vitamin D, choline, and actually lists the quantities of what it contains. It's really strange for a multivitamin to not list quantities of everything. I think the ingredient list of AG1 is based on what's trendy and customers would respond to, more than it's a well thought-out formula.
  13. @Nilsi I've actually experienced mild effects that reminded me a bit of MDMA fuzziness, actually on viagra that was.
  14. Like I did it? Saying "hey I thought you looked cute, we should hang out"? Texting her and coming over? Like it works anywhere else in a first world country I suppose...
  15. @MarkKol Yes, because Germany is not the Netherlands. Stop conflating Europe like it's one country That's like saying you went to China once and the sushi wasn't very good. German speaking countries all translate and overdub their TV and movies into German, which is why their English skills suck. Although the younger population is catching up on that already. It's just the ones near forty and above that will have lots of question marks above their heads when you talk English at them. NL doesn't translate and overdub, every movie is in English unless it was specifically made in Dutch. Which is why we're good at it.
  16. @MarkKol Yes? Ok 'perfect English' is an exaggeration, but I haven't met one Dutch person under 50 who wasn't comfortable in Engish.
  17. @integral It loads fine for me, must be a misfire because the word "porn" is mentioned in a topic title:
  18. @LSD-Rumi I don't need to call you, I can see from here that you're not stable at all and dangerously unaware of it. Thanks for mentioning my coaching business, but the reason we didn't work together is that I told you at the time that I only work with mentally stable people, since I'm a coach not a therapist. To which you replied: then I'm not ready. Which hasn't changed, even though you seem to think so because one trip made you feel all enlightened. Trauma takes years of dedicated deep work to heal, buckets of tears need to be shed, and that goes for mentally stable people, which are the only ones I work with! So maybe you can see how ridiculous it is to state that yesterday, you were on multiple antidepressants but today, you're fully cured because you met God during an ill-advised experiment with research chemicals mixed with antidepressants. Really not saying this to hurt your feelings dude, this is actually worrisome All the best though.
  19. Well, if people saw a dangerous pattern that mimicked an oncoming manic episode, which has happened before to other people in this forum, wouldn't you want them to warn you? Just in case they could be right? It's not just me you know.
  20. Right, sorry for questioning your awakening. Clearly you are God and fully healed. Teach me Master.
  21. Sounds like a nice experience, but if you're on antidepressants then you've got a lot more "earthly" healing work to do before pursuing hardcore awakening. Also, mixing drugs with antidepressants is dangerous and ill-advised.
  22. @Gesundheit2 People experiencing mental disorders in general, I would say. I expect a deeply empathetic attitude from mental health professionals tasked with treating them, the video in this topic didn't meet my standards for that. The kind of empathy that can only come from having done deep trauma work on oneself. It's a bit tricky because some of the behaviors that come with mental disorders can be extremely troubling to regular individuals who are not in a therapeutic relationship with them, and if they have judgments and lack of empathy towards that, that's only a natural part of being a human I'd say. Part of our difference in this topic could come from that distinction in the nature of the relationship. I've recently interacted with someone with BPD through another forum and I found it to be an upsetting experience and had lots of judgments. So I'm warming up to your point of view a bit more. If you're trying to hint that I got quite triggered by unbalanced behavior this morning, therefore I'm not setting a good example of the standards I preach, I see your point sir
  23. Ironic how much materialism is rampant on this forum. Chemicals we can believe in, but ritual and intention not? Lol. Scientists have actually proven the power of blessing and intentions recently, in double-blind studies, and so it goes way beyond placebo, so your beliefs aren't even up to date. Of course if you want to trip do whatever you want, I don't care. I'm not against that. I'm just saying it's not just about the chemical.