DrewNows

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  1. While i am at peace with this i am little sad to admit this chaotic post resonates with me to an extent so i did some contemplation in essence we give life meaning so we can make it as simple or complicated as we'd like it to be. For most of us, when we were children, life could not have been anymore simple. i am recognizing we have this need to know attitude about life believing that if we can just get enough answers or do enough practice life will change and become this open book of 'freedom' Why must we try to define 'what is' ? Is there anything wrong with not knowing? Keeping an open mind and learning new perspectives to reflect upon is quite valuable but procrastination or denial of life will just create suffering. So i think the most value we can get in life is what we can learn from ourselves. How are we self-critical/judgmental/stubborn/over-analyzing/uncertain? What can we improve on? Spreading love and showing compassion is in our innate being so might as well start with this and see where it takes us
  2. yes desire creating psychological becoming but if someone is not at this point yet then maybe they will only know that suffering gives them a desire to end their suffering When they realize how temporary this is maybe the search will begin to investigate what else is needed? But yes i see it as a delay seeing what is. I feel this "pleasure" should be looked into just as much as suffering when on the path to liberation
  3. @Jack RiverI dont know Jack...making something "worse" in which division is implied may be necessary the first spiritual teacher i learned from (eckhart tolle) expresses the importance of remaining in the now. i believe for him enlightenment was almost instantaneous due to a build up of suffering only the self desires..so if one identifies with the self then there must be a desire to end suffering and become liberated before action now. I never said meditation needed to be part of the process, i am only saying that it could be useful for some as it is a way to quiet the mind even if it doesn't address the main conflicts to liberation
  4. @OuterAppreciate the statistics...setting rationalizations aside, no way will always be the way and until one is ready to let go then maybe practice is applicable. but i still feel if one creates a sense of progress, it will only hold back the dissolving of self/ego to see this, understand the nature of thought/self relationship I've been told understanding the nature of experience phenomenon, the thought/self relationship, and psychological time (and how they interconnect) in daily life is the most significant and direct way to end psychological conflict / false division between experienc / experiencer
  5. @NahmWhat a mayagasmic post of yours! This opinion here is interesting. Is not direct experience in the now more than enough to realize Truth? I am struggling with letting go of the conceptual no-self and realizing embodiment...possibly fluctuating.
  6. @OuterSure we are....we just can't see it. this is what i am investigating....i feel observable understanding is what clarifies the i/me/ego.....as it is only an illusion not a problem to be solved
  7. Ha yes! you can see these thoughts for what they are! A self-feeding loop creating more division of thought-self. What is your purpose for self inquiry? Is it practical? @OuterHow does mind solve it's own created problem? by no way / means / or ideas can freedom from thought self/i be attained. Any thought given to this goal will feed the thought self/i
  8. @okuleleThis sounds very beneficial! Great questions...I have no idea! The unconscious emotions/ suppressed emotions will begin to tell a story, i imagine, and this will help you realize your true self. Eventually I see you being conscious in the now dealing with these emotions as they come which may lead you to lose identity but grow all the more into your true self. At this time you may not wish to continue your practice except for when you feel the need. What a great habit this is to develop
  9. creating a book!?!? HOW EXCITING!!!! Nahm you animal! it must be unique (obviously), bold, dirty, lovely, wizardly, and fictitious. If it cannot fit all of these categories, it will be utter babble. Now i must ask...what do you want from this book? (which i must say is the only pertinent question)
  10. i create the illusion of an ego. It arises within me therefore it is me. It has a purpose...once that purpose is understood, it loses control
  11. If we and the ego are, indeed, the same, then we may have both love and respect for that which is only trying to protect us. the ego always "thinks" it knows what's best for us, but we mustn't give thy ego too much credit for it knows only separateness
  12. @Leo GuraYes i think ill name my next pet "ego"......come here little ego! my little ego loves to take the world so seriously... Gosh he's so critical! He labels, he judges and he has no time for funny business. poor ego... he see's only the destination/goal notices and creates the flaws/boundaries/limitations But where would i be without my ego? who would i be? when would i be? Oh never mind, that's a scary thought! Not ready for a condition-less life... but it gives "me" comfort knowing "one day" ill release this ego or maybe just banish him to the shadow realm until that day comes...suffering will be just around the corner
  13. The video was about 10 false dichotomies in duality from the diamond net channel of @Emerald Definitely some good content on there! What if they want to keep their (false) sense of self?
  14. @How to be wiseultimately, i believe, what he is getting at is that the suffering or emotional problems will never stop being created until the false sense of self is understood
  15. How does one get here? To most this wisdom is possibly painful or even unfathomable Just read an interesting comment on understanding false dichotomy video about recognizing labeling as meaningful/meaningless as we give a false sense of deep value when deciding personal priorities
  16. @Yonkonfor me letting go is like being with a sensation in the body until it is no more with increased awareness comes less attachment and need to let go relinquishing the illusion of control
  17. @SolaceHappiness does seem to prevent resistance what prevents happiness? Do people really choose to suffer? Perhaps they need to suffer?
  18. @How to be wiseIt would be wise to humbly observe robdl and faceless posts as they play on the same field they only post directly observable experience as a means to expand awareness (headlessness) your worry isn't necessary as their pointers will fly over people's heads until they are ready to see truth within or without a head
  19. @Misagh Turiya sounds about right. yes I still have triggers