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I'm making observations while you think you know someone else better than they themselves do.

No, you clearly try to "heal" someone here. That's what you literally said. I don't know you, I merely observe dynamics I've been involved in myself and I can tell you how that's received from the other side.

I don't, I'm pointing out my observations.

See the issue is, you're talking about stuff you have no idea about: What goes on inside someone else. You confuse your conjectures with reality. You're not talking to the other person, you're talking to some projection of yourself. You're not really interested in her, because you've already made up your mind about her. You're not meeting her on eye level, instead you're on some high horse and behave as if you're the one that has a solution to her problem. As if you're more advanced and the other person has to listen to what you say, else they're just running away from the truth — but it's not the truth, it's your interpretation of their behaviour. That's not helpful and instead often leads to the other closing up.

That's extremely dismissive of the emotions of the other person.

It's not your job to be the saviour of anyone. That's just an ego game.

Or it could lead to retraumatization - given that wound you see even exists. I speak from experience because other people tried to do the same on me: Healing by "confronting" me with whatever they thought or felt was off about me. In hindsight it was not only mostly wrong and a lot of projections, it did more harm than good. It merely gave the other person permission to let loose and just be an asshole. If you really want to help you need huge amounts of compassion first, else it could easily become an invitation to be a devil.

Exactly.

In it's absoluteness, it is static, but non-experienceable. What's experienceable on the other hand - and that's what's happening right now - is its eternal and infinite Becoming.

Both, of course.

Even your infinite river and ocean is but a fantasy in the Grand Imagination of the Great Imaginator, creating and destroying all it's own names, images and masks, all at the same time. Everything revolves around it, but can never be reached — but IT IS ITSELF that revolvement. That's the one that can not be spoken of.

We are MANIFESTING what is right now - it's an interactive process. There's nothing to arrive at — even if you think your arrival has been permanent, it isn't. Thank God.

But they literally are worshipping Christ in Jesus. That's a gross misunderstanding of what Jesus tried to convey as I understand it.

Oh, there are way better feelings than a sexual orgasm. It's infinite.

It's manipulation if you make them think they have some kind of spiritual advantage when they have sex with you.

Fortunately, everybody that was here and ever will be is human. Thank God. So we have to think for ourselves, because nobody got all the answers. Maybe there's something beyond.. but we don't know that yet.

Well, there you go. You convince yourself that what you're doing is perfectly fine while you manipulate women to have sex with you. You're victim to your addiction to sex (I think you could call it that if what you said you'd do was actually the case) while everybody else gets to be a victim of you — if they're vulnerable enough. You're not interested in those people, you're only interested in sex. You can do sex as much as you want, no shame in that. But don't try to sell that as some kind of spiritual fantasy. True spirituality goes beyond sex.

Spiritual Awakening is not the end — but a beginning.

Wow, amazing that they really seem to believe this BS. It's soo obvious from outside the US that this is all just a theatrical performance (not the shooting itself, but the fist-bump reaction). Trump is seen as many things, but being really strong is not one of them.

@Leo Gura Thanks for laying that out. I guess one has to be careful not to buy so readily into these types of demonization.

I'm not saying you're wrong, but what exactly do you mean he has done for humanity? I thought the current consensus is that he's just very good at marketing himself as this inventor, when in fact it was other people who built those companies. But I'm willing to change that view based on new information.

Well, I sure hope we got more resistant to it after it happened once.

Please don't have such a defeatist attitude. Even here from Germany it's obvious that Biden would've probably lost.

That's certainly true. The average human is not developed enough to handle drugs if they had been be completely legalized. It shouldn't be a crime to use and possess them, though. Different regulations for different drugs is the way I think. The two worst approaches are: 1) Legalizing everything completely and 2) the full prohibition and war on drugs. Cannabis and other psychedelics can be legalized first - and that's of course already happening. Maybe they contribute to the development needed to give people full personal responsibility with drugs

He's part of that force by all as evil is condemned It always wills the bad yet achieves Good in the end.