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I have to be focused, optimistic and remind myself that Truth is all there is, that makes me happy

@Ampresus Meditate everyday. And also maybe ask astronauts if you meet some

@Mikael89 You cannot reject the Truth, you cannot run away, it's everywhere. Just look around, the Consciousness around is the Truth.

@Ampresus Could you tell us why you are asking, like the situation that happened to you? I think that would help

A dentist from my family brushes his teeth only once a day for 20 minutes and he doesn't use any toothpaste, he says it's only placebo for feeling like you've brushed your teeth.

@Annonymous Dude messing with your hormones is no joke. Have you listened to all of these talks from trans-gender people? Have you ever talked to a girl deeply about what it means to be a girl, how difficult it is? I mean, if you think it's only about anal sex... First try some no-fap and gym to fix your testosterone and try to at least imagine what it means to be a woman (spending hours in the bathroom, menstruation, discrimination etc...) and then see what you think after that. Making a decision like this is no joke.

@pluto @Nahm Thank you so much ❤

@StephenK It is definitely healthy to have this dynamic in our society, just don't be attached to physical things and don't try to own another person.

@StephenK It's all basically mental construct. You could say it is given by law, but you need to have a non-corrupt army and police to have a well functioning state, where the law actually matters (not the case in many countries in Africa for example), but even these people who have „the power“ still need to maintain their mental construct in order to keep doing their work... That doesn't mean it's bad, it makes our lives easier, but it is not an absolute, all material things are limited, finite and temporary.

@Nahm @pluto Have you guys ever tried reprogramming your mind by listening to audio while sleeping? What do you think about it?

Interesting things going on here... I can connect with a girl very quickly, but then with time it kind of fades away, because I start to convince myself, that she is not right for me. What do you think, is this healthy? Do you think it is caused by high expectations?

Guys, don't be affraid of your feminine side, feel your emotions, hug trees, do yoga in the park, all of that is beautiful and nice, but also don't forget that you need to be decisive, able to face difficulties, don't pretend that you are just girlish... It's nice to live through that when you are hyper-masculine, but it's the balance that really makes it the best. I think you can have both aspects of you healthily developed at the same time, one can be more dominant, but just don't overlook the other.

@pluto You are so beautiful

When I was a kid, we had a girl in our nursery school, she was 5 years old, and she was denying her sex. That was back in 2007 probably, before it was cool even. I don't understand where did that denial come from, I am just throwing out examples.

@Serotoninluv Oh yeah I didnt realize what is prior to what... thanks for reminding me

@Serotoninluv I am just wondering if the lack of acceptance is external, internal, or both enhancing each other mutually... Does it start with denial of sex and then escalate into homosexuality/bisexuality/transgender, or does it start there and then lead to lack of acceptance from the inside? Or maybe there are all these different cases mixed in society. It might seem like I hate them, but I actually love my lgbtq friends and I want to be able to support them better... Maybe I should just behave normally, sometimes that's the best you can do for someone.

@Serotoninluv Interesting, so you think it's only because of the lack of acceptance? Don't you think there might be also some other factors worth considering?

@Serotoninluv What do you think is the relationship between being homosexual/bisexual and depression? It just happens so that all of my female friends who aren't only attracted to guys or not at all also have some psychological issues. Do you think there is any connection?

A conscious action, an action full of life, mindfulness and love

That's a valid point, but only a few people care about it mindfully and that makes the difference.

@Mikael89 If you cared about quality of your everyday experience, you would automatically become attractive to most women. But you only care about suffering

@Voladores Be careful with this „my ego is doing this, my selfishness causes me to do that...“ it is just blaming, limiting beliefs, helplessness. You are in control, nobody else is, you have to fix these things if you want. The ego will not just walk away, if you keep thinking about it.

@Voladores Practice mindfulness. You are not a douchebag. I am a douchebag that's looking at me from inside the mirror is just a thought. If you shut your mind and look at the mirror, who is there?

@remember Don't worry I am not a parent, I am only asking out of curiosity

Sounds like a big project, since most adults aren't gonna be communicating this and it is not realistic to think that these kids would only meet high-consciousness individuals. What would it actually be like if you only met these people, hm... Maybe a person like this wouldn't even be able to feel compassion, because they wouldn't know suffering.