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I am 25 and people Always say i look around 18-20... I have a Slim physique... I recently got finished with my studies and planned to join Gym for first month.... As I never been Gym my whole life... Today was my first day.. I need advice any suggestion.. comments...!

@Danioover9000 Ah I get it..... People need to use these stuff carefully though.... ?. ?

I want to speak it out: It is just weird people here take Some sort of psychotropic drugs and claims that they are enlightened and u can ask them anything (the drug is imbalancing the whole brain chemistry) how come such drugs help u people ?? Its like I study any book and then ask My Teacher to ask me anything I am done !!! ?

@Keyhole ??

?? Got it Thank you guys ??

@JosephKnecht so Masturbation is Goo !? I did not actually get what you were trying to convey ! ?

@Loving Radiance ?? wow ! For me t be truthful here, when I was in Mid-School My mom use to make me wear old fashioned clothes and At school my classmates used to make fun of me of how I look... so therefore until now I am insecure of how I will look and what if people rejected me based on my looks and my physique as I am slim. ?

@mandyjw I got it... explained wonderfully ❤️❤️ While Reading this I pictured in my mInd how weirdly and comfortable I am when with my Some rare friends and eventually will try to merge the same open-ness with other people while interacting too... Thank u

As I have Social Anxiety issues and try to overcome it every time I experience it, like certain behaviors..... So I try to release my behaviors.... how should I approach on releasing such behaviors....cuz I find the behavior is the thing which creates social anxiety !

Thank you... i will take points into consideration

@Michal__ updating you... WOW contrast shower was so Exciting... although It is couple minus degrees down outside... I was afraid to Go For the cold water..... HOT-COLD-HOT-COLD It was pretty refreshing and I am so awake full of energy (just out after my very first contrast shower). When I pour the cold water I was like in shock ⛄️ ....

@Michael569 yes sure I will

@Michal__ helpful... pretty excited about the CONTRAST SHOWERS if you can elaborate a little bit ! ?

Yes thank u

Hello Everyone, I am back after quite a long time on this forum, hope everyone is doing well during the Pandemic.... I need some suggestions because I don't seem to have left with any Choices. I am single son of my Mom and Dad,,,,, My MOM believe in God so much,,,, will pray everytime,,,,she seems a bit very compulsive Speaker,,, SHe speaks all the time in the Home and Very Compulsive with Keeping the house clean,,, she Will curse me all the time,,, even though I have not done anything,,,,everytime,,,so will point out my mistakes ,,,, she will let me know everytime how I am not good and Will speak everytime about how I should be In the House,,,, I am a Medical Student and have to study most of the time,,,, But Everytime I am free... even though I dont talk with her,,she will find a way to curse me and tell me how I am not Good enough. I have no choice cannot change home or stuff until I got a Job,,,, She makes me feel anxious and depressed.... My father have no control over and she doesnt speak anything cuz he knows that she will continue to speak... SHe fights with me average all days of the MOnth.... I have no intention of doing bad to her,,,!!!! Sometimes I think I would file a complaint in the police but I am above 20 and there is no benifit for me as I cannot earn..... MAYBE I AM NOT ABLE TO DESCRIBE IN EXACT WORD BUT I AM VERY UPSET BY HER AND HER HABITUAL CURSING ME OVER AND OVER AGAIN,,,, I need some suggestions HOW can I live in such a enviornment. Feeling very sad with my life situation how much do I need to tolerate.

@Preety_India thank you.... I would take that into notice@Jennjenn

I got you all guys.... I was looking for a better way to cope... Moving out is not going to help for me.... I cannot earn myself... And don't have much time because of lot of study hours.... I prefer keeping quiet but quite a lo of times I will argue and get entangled with her.... And then I start throwing words at her for the way she behaves. ? She seems to have a lot of expectations from me and she force me into her decisions of how a life should be

@Preety_India Contact my friends For a living , You probably Indian, you know the situation here,,, I am trying my best But her vocals and 24 hrs vocal and compulsive speaking all the time makes me feel bad and irritated. I cant leave my house.. I have no intentions of anything bad for her... But she cant see her and its me, upon whom she will rage out.... I

I heard somewhere that in the future robots will be evolving the capacity to think by themselves....

@randomguy123 ??

Is there a thing called Healthy Ignoring ? I am afraid that If I ignore people there may be hidden motive underneath and I fail up ignoring them ! I don’t want to talk a lot until I like.

@Rahul yadav Truly speaking.... i was uncomfortable with the first image....pointing what I need to work on—- Seeing and accepting the life as it is and not to create suffering out of it.

? Everything is controlled by the total intelligence. Giving meaning to thought brings out suffering.

?? I would say Boredom to a conditioned mind....

@Serotoninluv i saw me When you mentioned abput climbing trees and catching flies...... I have one question Can Boredom become a gate to presence?